while it's a.......common recommendation
not to hook up anyone at workplace

i say
beggars (for the lack of a better word) can't be choosers

not all of us are lucky enough to find partners outside our usual circle of acquaintances

"a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush"
go for it if opportunity strikes by all means
for chances like this don't always pop up

glad you found yours buddy :-)
tempat kerja ka bukan, janji temu
lifestyles play an important role
some of us are not socially that very active, plus it's not cheap hanging out
there'd be times when we're a hermit living within the corners of our room, never venturing out too much,
mana mau jumpa teman macam ni



This post has been edited by machomama: Oct 3 2025, 04:11 PM

HR take these cases v seriously
and if valid, kena!
why la go send dunno what all late at night - sendiri cari pasal ppl all sometimes learn the hard way

sorry to say, ur fren case looks like got some parts omitted or could be entirely one sided thingy that's why prolly ended up like that
tackling sweethearts in the office require proper planning and homework (but don't go beyond and overthink too much, ppl in lalaloveland tend to overdo things)
minimum 200% confirmation from the other party, then only deploy 2nd stage actions
go gradual, never rush

unfortunately sometimes
we never know until we try, takes guts, never easy, then agn to some, it's in their blood to behave this way

never try
later down the years.......regret