If a guy wants to keep seeing you he is interested.
If undecided after first date, can ask for second one.

I used to be the one wanting to date for 10x before making it official until I meet a girl where we dated like 4x then I ask her to be official.

When you are official just stop swiping. Continue swiping can be tiring.

I am a very weird person. I go by checklist. I don't go by looks or chemistry. If the girl have what I want on my checklist then I will continue seeing her. I call it my non negotiables. You must have a set of non negotiable. Cannot have too many. I limit it to 6 only.

I date to marry. Not date for fun. So I need to see if she got what it takes to be a good wifey and good mother. Always ask yourself what to you date for? Fun, companionship, sex, marriage? Keep in mind some guys not serious. They like the feel of the chase.

You can always search but, yes there will always be better one but need to ask yourself is the one in front good enough or you want more. I had my answer already. She is good enough. Most important for me is she is frugal. That's my most important criteria.

Looking like the person is one thing. I check their background to see if they are telling the truth about their job.

Same here. I never put any hopes into the first date/meeting. I always expected to be rejected. Make my life easier.

This post has been edited by Ramjade: Jun 3 2025, 02:34 PM