TS, dont stress urself. If uncomfortable just tell her how u feel.

IMHO.... even 2 days every week is too much lo...

once or twice a month still acceptable.
if really group activities, no hanky panky can also include you to join the makan or activities

if just gf, dump and run
if married, then need to sit down
if got kids, good luck TS...

I also got acquaintance,
story is female got to know another guy
always go hiking in the weekend, dinner after work, etc....
guy no property, no fancy car, work as salesman only
female drop the husband got nice house, nice car to be with the guy
kids all under husband, get to see the kids on weekend only.
end up rent condo with the guy after leaving the husband

I reckon the guy happy get car and makan milf
milf happy get makaned by another person

husband sour get green hat
kids sad cause mom not around anymore but dunno the family dynamics, maybe kids happy je

You sound similar to the doctor kelantan case.

To be very straight, something is wrong with your wife. She's not acting normal.

You need to be prepared.

it might just be a phase she need or want to go thru

Shes probably have a crish on someone in the group?

Daily wor thats damn weird.

Already married and if have kids have so much time to hangout with outside male frens kaa?

Also, a very wise old man always say. Watch what she do, not what she said.

Shes probably have a crish on someone in the group?

Daily wor thats damn weird.

Already married and if have kids have so much time to hangout with outside male frens kaa?

Also, a very wise old man always say. Watch what she do, not what she said.

Shes probably have a crush on someone in the group?

Daily wor thats damn weird.

Already married and if have kids have so much time to hangout with outside male frens kaa?

Also, a very wise old man always say. Watch what she do, not what she said.

Also, to be on the safe side. Hire a private investigator. Let him take the photo. Video. Collect physical evidence…

Get to know her male friends. Insist joining her gathering.

Then can decide if ok or not.

errrmm she may hv caught the pickleball bug...
are u not welcomed to join her in the games? maybe can bring along the kids to watch their mommy plays

i think you to deep talk with your partner la.

if things cannot be resolved then it's time to move on.

Engage a private investigator? Maybe that will give you a peace of mind and the absolute truth you need.

Divorce saja, no need milk her then let her with other men happy

Honestly you deserve better, you dun marry her and take care of her so she can go out buat bukan2 other guys out there

Whoa. That sucks. So you're stuck with the responsibility every day or do you have a nanny that handles them for you? I used to have badminton sessions 3-4 times a week but stopped after having kids. Wife had a lot of social activities with her friends as well, but she reduced to once in a few months nowadays. We spend more time with the kids and give each other breaks because handling them is so stressful. Can't imagine my wife being out 4-6 days a week leaving the 2 kids for me to handle alone.

I know I am very blunt about this matter. hey... I am not affected cos she is not my wife. You brought this up in lowyat about your wife... so you clearly are prepared to hear anything from us....so I give you the full uncensored and the highest possible scenario.

HOWEVER.... we didnt hear her side of her story.... so I am not going assume that she is 100% wrong for now. Who knows...you could be a very hot tempered guy with some really terrible attitude yourself? Or you could be earning a lot less than her until she could not respect you ? Or you could have caused her agonising pain with your harsh words at home?

There are 2 sides of the coin. What we hear now is only 1 side...and that side is from you only.

So confirm already?