When we were talking on the phone, he was very lively, cheeky n flirty but when we met in person he became slightly serious n didn't flirt at all. Really felt like I was talking to a friend.

I forgot to mention that we had a 10 min video call after talking on the phone that day so if he was OK with our video call interaction, why was he acting that way during our date? I'm really confused n the reason I posted this is coz I need to know what precautions I need to take to ensure that this won't happen again when I talk to other guys in future.

This was totally out of my expectation coz I've already done all the necessary vibe check prior to the date.

I know u're using dating apps too. How/when do u decide that it's time for u to stop swiping on other girls? I know for some guys, it's never enough. They'll keep wondering if there are better girls out there that they haven't swiped on. I have this thought coz I keep seeing the same guys appearing on those dating apps. It's either they're too greedy or there's something wrong with them.

Asking him to be friends, is a clear sign you're not interested, so naturally he will just agree and it ends there.

For me, I have no problem with deciding when I should stop scrolling. It's the guy that I'm seeing that worries me. Yeah he could promise me that he'll stop using dating apps once we're official but you'll never know if he still continues swiping on not just one but several other apps. This is probably 1 of the cons of dating the person that u knew frm dating apps.