My gf kept telling me my ugly face won’t win another girl’s heart outside there. Even her mother thinks so and threaten me (through her): ask him if he thinks he can find another girl out there who loves him with his ugly face and thriftiness. The gf also compares me with her colleagues as their boyfriend would voluntarily give half of their salary with the girl, pamper the girl with Haidilao hotpot every week etc. So, she thinks I am very terrible and she has tolerated me enough as well but she stays with me because she loves me. She just wants presents she mentioned, like Coach bags, iPhone Pro Max during special occasions of the year (valentine, birthday, etc.). She doesn’t want “impractical” things like flowers. And she expects me to pay for her “once or twice a month” Grab/foodpanda deliveries. 

sorry to say this

i find that usually chinese ed girls are like that. They believe that men must pay for everything, every single damn thing.

Because they grew up in an environment where there is a traditional gender separated roles in their family values.

And this coupled with the money mentality which is very strong among the traditional chinese family.

Once you take this path, you also open the door for her to do the same. Soon, both families are pulled into a personal issue between two people. What began as a small disagreement can easily spiral into something unmanageable.

Appreciate just walking in parks