best not to bother with office politics or show of authority at this point in time
Problem with Manager
Problem with Manager
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Aug 2 2025, 11:51 PM
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best not to bother with office politics or show of authority at this point in time
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Aug 3 2025, 12:04 AM
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Your boss is just a manager aka kuli in the company why should you give a damn especially since you're leaving show her who's the real boss and make sure to CC her boss and the big boss as well who knows who she's been going to Coldplay concerts with...
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Aug 3 2025, 03:45 AM
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QUOTE(ry8128 @ Aug 2 2025, 09:59 PM) Sounds like you are someone who are easily triggered. Or someone who not used to work in harsh and dynamic environments. I beg to differAnyhow, the way i see it is, the manager is not questioning you. More like she know nothing about those jobs, hence asking many question to learn how to do it. The presence of new joiner serves as 2 purposes: - as an excuse that she is getting the new joiner to learn in case u ask her why she did that - and a lesson for the new joiner so in future he/she can do such jobs without troubleing her. Main point: your manager know nuts While most of your points are valid, managers need to know everything on the high level, but not on the technical details, so it falls to subordinates to handle the stuffs that TS complain about. So yeah he’s someone easily triggered, only one above average and he’s already bragging lol wawasan2200 and ry8128 liked this post
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Aug 3 2025, 04:22 AM
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QUOTE(GambitFire @ Aug 2 2025, 08:21 PM) She then sent a series of messages in that group, questioning how certain figures were derived, asking for supporting documents, and demanding explanations. This sounds like she wants the processes to be detailed and documented so the junior and others will know hpw to go about it. Unless you are saying your processes are different from the SOP and they are questioning your methods, then that's a different issue and just needs to be explained; if your way is correct and better then justify it. |
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Aug 3 2025, 05:29 AM
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how is this shamed publicly? she wants proper transfer of account. thats all. messages sometimes can appear rude when it's not... you can reply nicely to her. lIAmLegendl, kidmad, and 1 other liked this post
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Aug 3 2025, 05:38 AM
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now like everyone else is asking in what way yr shamed? just because of some questions from someone who doesn't know how u did thgs?
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Aug 3 2025, 08:36 AM
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just let it go, there is no stake anymore and everyone in the company also knows that. Go along for this whole month or you could just clear your annual leave or mc to leave earlier
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Aug 3 2025, 03:55 PM
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Ts, ntg wrong by your boss.
Chill, your boss just wans the newbie to learn from u. |
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Aug 3 2025, 03:56 PM
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TS alsp gang maruah tercabar. Lol.
Personallywhat u described is straightforward? She keep everyone in the loop, asking u how u did ur job so ppl know what to do when u gone. Whats the issue here? How u feel she should handle it? Buy u farewell dinner, say "please train the ppl taking over ur job nicely ya? Btw need see u in hotel room no.xxx to discuss about numbers. Make time for me yes?" Lol |
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Aug 3 2025, 08:53 PM
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Just leave it be. Clear your annual leave then u can leave earlier lo
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Aug 3 2025, 10:44 PM
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put yourselves in your manager’s shoes
1. your manager doesn't know how to get the numbers 2. she trusted your numbers until you tendered 3. after you leave, new joiner will provide her the numbers 4. she creates a group and ask questions to ensure the new joiner cant bluff her using any random numbers |
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Aug 4 2025, 04:21 AM
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Just do a handover document, and do KT with replacement.
I did all the above, but due to some issue, my new manager reported me to HR. All HR bos said was its the replacement responsibility to get knowledge transfer and not responsibility of the person leaving. Let the guy leave in peace. |
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Aug 4 2025, 10:55 AM
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you are leaving and the successor just want to cover her ass over what you had passed down, it's normal.
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Aug 6 2025, 12:59 AM
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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Aug 2 2025, 09:46 PM) I have been such situation almost on daily basis. Clients create groups, shoot questions and demand answer. I am obliged to provide answers, since they are customers and I am the supplier. The group is there to keep everyone involve in the loop. EXACTLY THIS, apparently common sense isn't so common after all.I believe the situation is similar. You are getting paid to provide answer because its your job. Just answer accordingly, don't have to take it personally. |
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Aug 6 2025, 03:07 AM
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» Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « the hell with your old company. remember to change phone numbers once u leave. also.... urinate on her to show dominance. |
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Aug 6 2025, 07:56 AM
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QUOTE(GambitFire @ Aug 2 2025, 09:21 PM) Background Your resignation also abrupt , and how matters handled previously no longer apply since previously you were assumed to stick around much longer in the firm. So do you expect orevious SOP continue to apply as if you're still working in the firm for the coming months This approach felt abrupt and out of the ordinary and it’s not how such matters were handled previously. I couldn’t help but feel disrespected and somewhat publicly shamed in front of the new joiner. The incident has been bothering me since. ? So what your manager did also might be abrupt , but its expected , and logical as well. If you felt disrespected , I tend to believe your departure is a blessing to the firm . This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Aug 6 2025, 08:09 AM |
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Aug 6 2025, 02:00 PM
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Dun let it bother you. Just show the new joiner the ropes. Leave with your head high and dun burn bridge.
Even if u already resign, u still a worker until the last day so treat it like any other day. |
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