QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 16 2025, 12:23 PM)
Friends can have many different levels, why some of you so damn anti-social or expect too much out of "friends"?
U got a point bruhColleague = Friend?
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QUOTE(knwong @ Jun 16 2025, 12:11 PM) There are 3 types of friends, someone taught me. I think someone even came out with video about it 4. Friend that say hi and bye when met a random places.1. Friends that you gain benefits - you only get together because of business transaction or work 2. Friends that only come together for common interest like your sports kaki 3. Friends who will support and push you in pursuit of life goals. Best friends usually |
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Jun 16 2025, 01:45 PM
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Only after you left. Not when you are still working with the company. Imbi Plaza Lot 1.28 liked this post
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Jun 16 2025, 01:50 PM
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If fresh batch masuk enter at same time all blur2 can frend2 like school time. But overtime need to be on guard and set boundaries. Corpo world can be ruthless. Ppl you thought were you bros suddenly their true self come out and will throw you under bus. Just business they say Imbi Plaza Lot 1.28 liked this post
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Jun 16 2025, 01:56 PM
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Ex-collegues can be friends. Current colleagues i think better not. Imbi Plaza Lot 1.28 liked this post
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QUOTE(cms @ Jun 16 2025, 02:10 PM) yes agree... Imbi Plaza Lot 1.28 liked this post
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Jun 16 2025, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(knwong @ Jun 16 2025, 12:11 PM) There are 3 types of friends, someone taught me. I think someone even came out with video about it I have only few best friends. Great relationship, even longer than my love relationship. 1. Friends that you gain benefits - you only get together because of business transaction or work 2. Friends that only come together for common interest like your sports kaki 3. Friends who will support and push you in pursuit of life goals. Best friends usually QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 16 2025, 12:23 PM) Friends can have many different levels, why some of you so damn anti-social or expect too much out of "friends"? I don’t expect much out of friends, but problem is so weird to seeing someone “boast” about having many friends from work. “Former” for reasons, I doubt they could be friend if work at same department, especially when my female colleague like to drama so much. Btw, nice new profile picture |
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Jun 17 2025, 09:36 AM
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why not? friend itself is a broad term and got spectrum .
If TS need to question the semantics ..... very strong dengki vibe emanating from his character. Its like queationing someone when they said they felt full after eating some snacks . Takkan go and start topic and questioning whether snack is a complete ,filling meal or not. This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Jun 17 2025, 09:38 AM |
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Jun 17 2025, 09:40 AM
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QUOTE(knwong @ Jun 16 2025, 12:11 PM) There are 3 types of friends, someone taught me. I think someone even came out with video about it Lol, I've experienced 1 and 31. Friends that you gain benefits - you only get together because of business transaction or work 2. Friends that only come together for common interest like your sports kaki 3. Friends who will support and push you in pursuit of life goals. Best friends usually 2 not really. |
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Jun 17 2025, 09:43 AM
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QUOTE(JimmyX @ Jun 17 2025, 10:29 AM) I have only few best friends. Great relationship, even longer than my love relationship. your topic title is about "COLLEAGUE", then you write about frens and how they perceive their EX-COLLEAGUES.I don’t expect much out of friends, but problem is so weird to seeing someone “boast” about having many friends from work. “Former” for reasons, I doubt they could be friend if work at same department, especially when my female colleague like to drama so much. Btw, nice new profile picture Now you twist again and talk about semantic of FRIEND, and then write about BEST FRIENDS. Hmmmm..... they're totally different meaning altogether. This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Jun 17 2025, 09:45 AM |
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Jun 17 2025, 09:44 AM
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few only you can trust, others majority is no joy
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QUOTE(JimmyX @ Jun 17 2025, 09:29 AM) I don’t expect much out of friends, but problem is so weird to seeing someone “boast” about having many friends from work. “Former” for reasons, I doubt they could be friend if work at same department, especially when my female colleague like to drama so much. They want to boast, let them boast la, you terasa for what? Why you feel the need to put down their definition of "Friend"? Btw, nice new profile picture QUOTE(lopo90 @ Jun 17 2025, 09:44 AM) Yes, but some people also expect too much out of people they call "friend" while they themselves probably don't reciprocate in a similar manner. |
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Jun 17 2025, 10:49 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 17 2025, 10:46 AM) They want to boast, let them boast la, you terasa for what? Why you feel the need to put down their definition of "Friend"? Oh yea, met "friends" like that. Manipulative in subtle ways. I would Avoid at all cost.Yes, but some people also expect too much out of people they call "friend" while they themselves probably don't reciprocate in a similar manner. |
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Jun 17 2025, 10:51 AM
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At most, acquaintance.
I won't say they're my friend. Of course there might be exceptions but not many. |
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Jun 17 2025, 10:52 AM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 17 2025, 11:46 AM) They want to boast, let them boast la, you terasa for what? Why you feel the need to put down their definition of "Friend"? I find it quite weird, TS cannot accept casual (not necessarily good) friendship can be formed from former colleagues . Sometimes when there's no conflict of interest working in the same firm... thats where both parties can let their guard down and the rest is history.Yes, but some people also expect too much out of people they call "friend" while they themselves probably don't reciprocate in a similar manner. |
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