I think they are just the typical boomer, tradition and family first

Throughout the years, I might have changed too much. Perhaps I need to fine tune my logic path again
They are not gonna visit us when we rest, on Thursday which they know. And to be honest I lost hope with them. Last time my father went to sewa a kebun to harvest some durian...

They knew he was working on an orchard. Then soon they called wanna come, got durians? My old man told them he'll leave 2 days worth of durians. So he kept those 2 days and not sold nor supplied them. They came with Tupperwares and shit. I even had to split them open for them, oh my the memories. Entire family line came to take durians home and gift them to friends and family kekpot

Fucking leeches and shameless. I always told my dad how "rugi" his entire life principle is. To me, never do things for free. And dun bother wasting time on things that never reciprocate.