This is because fat people are generally labelled as slow, lazy and smelly. So thats why she get such a treatment. And to tell you girls out there, we guys feel very ashame when bringing fat girlfriend to go out; and we will feel like dying when someone we know saw us dating with a fat girl.

This post has been edited by hatekiasuppl: Jan 19 2008, 09:53 AM

A bit extreme la u. In the first place, why make her your girlfriend if you're ashamed of taking her out and having her being spotted by your friends/family?

The prettier people are, the more challenges the relationship will have. This goes for both guys and girls.

money can cover up the eyes sometimes

welllll, the girl is not extremely fatttt..she is about 160cm tall and within 62-65kg. looks alil matured for a 21 y/o. and that damn guy? freakin short ars* with, well i must admit..a lil on the better looking side (READ: A LITTLE!) .
so does it mean that pretty girls go with handsome guys and the ugly ones will eventually be together? i thought every single person has their right to pursue whatever they want and whoever they like?
why must it be so rigid like this?
so fat people gotta lose weight and ugly people gotta go for plastic surgery in order to get their other half?

argh. reality! crap!
is there a way to change the reality?



kinda true but freakin mean

im around 181 cm with only 65 kg weight and labeled as slim. If 160cm with 65kg if not called fat, then is called fei tut tut. No point to say bad bout the guy now, as the saying says 'cant eat grape, say the grape is sour'. If looks phail you, money can always cover the eye or you can op to go to the blind center and get a handsome blind man for husband.

Anyway, if that girl isnt you and you're not ugly and fat then there's no reason to worry about. Maybe you can ask your friend to go find some englishman as boyfriend, they loves fat girls and are generally more handsome than asian.

yea agree. sorry la gal, a few question to ask you

Will u get a ugly look guy ??
Why u want a guy to choose you but you never improve you self ?
Are you too lazy to improve?
Why blaming people when u never try to improve ?

there =) if u can answer i think u should know what to do. ^^

Why not ask your friend to try date a nerd who is fat and never had a girlfriend and always get rejected. I am very sure she will get a bf if she send a picture to him. But why want to be so choosy?

If girls are choosy, so are the boys.

yea, but u know human always want more =P this is reality dude. U think there something can change reality ? if there is there one >> http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/614315 see how people response to it .. that reality same goes to appearance =[ sorry to hurt you. but is true... i'm fat little guy last time. no people want me.. but improve. make yrself better then anyone else.

you ain't slim, you are underweight, eat more and go gym

haha, appearance. As unimportant as we want it to be, ironically, it's the thing everyone sees FIRST when they look at you. Plus, as many of us has said, the media. It's a passive brainwashing that makes everyone expect only the beautiful.

For me, I used to be in this category where I'm only acceptable as a friend. It's very hurting when you try to kow someone...and kononnya, the reason they reject you is, I really think we should be good friends. But they never really tell you that, you're too fat to be my boyfriend.

Due to that kinda trauma, and people used to call me, Fatboy, vainness suddenly befell me. Lol. Worked out, and tried so hard to lose weight. Managed to finally get my shape when I was in Form4. AND THEN people start giving me the right responses. The first thing they ever say when they see me is "Wow, you lost weight! =)"

It's not to say appearance is everything. But it's just inconvenient, that our society nowadays demand perfection. JDramas, KDramas, Anime....Perfect guys there. And when they see people who're slightly imperfect, they shun.

Truly, there is a need for more people to see what's inside rather than just looks. I have a girlfriend. And I admit that she's not the best looking girl out there. All my friends gave me weird looks when I told them. They'd probably just give her 5/10. But what they don't know is that what's in her makes her so much more beautiful than all the superficial leng luis out there. And that's what matters, doesn't it? The heart.

Forget the face,attack the base. Hole is more important.
You're the man.

Girls also pick their boyfriends. They want their boyfriend to be taller than them, handsome, preferably rich.

I have had girls look down on me just because I am shorter than most guys but not too short.

This is the real world ! Live with it.

You should find guys who are not handsome, poor, short in height to match your criteria. Don't look for tall, rich, handsome guys as they have lots of options !

Handsome guys = pretty girls

Pretty girls = rich guy

Pretty girls = tall guy



This post has been edited by pucman: Jan 19 2008, 12:54 PM

well.. that's kinda true in a way. A lot of people judge another by appearances.. BUT appearances matter a lot in this world. There's a saying that says "You are what you wear". Not sure if it's entirely true but how you appear (not talking about looks) reflects your character and the type of person that you are.

The other thing is that your friend should look for the right kind of people to befriend. Looking for a bf among people that just wants good looking people is simply barking up the wrong tree. If it's not about looks, it's about money/wealth, etc. So, stop whining and look elsewhere for what you want.

Let's face it. Everyone is realistic to a certain extend. Would you date some poor guy? Would you date some guy who dresses like a beggar? Would you even allow your boyfriend to dress like some beggar? Making new friends and making boy/girlfriends out of new friends is one issue that really doesn't relate. The guy stated that he will never accept your friend as a girlfriend but he didn't say that he wouldn't be her friend, right?

lol.. means asking her to choose u la.. hahhaa..

Sorry, although I am a bit shorter than most guys but I am leng chai .

Omg.. perasan nyeee~~

Looks arent everything, but for those who say looks dont matter, i say go fvck yourself.


Everyone wants the most fertile/proportionate/physicallyPerfect partner they could find.


There is a reason why nerds and disproportionate girls have trouble finding dates.



Call it evolutionary pressure to look for the best person to share your genes with.

Call it vanity

Looks matter more than many people would like to admit.



Some people say they found true love bla bla bla, and their partner isnt a supermodel bla bla bla.... but in reality when they look at themselves in the mirror, they arent that beautiful/socially_dominant and could never hope of doing a supermodel in the first place... and had to settle for less - which they eventually call love to feel good about themselves.

is it wrong to love some one who is beautiful ? cheers

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Added on January 19, 2008, 2:24 pmheh, from what i look she is choosing too, cheers

This post has been edited by nickisthemost: Jan 19 2008, 02:24 PM

No, they dont.


An unattractive girl will eventually find a guy desperate guy who's willing to lower his standards enough (cuz he doesnt stand a chance with the prettier ones).


An unattractive guy will eventually find a guy desperate girl who's willing to lower her standards because no other guys want her.

my bet is on that you were friends before becoming a couple.

if a girl is fugly, and a total stranger, for hell would anyone doing quite okay respond to her initiatives.
unless compassion.
okay looks can be complemented with nice demeanour, but no amount of nice personality can make a stranger like you when they do not even want to get to know you.

then again, if the guy has already treated you as a friend(family type), its a sad case also.

[addon]
however, hope is not lost.
recent case study, angie. she got pregnant and a quite okay looking bf. try to get some tips from her if you're really desperate.

This post has been edited by kenny B: Jan 19 2008, 05:07 PM