be sure he not long wif u liao
so have to pretend independent and mature and strong

better is try to share to family
let them understand you
their will always stand at ur side de

and me oso will support u de...
go go cheer up...

will become better when time past..

maybe u can try a new haircut? u will feel better... cuz u got a new look, you will feel more confident to start anew without him. try to fill up time wif frends, cuz frends can always make u laugh n smile. so you won;t keep on think of the sad stuff....

don`t put too much affection to the relationship till you think of your future ahead with her.. Be cool..

Do you all believe in fate?

Try to read some books....read till u're tired and fell asleep. That's good

pray to GOD.
u will get a beter partner.thats life.

try hang out with ur single groups..i mean ur best frens la..
who noes ul get a beter partner soon..

on the otherside, sum1 might be waiting for u quite a long time liaw..

Is it possible to forget your ex?

ya.its easy when u noe that there is plenty of chances out there..and noe that ur not blind enuf to see who actualy care for u when ur lonely..hahah!!!
belef me..don regret of breaking off!its a whole new life again for a better partnership!!

Sometimes it's hard to forget him especially when you don't know what went wrong in the relationship

EAT SLEEP GYM

courtesy from NIKE JTI

To me very frank, for me, it is really not easy to recover from broken heart.

Broken heart is not only stand for people who break out. Sometime, if you really love with someone, you put effort a lot but result don't pay. This is absolutely breaking your heart also.

Relationship problem, is not easy to recover.

Many people suggest a lot of ways to forget him/her. But I don't think is too easy, because no matter how, you must have resting time. The bad feeling will attacking during when you are driving, bathing or even on the bed when you gotta sleep.

Just the most important things is stay positive. Not to be too negative if you got failure in relationship. Trust yourself you are a nice guy/girl and someone will love in you next time.

Sometime, he/she will comeback in your mind also because you feel lonely. Even it was a failure relationship, even you don't wish to see him/her, I'm sure you still hope he/she can accompany you when you are lonely. You will remind yourself back the previous happiness moment. Although it was painful, but you still enjoy the pain. I think this is normal. I guess, usually people will only forget his/her ex after times or get in new relationship.

Although I'm sharing my opinion here, but I don't know what I'm writing about. So if you can't understand me, is normal.

well, it's time to pick up a new HOBBY... that will ease the pay, divert your focus away from the pain.

And most importantly, you can keep on empower yourself , keep on moving forward till............... you ready to let go of your "pain".
You will feel better, think better and you will be fine.

Very well put

Btw i understand what you are talking about so does this mean im abnormal

I went bonkers and bought a new plasma, new rims, Ipod, handphone, expensive clothes and then went on a dining spree!

and now im left with a very beautiful credit card bill, but felt good! ... hehe

This post has been edited by khangchween: Jan 13 2008, 03:41 PM

get a new one?haha

KhangFai, are you a writer or engineer?

very detail.. were you hurt before? Or did you jot down every kind of your feelings?

Well, the sad thing is, KhangFai is right, indeed.

But... cheers!!

What a surprise the question u ask me....

I m a fresh graduate engineer....hahahaha

yeah, KhangFai is rite... sweet memories and hurting memories will be planted deep inside our brain and heart.. it will not get away even when time pass by... but by this kind of memories, u will learn to be better man..

i once have a same problem with u... bad memories can be trigger by many ways, such as music.. it brings back ur sweetest memories..

all i can say is, LOOK FORWARD and GET STRONGER.. they is almost imposible to forget ur sweet memories in a year or 2 or maybe even longer..

try to hang out more with frens, and regain better moments to cover ur hurting feelings now.. u need great support from all kind of sources.. and HELL YEAH i will support u... ehehehe

forget all the silly thought of getting back together. If u cant let go of it, u are not moving anywhere beyond the relationship. As long as you believe you might get back together, you will not let the person go.

Allow yourself to be sad. Yes ..get sad,mad or whatever if u like. Give yourself some time like a month or two..You will feel slightly better day by day and eventually, the thought of your ex will not generate any sad feelings. But, just make sure you make an effort to not use this as an excuse for being a hermit many months later.

Many ppl will start thinking how their life will be without their partner.Stop having negative thought of how your life going to be without him/her but think in another way.Think how lucky are you to experience something special in your life..Without this relationship, will u ever have this kind of experience? So be grateful as it happen on you..

You cannot truly move on from the failed relationship until you emotionally lay it to rest. It take time to recover and rebuild a shattered confidence. Do not force yourself but take your time to recover fully from it.

This post has been edited by genesic: Jan 16 2008, 01:01 AM