I got to know this girl from gym- she works there.

One day- she called me up and said she was fired from her job. I got to know that she was having affair with the gym owner who is married.

Me being a gentlemen took her out for coffee to listen to hear her stories.

From that day on- she called me everyday- talking about everything. This go on for like 2 weeks- she would talk for hours.

I tried to help her get a job- constantly updating her any openings.

She got a job- then notice her behaviour change.

One day- she ghosted me and blocked me on whatsapp. No reason given.

I felt quite bad- sumting like im being used.

I wonder what wrong i did


P.S : During our phone conversations- i did mention to her that i like her as a FRIEND only.

Indian

Yes, you are right.

I was very kind to her.

Exactly-

You are right.

I am justly deeply hurt that a person i called my friend would do that to me.

i was not interested in her in the romantic sense. I only said that i liked her as a FRIEND only.

Does your friend ghosted you and blocked you on whatsapp and social media ??

Till to day- i felt really angry and dissapointed- for how i have treated her and helped her all along the way since she was fired from work.

Look here Professor- i have already BLOCKED her on whatsapp.

Update:

After 3 weeks of no contact- i decided to email her- asking her reason being ghosted/blocked.

I told her that i am not looking to be your friend again - but more of a closure.

I am not stuck to her-all i want to know is the reason she ghosted/blocked me.

Thats all- so im peace with myself.

UPDATE : After i emailed her- she replied today.

This is what she wrote :

Hello what happened suddenly you text me like this when I had feelings with you ? And when I did ghosted you it’s just u blocked me suddenly and the job you recommended me also I didn’t get all that just play full and who are you to tal. About my personal life with people if you dare call and talk la hello u think what suddenly yelling to me

Pleas note the broken english she has.

And then- she unblocked me on whatsapp.

UPDATE :

I FUC^ED UP THE WHOLE THING.

She called me up and said she never blocked me- and told me that i was the one who blocked her.

She said i was childish. And she said she never had any feelings for me. I told her that you ghosted on me for weeks.


Somehow, i feel that she is right. I told her that you were right- my male ego got the better of me. I was selfish.



Guess, its time to move on.