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Soon-to-be-wife demanded not to cook if get, married to you.
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 01:27 AM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 18 2025, 09:57 PM) I agree that equal participation should be done by both parties. I'm just not OK when most of the ppl here made it sound like it should 100% women's duty to cook from A to Z. Hello? It won't hurt to help a bit since she also works like u too. Regarding opening the can of worms, this is when both parties should sit down n discuss boundaries together. A rship won't be healthy if this kinda discussion didn't take place at all. Also, not point being with a partner who doesn't know how to respect u or yr feelings. Sure she works also ,but how much of her pay is actually contributed into the household. Most family I seen are mostly 70:30 at best with the husband contributing more towards household expenses. I have never seen wife actually contributing equally or half of the entire household expenses at 50:50. If the husband is having to put more effort in earning money , shouldn't the wife do better and pur more effort to cook for the family ?
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 02:13 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 09:39 AM) Lol do u know why there's no equal contribution? Coz there's a huge gender wage gap! It's a global issue n nobody gives a shit even though women have been highlighting this issue for so long. So it's not that women aren't putting enough effort in earning as much as their husband. It's the society doesn't allow them to do so! That's just bullshit. Let me tell you that female models are paid much higher than male models. And many females out there keep complaining period pain to skip work every month. Therefore , during salary increment , of course the bosses will reward the more hardworking employee. If you want address equal wage gap , then females should participate equally in blue collar jobs such as garbage collectors , sewer cleaners and construction labourers . There are no rules that ban females from working in such industry. But females always look down on such blue collar workers that contribute so much to society. The fact is those complaining about gender wage gap only want comfortable office jobs but high salary . This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 02:17 PM
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 05:02 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 03:47 PM) Lol with that kinda caveman mentality, I'm not surprised that he's an incel who got abandoned by his mum when he was a kid. Since period pain should be "painless", let's pray that he'll reincarnate into a woman WITH endometriosis in his next life ðĪĢ Better than you 304's who loudly say want equality but still refuse to acknowledge that women refuse to do blue collar workers job and belittle men's contribution to society. Simple job like taking out the trash also you will ask the guy to do it. You all from toxic feminist camp only want superiority but no accountability. I understand bitter women like you lack attention from men , therefore feeling so bitter with your misandry mindset. Kesiaaaannnn.. I know period is painful. But you think we men who got sick will not force ourselves to work to feed our family ?? Unlike you all, sikit2 period pain wanna take leave... Ptuihhh!!!! This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 05:03 PM
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 05:09 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 02:54 PM) What utter nonsense! U made it sound like it being a model is the only available job for women n that ANY women can become a model. You have to take into account what women are earning in OTHER industries as well. Please la... Even local men also don't wanna do those 3D jobs. If not, why the hell do we have so many foreign workers doing these jobs now? Pls go back to kindergarten since you're still arguing like an ignorant toddler who has such a narrow vision of the world. I'm saying that there are industries out there paying more for men , some pay more for women. That is gender wage gap equality , you moron. You all apply for jobs that favour men, yet wanna complain about salary imbalance between genders. Are you really that ignorant ? Local men don't want to do 3D jobs? Not really . Have you even been to construction site before ? There are locals working there under the hot sun. Grow up and go out and see the world. Dont be an ignorant prick. And sales dept is 1 area that women can earn alot more than men. This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 05:11 PM
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 05:17 PM
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QUOTE(PoorButHumble @ May 19 2025, 03:07 PM) he dare to use period not knowing the strong prejudice towards soon to be mom / pregnant lady go for interview applying for job. the more he speak, the more he expose his kebodohan. Also, want to talk about job/ wage gaps, just a simple google search the best fashion designer, hair dresser or chef, what is the gender majority? steal our job liao still dare to say out loud. wew. If you're an employer yourself. Be honest and ask yourself, will you even hire a pregnant lady for a job knowing that she will be MIA for awhile after childbirth. Be honest ! That is call logic and reasoning which you feminist lack and rely entirely on emotion.. when we men try to reason with you , you come up with 1000001 name calling . Steal you all's job ? What sort of entitlement is that ? I thought your camp always say men and women are equal ? I only believe in survival of the fittest and meritocracy. Most qualified ppl get the job.
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 05:30 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 05:14 PM) Lol and how would u even know who's taking out the trash in my household? Have u been a pervert spying on me? ðĪŠ Hello? Women have their period every month so are u saying that men have crippling illness every month as well? Use yr brain before arguing la, you dumb incel lol. And don't even talk abt how painful period can be unless u experience it yourself. Telling your feminist cult members out there, don't rely on your dad or husband to take out the trash from your house . Do yourself. Lets how many females willing to do it. You really love bullshitting .You're implying that monthly period pain is a crippling illness. Hello 304 , have you apply for your OKU card since you have a crippling illness ? All humans get sick with no exception. But since you say period pain is crippling illness, so why not all of you apply for OKU card ? Explain to me you 304 This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 05:40 PM
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 06:08 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ May 19 2025, 05:58 PM) Lol more accusations n assumptions? That's all u've got? ððððð I'm not gonna waste my time arguing with a misogynistic incel anymore. Have fun BLAMING everything on women till yr last breath ð Continue to bury your head in sand like an ostrich. I know feminist's Kryptonite is ACCOUNTABILITY. REMEMBER TO APPLY FOR YOUR OKU CARD UNDER THE GUISE OF " CRIPPLING ILLNESS" for your monthly period pain since you so eager to admit your disability. You're just a typical femiNazi 304 misandrist whom are ignored by men. LOL. This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 06:09 PM
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k!nex
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May 19 2025, 06:20 PM
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QUOTE(sage61 @ May 19 2025, 06:11 PM) I think, there shouldn't be any problem to women taking leave for period pain, after all they are using their annual leave benefits for that. If they are taking MC leaves for period pain, then it's a problem. Otherwise, I see no point in denying them to take annual leave for period pain. Just as men can take annual leave for vacation but end up is just relaxing at home. For the cooking one, that depends on the future husband. If the guy is okay that his wife no need to cook, that's their business. If the husband to be wants a wife to be that cooks, then, he just need to dump the girl and find a wife that cooks. The world of dating and marriage is a free world. So, if you don't like a wife that don't cook, then simply don't marry one. I absolutely agree with you of entitlement of annual leave. However , in the real world, things are not so simple regarding annual leave. Sure , annual leave you can take for any reason. The problem is emergency leave , which means unplanned , last minute notification ( not even application) of annual leave leaving other co-workers having to clean up your shit because of no proper handover of task. That is not fair for other ppl , because that is not " equality " , that is "entitlement behaviour " . Doing that every month because of period pain, you think ppl won't get mad ? Especially shift workers , you last minute call in say wanna take leave , your supervisor will have to find ppl to replace you. The other fella who replace your shift will have resentment because tht fella might have other things planned ahead , now have to change plan because of you. This post has been edited by k!nex: May 19 2025, 06:23 PM
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