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Abusive mean extremely offensive & insulting.
Many research said women will talk more, tend to used more harsh & insulting language than male.
It's very common for a women to be abusive as well as u call it "berleter" which normally give physiological challenge to husband..
Maybe u live in different part of asia..

Ironically it is very rare for us to see a husband like this tik tok guy.. Not many of us to talk a lot like him & look abusive..
But very common for asian women.. That's why also not many women can live with their mother in law..

This post has been edited by khusyairi: May 15 2025, 09:31 AM

Our society is not kind to abused men in general, if not downright subject them to ridicule.

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This post has been edited by WinkyJr: May 15 2025, 09:34 AM

the suami is strawberry ke?

Suami said kena pijak

marketing gimmick got cerai promo?

If he say talak empat, then maybe will become more viral and sensational

I don't get it.

why so many aweks (not all) marry useless abusive husbands that can't even bring food on the table?

if only puas offer courses to aweks to evaluate future husband must be capable to take care of family, gentleman, a true man, a good money earner, a good family man, humble, caring n loving.

but dream on right? puas only cares to take over gomen n control n blame concerts, vernacular, pig farms, hedonistic life. Else many nekkid people running round klcc after lost bet it will never happen.

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: May 15 2025, 09:46 AM

i think the correct question now is where do you even live bro

the bolded part, i walk out into the street right now...i can already hear a few guys speaking like that already...every single day(bare in mind, this is them in public, not even in their home yet)
i even saw an arab guy word abuse his wife in the street on bukit bintang with his 2 kids beside him

so i don't know where did the "very rare" came from
secondly if u check police recorded case, it will tell another story to support that statistics and bare in mind, that's only the recorded/reported cases
many believed there are even more cases like that...that are not reported yet

many of them waited until the level of "causing bodily injury" only go hospital body check and police report thn divorce....my own relative already experience such case before

This post has been edited by MR_alien: May 15 2025, 09:46 AM

she want to market for future husband kot

no try how to know if suitable or not :X

if this one x ngam, just cerai look for next one mcm mat salleh

Define abusive.

If the bar is set until mata lebam, tangan patah, mulut berdarah, then maybe we hardly see because women is generally weaker in strength. Despite that, it's not unheard stories such as abused husband chose to own end life, refused to go home, rather go to jail or get hit with pan and some ridiculous tool.

If follow today's standard, what cold violence refuse to talk to the other half or ejek the other half like earlier news marah wife buying potato chips also considered as abusive, u sure it hasnt happened to husband before? These behaviours are considered common if it's done to men by women and often being made as jokes on social media but if it is reversed, yeah unforgivable level of abusive.

This post has been edited by NicoRobinz: May 15 2025, 09:49 AM

problem is in that religion

man cerai = senang
woman cerai = can but susah, need lawyer all the way

drama TV mana??

so easy, no need loyar ke?

i think what you're trying to say is physical abuse vs mental abuse

physical abuse happens more often than you think, just that it's not reported by the news unless it causes death that's all
u don't see it because they don't leak to general public, they don't go around bragging to others but it does happen
the police report statistics there will support it
or if you have friends who worked at hospital, particularly A&E department...u can also ask them....they knew for sure

there are indeed a lot of such men living among us, some might not even look like one until it happened
another thing is...there is a reason why we have a specific hotline for domestic violence here in malaysia

Cina buta must cucuk and pancut

then only can rujuk

- Dr Maza

Can wife do the same?