errr I feel glad that the girl entirely cut off your hope

idk TS you're dense or what but I don't think your wife is really 100% agree from her heart, most might not realise as well
what they say from their mouth often contradict from their heart

and why do you even still 'care/worry' for here after so many years...?
you can be genuinely kind and care about every ppl, but to actively seek out and to be 'curious' about her wellbeing/current situation/how is she doing is not the kind of 'care' you're thinking already
I think you're just masking the emotion with care and worry about friend, you might not even notice it on your own?

and tbf there are waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many females will already get super triggered when you say you care/worry about another female even if it's random person, and not to mention the way you write here is def. not like normal care/worry
your wife still can really let you do this? you better treat her super well.

This post has been edited by bergstein: Dec 11 2025, 02:17 PM