Let's say u date a girl for 6 months. Everything about her is excellent. Finance, independent, willing to zhut and give zhut, pretty, fair and friendly to your parents

However there is only one thing she does quite poorly is her treatment to her own parents. Sometimes she nag and talk harshly to her mom. Sometimes she block her father's call and scold vulgar to her parents.

She looks down at her parents. For what reason i don't know.

Will u continue to date her? Give your opinion

1st

2nd

3rd

Say perfect but never say body how. Teksar or tekcik? Pink or black?

yes.

sei sohai hamkaling datang lagi

1st page

gf ok wife think twice and observe lagi

U never know if she had trauma or something her parents did wrong in her childhood

I sometimes think my parents are retarded and I'm pretty honest with them about it. Their entire lives when meer relatives always belanja makan, cny belanja kena 4d belanja

But I've never seen once they belanja us. Their son dotter kerja bank and some pretty not bad. Is it that hard to belanja us once? My father is just a fucking carpenter before he retired.

I fucking hate both my extended families all fucking parasites useless leechers with single digit IQ believing nonsense even when black and white is obvious. I even regret being related to them coz I know I share part of those retardant genes

Depends.

If her parents rich then make them make peace.

If her parents poor encourage her to dump them.

Poor

girl with bad dad usually don't like men near them

depend on how her family background/history

blind respect is another red flag also

Ur dad think you're Charsiew already raise you to have good job then still have to belanja u makan

But having said that whenever I go back home my parents will belanja and cover all expenses. I just act like I poorfeg , sit down act noob like back when I was in my teens with no money to pay the bill..... but they know I'm not coz they always ask how much I earn and I'm too bad of a liar to even try

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: May 9 2025, 01:42 PM

Ukeke story

Blackpink

Btw if she hates her father you have a high chance of being called daddy

Because she looking for a father figure...

Dont hamsap

Said the one who open tered about fantasies raping his own sister and peeping his mom bathing.. nobody more hamkaling than u TS

Ooo nice...... Why not both right?

shit second page dy

2nd page

Pussy wat color first ?

maybe you are treated as a money tree to them.

your parent didnt love you because of money.

maybe parents....

Yes. Useless girl

Yes. My wife now. Menyesal

define the worrd "willing to zhut and give zhut,"

Hisap blh...?

aiya. 2nd page ady

setori sikit

gambar mana sial

Sir u might need to reread my previous post, I dun wan my old man to belanja me, I want my mother's side siblings to reciprocate. They are fucking leechers.

They still wanna come eat bak Kut teh during CNY. Pukimak kl so many bkt dun wan but come here. Maybe coz my rm14 bkt and rm1 rice taste better and ontop of that, I give them FOC drinks then 50%discount on everything they ate.

It's a small business not a fucking charity. U know how big that entire family? Yes all siblingswith dooters sons and grandotters and grandsons. Pukimak when we go visit them kekwa kept delay keep watching tv from 2pm to 9pm also dun wanna eat dinner. Coz u know once open mouth sure had to belanja us amirite? No way they gonna ask us to leave so the only viable way is to pretend never makan until we leave then ta-da no need to belanja us liao wkwkwkw

maybe last time the mother sold her to to gip massage and father went for happy ending masat with daughter. so thats why dia pandai zhut you.

No

i'm sure if she's pretty / big bewbs / always piap u , u will ignore all the "red flags"

pm which stall BKT sedap

Same same la. Sometimes tatau parent value is different from us or what, but their stubborness and priorities really the fakaps.

they come UK visit me is flight ticket expensive, UK cold, pollen many, long flight etc.

I go back is all different, what problem?

Outsider more important. haih.

i wouldn't date her, all my BBW ex crush love their parents

50-50

好命的人一生被童年治愈；
不好命的一生都在治愈童年。

I think she worked very hard to escape her childhood.
Not big issue if you understand NLP, and got a big heart to deal with her weird insecurities.

With the right guy or mentor she might able to break the chain.

Do try to know her “red line”, especially due to her dad, and don ever touch it.

If an authorative figure can be treated with such disrespect, just a matter of time to be seen similarly once she start seeing you as below her.

Yes, this is only a carnal material, but nothing long term.

One of the most difficult things to deal with is family relationships.

What your parents did was morally correct—they never made your extended family feel unwelcome. On the other hand, what your extended family did was morally wrong. You should not blame your parents for upholding what is right, because they wanted you, the younger generation, to understand the meaning of proper manners.

The way your extended family behaves will have consequences for their next generation. No decent family would want to become in-laws with a family that shows such poor upbringing. If I’m not mistaken, one of the most common causes of unhappy marriages or marital failure is an unpleasant relationship with the in-laws.

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Apart from that, there could be another unpleasant truth based on how you described your extended family's behavior. You mentioned that when they came to eat, your parents charged them 50% off and provided free drinks. This kindness could be misunderstood as a duty—something your family is expected to provide. Your extended family might have thought your parents didn’t truly host them, but merely offered them a discounted rate. Meanwhile, your parents might have believed that offering a 50% discount was already a generous way of hosting. On the other hand, your extended family may have felt that they were not being hosted at all, but were paying for the food themselves.

I see a possible mismatch in expectations between the two families in terms of Li (礼, proper conduct or ritual propriety). If the relationship between the families has drifted apart due to such misunderstandings, it’s truly a shame. Perhaps in the future, do it this way: when they come to eat, charge them the full price just like any other customer. If you truly want to host them, do it elsewhere, not at the family BKT shop, to draw a clear boundary. If, after setting this boundary, they still behave the same way, then there's no need to continue showing kindness—because it has already been taken for granted.

Ok

Ok

I think they are just the typical boomer, tradition and family first

Throughout the years, I might have changed too much. Perhaps I need to fine tune my logic path again

They are not gonna visit us when we rest, on Thursday which they know. And to be honest I lost hope with them. Last time my father went to sewa a kebun to harvest some durian...

They knew he was working on an orchard. Then soon they called wanna come, got durians? My old man told them he'll leave 2 days worth of durians. So he kept those 2 days and not sold nor supplied them. They came with Tupperwares and shit. I even had to split them open for them, oh my the memories. Entire family line came to take durians home and gift them to friends and family kekpot

Fucking leeches and shameless. I always told my dad how "rugi" his entire life principle is. To me, never do things for free. And dun bother wasting time on things that never reciprocate.

Are your parents the older siblings? Kalau ya, tak boleh salahkan parents. They keep having the protective instinct of caring for their younger siblings even though they have grown up.

3rd page

Yes. Red flag. You will be next. Thats her innate self showing.

Secondly - there is retribution. Somehow life will get back at you for the things you do good or bad.

You can get tempias.