I'm 32 yo. I'm an OKU (mental) for bipolar disorder. I've lost my job due to injury at my work place; back injury. My highest education is SPM.
Dropped out of college due to my sickness; bipolar. Spent years seeing many doctors and trying many types of medication. Now I'm stable after I've found suitable meds for myself.

I don't know what to do in my life. I'm lost and depressed now.

My mom and sister told me to continue study, start with diploma at GMI.

But lack confidence to do so, maybe due to my age. I'm afraid that no one will hire me because by the time I've graduated I'll be 35. Who wants an old guy working at an entry level job. Plus, if I decided to pursue my education I'm afraid that I can't blend in with all the young students.

If I decided on continuing my studies what course should I take at GMI.

I'm not interested in part time studies because I'm unable to study with no structure and accountability. So that is a straight failure. Done that before I can't do it.

My life, I need structure so I can cope. Lack of it I'll fail.

Thanks guys for all your input.

Or should I end it. Prospect of not living seems the best option now.

since you need structure, & cant secure a job
cont studies seems like a good option

life is hard but dont give up

i dont know what u aiming in life,but its OK to just live life without a goal,hope this pic helps

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seems good. you will have the opportunity to work in manufacturing plants (structured working place, with shifts and SOPs). predictable work (proactive and preventive maintenance), again, structured. less anxiety. clock in, check maintenance sheet, execute, done, go home, take medicine, rest.

you will spent more time with machines rather than humans (that would help you with your manic/neuroticism).

you will have to work with your hands mostly, so that helps to stop your mind from wondering, 'snowballing effect' that could lead to depression. less thinking, more doing.

go for it.

This post has been edited by djlake: Jul 5 2025, 05:01 PM

do grab. there is structure. Just accept the jobs, follow the app instructions.

it's not easy to find understanding colleagues and bosses unless you apply to company's that hire say autistic staff etc

working for yourself is the best option

just do it no need think so much

Second this, my niece is doing this kinda thing and he's doing good.

“ I'm afraid that no one will hire me because by the time I've graduated I'll be 35. Who wants an old guy working at an entry level job. Plus, if I decided to pursue my education I'm afraid that I can't blend in with all the young students.”

These are all your irrational fear. It doesn’t materialize yet. Even if it is, just persevere. Trust me, try your best at formal education.

Don’t go the gig economy route (grab/ etc) because its not sustainable long term.

35 years old, still consider young.

Lovecat is your user name..so I assume you love pets.

Maybe you can work part time at pet store? At same time can go take pet grooming or animal handling courses.

You can also volunteer at a pet shelter.

And maybe one day open/buy over a pet store.

ts, what is your strength = what are you good at?

can you work on that without a high start up cost? if yes, can start doing.

plenty of opportunities in malaysia, you don't need to keep thinking you need to be a kuli.

You are still young at 32....
Heck if you are 37, ppl still hire you
Don't give up

Grab food

Ts, dont study but its not due to your age. Its better to work and find what u wan in your scenario.
U know your strength is structure, hence find a job with structure. Than go up from there.
U have back pain so dont find labourous jobs and make your life suffer.

For a start, have a heart to heart talk with your parents. Let them be clear about your concern and u about theirs.

First, take a deep breath and notice this—

The very fact that you’re still here, still reaching out, still asking what to do next—that’s proof.
Proof that somewhere inside you, there’s a part that hasn’t given up.

That part is wise. That part is courageous. And that part deserves your attention.
You’ve gone through injury, both physical and emotional. And instead of collapsing, you sought help.
You faced your illness. You tested, adjusted, and found stability. That’s not weakness.
That’s resilience in action.

“A man must love learning all his life.
In youth, it opens the mind.
In middle age, it anchors virtue.
In old age, it gives joy and rest.”

What if… your life is just beginning a new phase now?
At 32, you’re not “late.” You’re exactly where your next path begins.
By 35, you could be standing with a new qualification, a structured mind, and the ability to say:
“I went through all that… and still I rose.”

Let’s talk structure. You already know something powerful about yourself:
 “I need structure. Without it, I drift.”
 Great. That’s not a limitation. That’s a strategy for success.
 And now, you get to choose environments that match the way your brain works best.

GMI offers exactly that: structured learning, accountability, scheduled progress.
You’re not failing by needing this—you’re winning by choosing wisely.

On choosing a course, let’s engage the part of you that knows what you enjoy:

 • Do your hands like to build? Do you feel satisfaction in making things real? - You might thrive in mechatronics, machining, or manufacturing.

 • Are you curious about systems, electricity, how parts interact? -Consider electrical or mechanical engineering technology.

 • Do you like order, precision, and structure? - You might enjoy quality assurance or technical drawing (CAD/CAM).

Whichever path you choose, ask yourself:
“Where can I build something useful that others still need?”

Because when your work matters to others, your sense of purpose strengthens too.

On blending in, you wonder:

 “Will I stand out among younger students?”

Let’s reframe that:
 “What if I stand out because I bring calm when others panic?
 Because I’ve already faced what they haven’t yet?
 Because I know how to rise when things fall apart?”

People admire grounded presence more than perfect grades.
And you already carry that presence—you just haven’t owned it fully yet.
That quiet strength—you’ve been building it all along.

On the darkest thoughts, you mentioned giving up. But ask yourself gently:
“What if the story is just about to turn, and I’m the one holding the pen?”

Somewhere else in the world, people are still living through war zones, hunger, and exile.
Here, you have space, time, and a choice. And choice is powerful.

You may not yet believe in your future self—
but your future self already believes in you.
Right now, he’s whispering:

 “Keep going. You’ll be glad you did.”

And if your mind asks, “But what if I fail?”

Just ask it back:
“What if I don’t?”

What is your interest?

Do you have the discipline to continue studying?

If you like structure, can you create your own study timetable and follow strictly and study diligently?

If you like structure, apply for simple jobs first, such as operator or stockist in a warehouse. This kind of job usually allows you ample time to study part-time.

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This post has been edited by lurkingaround: Jul 5 2025, 04:24 PM

Maybe go to those large besi buruk, request a price list from them then start from there ?

Nonsense about age. This country anything also possible. 2.5k masters grad got, multi millionaire spm dropout politician also got. No need give face to people that ask stupid question like that. Get the counter from chat gpt and use it for the next dude who asks that.

Hi there, you found suitable med prescribe by doctor? One my love one struggle with depression, now just started to do a diploma afain after drop out. If you dont mind can share doctor name and hospital.

i wonder how you can handle k, it's very non structured, its chaos

anyways, MNC are very structured. if your are certified OKU card holder, some MNCs do hire OKU to meet with their ESG