QUOTE(MR_alien @ May 15 2025, 10:27 AM)
this is why man are so afraid or restraint from talking about their feelings, their stress.....because they would end up being told to "suck it up"

you tell those to your friends, not your wife though.
you start crying for no reason in front of your wife, she'll lose all respect for you.
you're allowed to cry only a few times in front of your wife, e.g. kawen, dapat baby, mom mati, etc ...
QUOTE(thesoothsayer @ May 15 2025, 10:33 AM)
Well, if both sides don't raise it up its ok. My wife was earning more than I was when we got married.
I have a friend whose wife keeps calling him worthless and useless because she's earning more, and scolding him for everything. Then got depression and ED. Kids also don't respect him when they see the mother's behaviour.
the dude can be cured. step 1 is divorce the wife.
This post has been edited by spursfan: May 15 2025, 10:37 AM