About 10+ years ago, had sort of 'love relationship' (long distance relationship/LDR), she wrote and broke up with me because of incompatibility.
Then, she ghosted me forever, I tried to search her through social media but to no avail.

Time heal me, I moved on. Once a while I tried to search, again same thing, nothing.
I decided to continue on our separate paths in life.

Life isn’t always easy/ups & downs, but I’m thankful finally have real love in my life, my marriage and my child make everything worthwhile and (those previous relationships suffering I have no love feeling for them anymore).

I search her again, the name and location looks very familiar, and then tried to connect to her.
"Hi" to her. She replied, "Hello, it's been a while...".

I’m hoping she replies, but if that’s the only message I receive, I’m content.
Along with wife's permission, I want to be friend with her again (not love relationship).

(Disclaimer: She is my ex best friend, but anyway, she is from very far distance away from MY)

This post has been edited by JimmyX: Dec 8 2025, 08:39 AM

And.... You are telling us this because?

Rindu piap2 with ex?

milok overdosed

bcum ukeked

Same thoughts here.

Ts already decided, tell us for what

Cerekarama Milo.

it always starts with 'wanna be friend'... the age old k0teh itchiness... starting to creep up to TS again after marry...

Musim hujan

Bullshit lah no feeling

If you've truly moved on you wouldn't occasionally be searching for your ex.

You gatal jer, playing 'what if' scenario in your head.

So which one is more addicted to milo? Your wife or ex, there lies the answer you seek

Whaaat? 😁

You content but still looking for ex after hitched + kid.
Message summore.

Now, wannabe friend with ex with wife's permission 😁
You either very lucky or dont know women 🤣

Good luck 👍😁

can try to send milo 1.8 kg to her during 12.12 sales

inb4 spotty biru versi milo

cakap jer la didi gatal and now u wanna spread milo on her

2 bullshit lies from you

1) Time heal me, I moved on.

2) I want to be friend with her again (not love relationship)

If Kukujiao gatai sila pergi melancap. Close thread please

This post has been edited by xeNOS: Dec 6 2025, 07:35 PM

OMG .. please don't.
It's a trap... your wife might seems cool and all, but deep down she is hurt by your actions.
Now imagine your wife suddenly ask you that she just found where her ex is and will want to reconnect the dots again.. but only as a friend.

You have a family now with a kid and most importantly ... representing Milo.

This post has been edited by Capt. Marble: Dec 6 2025, 07:41 PM

everything also start from friend one

my indon maid told me to tell you to stop disturbing her. she is busy cleaning up after cooking dinner

ts wants to put cream into her milo lettew

Piap saja

Nowadays curang is the norm

U r still obsessed with her. Have some dignity please. Shame to the male species. After so many years why still want to contact be friends. Don't kid your self.

baurua tercabar issit

The post smelled like old perfume and older regrets.
A man rambling about a love he swore he buried, but still digs up every few years like a dog that never learned where it left the bone.

He talked about healing. About moving on. About his wife and child filling the hole in his heart. But the words didn’t walk straight. They staggered. Like a drunk trying to convince the bartender he’s sober enough for one more glass.

You don’t write a whole confessional just to say “Hi” to an old flame.
Not unless you’re chasing ghosts… or hoping one still remembers your name.

He said his wife gave permission. That’s when I knew the truth had teeth.
When a man starts pre-emptively defending himself, it’s not innocence he’s guarding. It’s intent.
Fragile, half-formed, hiding behind the word “friendship” like a kid behind a sofa when the thunder cracks.

This wasn’t about reconnecting.
This was about validation.
The kind you can’t get from a wedding ring or a mortgage or a kid’s school report.
The kind only a chapter you never finished can give you.

He said he’s “content” even if she never replies.
But hope was dripping from every word like blood from a fresh wound.

No… this wasn’t closure.
This was a man standing at the door of his past, knocking softly, praying someone still lives there.

And pretending it’s all harmless.
Pretending it’s all pure.
Pretending he just wants to talk.

But the past never just talks.
It whispers.
It tempts.
And sometimes… it burns.

Habis la ts marriage

Jimmy, you know you gonna die tonight while you are sleeping if your moi moi have secret excess to your kopi acc right? Right?

drink milo and chill for another 10

Piap je lah

this 1 9m2w also

Ts dunno wonly. From her ex side, that time she probably juggle between ts and 2,3,5 or even 10 other online male beta orbiters…

Its online man, you will never know…

Same woso last time got rich girl crush on me quite hard. She got a chubby best friend. Kinda like me as well. Then the girl gradually lose interest on me. Her best friend leak to me she have an affair with a rich married professional football guy….

anneh got piap her or not

No ler. Anneh not u gais kturds top 5% chad. My love life story bery typical. The girl i really want and chase reject me. The girl i dont rate chase me. The usual below average plebs in the dating market dilema.

Drillz mana?

What is that for?? Just move on lah. No need fren fren. Focus on your family liao

Guy and girl can never be friend.

You still have her in your mind.

It's simple, she still matters to you, even if it's tiny bit.

If she ask you out, you'll feel surprised and happy, don't you?

wtf move on lah. Even if your wife agrees secretly she will not be happy

Bodo asking for trouble. Tak pasal2 go create issue.

Typical cheater all started with "friend"

Do you seriously think your wife would allow you to re-konek with your ex?

Not a chance in hell.

Unless you oredi turn ghey.


And in the highly unlikely event that she agrees, she would be watching you like a hawk. You want your life to be suffocated by an untrusting spouse?

Forget it la dude. Move on.

BUT if your intent is PURELY just to paip the ex for old time's sake (or maybe she's better at sarking your kok than the wifey), you'd better not let your wife have a clue on this unexpected re-konektion. Pandai makan, pandai simpan. But you know the risks la - only you can answer whether worth it or not

its better not to be friend , it just gonna destroy ur marriage

Natorare

current wife dead fish?

Ex skill better & wife cold dead fish...😁

Ex skill better & wife cold dead fish...😁

Good job, now let's hope your wife find another better man then you and leave you with the kids. That's the icing on the cherry

Reporting this thread to TS' wife

Baru kawin sudah mau tumpang sampan lain....

TOPKEK

already got newborn kid
insap la TS

konfirm no friend relationship one la

diu

ITT kkj itchy.



TS suda ada anak isteri milo still want to find ovaltine lama kennot forget?



Insaplah jantan hina.

Diu, TS. I easily have three exes on speed dial. Can piap one easily anytime. But you don’t see me open tered to brag about it.

Insaflah, Milo dude.

the piap that got away

Thanks for concerning.
That girl is not from Malaysia anyway, that's why LDR.

Move on. Some doors are best left closed.

how to dig own hole
jump self in
pikachu face later

Come back again when your wife cut off ur didi while in sleep

no means no. otherwise it is just stalker.

bsyet you want fk

TS hasn't really moved on.

JimmyX isn’t the first Milo nerd who suddenly wants Ovaltine on the side and he won’t be the last.

And Malaysia’s law pretending this doesn’t happen?
That’s the biggest joke.

⚖️ 1. Bigamy laws under LRA 1976 don’t stop the behaviour. They only punish the second woman.

Before 1982, Civil Law didn’t make bigamy an automatic criminal offence.
Many Catholics, had two wives, one household, zero legal battles.

Since 1982, the LRA criminalised bigamy but didn’t remove the human behaviour that leads to it.

Now what happens?

• Man still finds a second partner
• First wife gets blindsided
• Second woman gets ZERO rights
• Children (if any) get mixed-status complications
• Man risks jail, but rarely actually gets charged
• Society pretends “this doesn’t happen”
• So the law protects nobody. It just creates losers.

🥄 2. If JimmyX “Ovaltines” behind the scenes, the second woman is legally invisible.

When Milo nerd wants Ovaltine… Fine. His stomach, his problem.

But if he drinks Ovaltine in secret, what happens?

• Ovaltine has no legal status
• Milo doesn’t know what’s going on
• The kitchen becomes a war zone
• That’s what LRA 1976 does today.
  It forces men to hide, and punishes the woman who chooses to be the second partner.
• Why should she be left unprotected?

⛪ 3. Historically, Malaysia DID allow it. Even for Catholics.

I personally knew someone:

• He lived happily.
• Both wives knew.
• The community accepted it.
• The law allowed it.
• Even Samy Vellu had a second wife.

So why is something normalised in the past suddenly a crime today?

Human behaviour didn’t change.
Only the law did and not necessarily for the better.

📜 4. Revision ≠ encouraging cheating. It’s regulating a reality.
Legal recognition doesn’t “promote” bigamy.

It regulates:

• consent of the first wife
• financial transparency
• property rights
• inheritance fairness
• maintenance obligations
• protection for ALL children

Most importantly:
It stops women from being collateral damage.

🧠 5. The current law creates the PERFECT conditions for disaster.

JimmyX is already:

• Reconnecting old flames
• Seeking emotional validation
• Hiding behind “wife’s permission”
• Clearly interested in Ovaltine again
• Pretending he’s just being friendly

This is EXACTLY how modern bigamy starts today; quietly, emotionally, then legally explosive.

Instead of criminalising reality, regulate it properly.

🛠️ 6. Proposed Reform.

1. Permit a second civil marriage ONLY if Wife #1 gives notarised consent
2. Mandatory financial disclosure
3. Maintenance and inheritance rules applied equally
4. Protection for all children from both households
5. Failure to comply = offence

This protects:

1. First wife
2. Second wife
3. Children
4. Property
5. Society

The only loser is secrecy and hypocrisy.

If Milo nerds like JimmyX are going to sneak Ovaltine anyway, better we legalise, regulate, and protect everyone instead of pretending “no one drinks anything except Milo.”

Go eat some nice food at Penang lah..waste time on 10 years ago punya ex lolzzz

Neslo exist for a reason

Ts, dont do it.

And it doesn't tastes nice oso.

later find out jos wife ntr with alot of holick guy

what the prompt you provide to get such controlled content?

wife permission?

TS just sendiri cari sakit

this gonna be good

Wife give permission bcoz behind she banging her ex, ex ex, ex ex ex also.

Cakap wife child in end sendiri kukubird itchy want revisit old siham

Okay guys, disclaimer... She is my ex best friend, but anyway, she is from very far distance away from MY

What if she one day comes back to Malaysia and want to meet up at hotel?

It doesn’t matter. The fact that you desperately looking for a woman for a long period of time and wanting to be her friend, will forever be a “bullet” to your wife that she will use whenever you quarrel with her.

Kalau gatal Kasi Garu.

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Finalcountdown25

Jimmy, you got wife and kid. Please think of them.

TS sudah gatal dah...

gud horse dun eat return grass

Never go back to past. Let it be or it will consume you

This post has been edited by RT8081: Dec 8 2025, 08:38 AM

The wife probably looking for an excuse to piap outside

Or maybe alrdy happened but just wanna let TS get even to reduce guilt

Must be her sucky sucky or riding good...

I search her again, the name and location looks very familiar, and then tried to connect to her.
"Hi" to her. She replied, "Hello, it's been a while...".

Why though? I too moved on from rejection and all but never look for those ladies anymore, don't even give any fuck about their wellbeing. No such thing as "Oh i just saying hi to an old friend" or "We just friend", you don't cut open your healed wounds.

lel

TS stucked in the passed

Moved on la, wife and kids are your future. Not ex.

What if you're the one who rejected them but u feel pity

I guess same thing don't contact them to open their healed wounds.

nice one.... where did you find it.

one miss the old time, but situation and people aint the same anymore.
just like us ... nostagic about old game as well.... we miss the memory, the freedom, the naiveness and simple life back then. Playing the game is a fragment of the memory- but it wont bring back the overall feeling.

i just confessed to my secondary school crush when now i have 5 kids.

i told her nothing will change from our conversation.

ultimately, she said even if i am single now, we wont be compatible...

Wow.... 5 kids.

yes basketball team.

Alasan...wanna be friend

Heheheh

Yup, whatever is it, since cat's out of basket, start scheming on how are you going to rail her til her eyes roll up.

Else, its just not worth it losing your family over an ex.

Always remember, men and women operate and have support system differently; men sacrifice their happiness to have peace, but women can sacrifice their peace for their happiness.

Not necessarily, I still search my ex on social media once a while, just to see how she's doing. And the fact that she's still single gives me more confidence on my life choices. Lol

my setori is almost same.
broke up but still friend.
later interested woo her housemate.
dunno why, talk gibberish stuff like mentioned ex being dumb to the housemate.
after that things gone bad... no more contact, lost contact for more 20 years.
still hoping to contact her & ask how is she & the family... yesterday kinda saw her at aeon but not sure, now so fat & old edi...
so dare not approach to ask... just wish her all the best...

typical attention horse lo what else

This i don't know because i'm too ugly to reject or even attract any ladies, but if i really do i still won't contact them. It is not nice at all giving people false hope though you only thought greeting them as a friend, they will misunderstood you.

can share?
where is it so i can avoid

so u told ur wife u keep search for the ex name on social media? and she allowed u two to be friends again? what bs is this?

I have three exes.
Recently I contacted two of them, just to reconnect and maybe get some closure.
First ex – I added her on Facebook, she accepted, then a few hours later she blocked me. No explanation. I just took it as a sign she doesn’t want any contact, so I backed off and moved on.
Second ex – We broke up around 15 years ago. I reached out, we caught up on life, and we ended up as friends. The love is still there in a way, but now it’s just part of our history. Memories only.
I did ask her if she wanted to meet up, but she said it would be too painful. I respected that and didn’t push. We just stay as online friends.
For me, contacting them wasn’t about rekindling anything. I’m married now, happy with my life. Sometimes you just want to close old chapters properly and be at peace with your past. Having some leftover feelings doesn’t mean you want them back, it just means you once loved them a lot. What matters is you know your boundaries and you respect your spouse and your exes.

I’ve had a few exes. My first relationship was quite traumatic, and I didn’t bother seeking closure at the time. However, she and I eventually talked things through and found closure later on but never talk again.

This friend I’m talking about now is different. she’s a really good friend. Because she’s very busy and lives far from me in Malaysia, I made the mistake of relying too much on online conversations with her. Eventually confessing my feelings.....and then we went our separate ways. That’s all in the past.

Even though I’m now married with kids, I’ve been dealing with health issues, worries and a lot of negative thoughts lately. She is the first person who understood right away even after 10+ years of separation. She could tell I was concerned about my family, my kids and the future because of my health issues, and she gave me pretty good advices.

Most of the time, my male friends don’t take these sensitive topics seriously. Either they joke about it or brush them off, 'relax bro'. Female friends tend to be more understanding. Men and women can be friends, not everything has to be something more (romantic way, etc).

I know my boundaries, and those past things make me realize that I’ve learned to value the friendship more than ever.