I got to know this girl from gym- she works there.

One day- she called me up and said she was fired from her job. I got to know that she was having affair with the gym owner who is married.

Me being a gentlemen took her out for coffee to listen to hear her stories.

From that day on- she called me everyday- talking about everything. This go on for like 2 weeks- she would talk for hours.

I tried to help her get a job- constantly updating her any openings.

She got a job- then notice her behaviour change.

One day- she ghosted me and blocked me on whatsapp. No reason given.

I felt quite bad- sumting like im being used.

I wonder what wrong i did


P.S : During our phone conversations- i did mention to her that i like her as a FRIEND only.

Chinese woman?

Why worry about someone who is already out of your life? If she wants to come back she will, if not don't bother and move on.

Some people are just crazy.

Indian

U dodged a ungrateful slut dude
Be grateful on that
Save ur effort, time and money

Move on, she just use you for her benefits

Yes, you are right.

I was very kind to her.

she is immature, after lost her job then she blocked you.

Forget it. Consider ur time and effort in good use helping a stranger.

Exactly-

She belongs to the street. This kind of attitude won’t last her long in new working environment

You are right.

I am justly deeply hurt that a person i called my friend would do that to me.

Why u say this since u are clearly interested in her?

If just friends, i have friends I hardly talk to nowadays (coz of busy life) but I dont get upset.

This post has been edited by Cubalagi: Sep 22 2025, 07:36 AM

i was not interested in her in the romantic sense. I only said that i liked her as a FRIEND only.

Does your friend ghosted you and blocked you on whatsapp and social media ??

Till to day- i felt really angry and dissapointed- for how i have treated her and helped her all along the way since she was fired from work.

which gym?

U are not interested in her romantically?

Then why post in this cupid corner forum?

Not enough information to judge the situation. One thing for sure, she lacks tact for abruptly ghosting and blocking you, but it's anyone guess (even yourself) to say it was because you "friend zoned" her. Maybe there were other words or actions someone said around the same time? We'll never know. Does it matter though? She just proved herself to be not worth the friend, you lost some time but st least you found out early enough, before... say, lending her RM 10k for example.

Agreed with Cubalagi, I find it interesting it's in this sub forum 🤭

Well well well, this is then a classic case of Sigmund Freud's unconscious desire

The superego (the righteous conscience) would say man and woman can be just best friends

The id (unconscious desire) here reflects he wants to get into her pants

Look here Professor- i have already BLOCKED her on whatsapp.

Update:

After 3 weeks of no contact- i decided to email her- asking her reason being ghosted/blocked.

I told her that i am not looking to be your friend again - but more of a closure.