QUOTE(redracer2004 @ Aug 4 2025, 09:15 AM)
Unfortunately it looks easy as we speak but most parents (Chinese especially) are treating their children (especially daughters) like investments. When the son marries, he will still go back and offer the parents money but normally based on tradition and current trends, once the daughter is married off, it's other people's daughter already so they wanna milk the cow one last time and squeeze everything they can. I know it's not a right mindset but even my own mom is thinking that there should be some degree of financial provided in terms of dowry.
Solution is to stay away from type c girls. Matafada still expecting to be paid RM18,888 cash like buying property in ancient times is it? Except this daughter nowadays carries very few of those qualities that compare to ancient time (docile, submissive, obedient, etc). Damn shame that greed has clouded their judgement. Visit time all ok, but when want to marry the eyes light up on how fat angpow they can get. Any sense of love or feeling all flush down the drain when start calculating dowry.But anyway, plenty of single type c girls in 30s+ nowadays. After a while, even their parents forego the dowry and are just grateful that their daughter has found someone.
Aug 15 2025, 12:25 PM

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