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 Malaysians Don't Want Kids Anymore (And It's a, Serious Issue)

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Hobbez
post May 1 2025, 04:47 PM

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Everywhere is the same, except in countries/regions where no development/internet.
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QUOTE(LiQuID2 @ May 1 2025, 04:30 PM)
I wanted to have 2..then after i had my first son i am exhausted from mental and financially. So i decided not to have 2nd one
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The best gift to your son is siblings, not money or riches or education although it is very important.

But yeah. Many are not willing to sacrifice their time and comfort. I do understand you.
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post May 1 2025, 04:58 PM

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The reason you always hear your siblings, friends and relative bitch about how much it cost to raise kids, how troublesome and tired it gets, its cuz they dont want you to feel lonely and left out jer.

Given any item in this world, most would never trade their family for it. Seeing the faces of of a kid after a long day, seeing them happily laugh while makan makan and travel making memories. Its all worth it.
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post May 1 2025, 05:01 PM

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Allow people to WFH and there will be more kids because parents can take care of kids at home then to save cost.

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post May 1 2025, 05:06 PM

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QUOTE(thkent91 @ May 1 2025, 04:41 PM)
Death is actually no big deal.

The big deal comes when you are nearing death with sickness and mobility issue.

You can say committ suicide. Yes. Talk is easy wait till you try it.
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So got child death will be easier? Ever see ppl with 10 childs 20 grandchilds n not a single one is with the deceased when deceased dying? Tons..just they dont make it to news.


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post May 1 2025, 05:08 PM

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QUOTE(littlegamer @ May 1 2025, 04:03 PM)
I be immortal if I have kids?

And u think kids are the prevention plan of old age?

Pfff
Lahir 1 char siew thrn u know. Somemore is a 30 40 yo plan before death.
For sure u can plan with your next 40 years.

And dumb fuck ppl argument always like say u feel it when nearing death.
Ohh cmon, the worst case scenario is death, what's worse than that?
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To those ktards, if u ada kids, u automatic immortal.

Or u sick ada child fetch u go, ada child takes care u. They give birth to child for tat purpose saja. Bet u they guilt their child everyday like i give birth to u, i take k u, i give u money, i give u schooling, why u no take k me
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Who says one ? Now is QtY better than Quality
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post May 1 2025, 05:09 PM

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QUOTE(statikinetic @ May 1 2025, 11:23 AM)
Applies more to certain demographics.

Like Malaysian Chinese.
East coast Malays going the other direction.
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Chinese people population in Malaysia is going down fast followed by Indian people population. While Malay people population is on rise.
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post May 1 2025, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(galkelly @ May 1 2025, 04:40 PM)
Chasiew pun pahala
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Paha la
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post May 1 2025, 05:47 PM

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QUOTE(GOPI56 @ May 1 2025, 05:09 PM)
Chinese people population in Malaysia is going down fast followed by Indian people population. While Malay people population is on rise.
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there more bangla then indians , indians very rare now lol
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post May 1 2025, 08:10 PM

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QUOTE(diffyhelman2 @ May 1 2025, 04:37 PM)
worse than death is having dindu abuse when you are near senile cuz one child population society cant cope with taking care of six people previous gen (two parent and 4 grandparent).
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That's your definition of worst.

Whats worse when u are senile are kids are char siew?
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post May 1 2025, 08:12 PM

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QUOTE(party @ May 1 2025, 05:08 PM)
To those ktards, if u ada kids, u automatic immortal.

Or u sick ada child fetch u go, ada child takes care u. They give birth to child for tat purpose saja. Bet u they guilt their child everyday like i give birth to u, i take k u, i give u money, i give u schooling, why u no take k me
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Exactly.

Give birth to life, but macam treat them like sendiri punya end of life investment.

Seriously, ppl should have kids when they feel building a family is a joy and have the responsibility to raise them well.

Not as a retirement plan

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post May 1 2025, 08:21 PM

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Day care cost is too expensive, I bet if gov do something about it more people will have kids.

Poor people can have kids by sending their kids to gov school and go to KKM singgit hospital. But they couldn't afford daycare and transportation which these days become more expensive compared to 20 years ago
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Aku baru balik dari sunway. Pack gila sebab ada baby and mother expo. Ramai cina dari melayu dekat expo. Mostly pregnant couple. So what this tok kok?
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When country has Hugh debt n no longer provide tongkat n jobs r scarce what r your children going to do after graduation? They can only survive from your inheritance if any.
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post May 1 2025, 08:30 PM

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Instead of tax cut, government pay us RM2000 per child yearly can or not? If no government can STFU
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post May 1 2025, 08:54 PM

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tldw, but career stability is no longer the norm. there is no more job for life with guaranteed promotion until 60 got millions in epf to retire. nowday company left and right will suka2 just lay off.

housing also chee bye expensive like 1st world country and car also no eye see more expensive than 1st world country.

need 2 working parents to be stable. but if both working who looks after kids? if one parent stay home and then the working parent lay off then gg. especially if over 35, good luck finding back similar position. housing gone, car also gone, live under bridge.

see parent generation, work in one company same position for life can afford everything. nowaday so much uncertainty and risk.
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QUOTE(poooky @ May 1 2025, 08:54 PM)
tldw, but career stability is no longer the norm. there is no more job for life with guaranteed promotion until 60 got millions in epf to retire. nowday company left and right will suka2 just lay off. 

housing also chee bye expensive like 1st world country and car also no eye see more expensive than 1st world country.

need 2 working parents to be stable. but if both working who looks after kids? if one parent stay home and then the working parent lay off then gg. especially if over 35, good luck finding back similar position. housing gone, car also gone, live under bridge.

see parent generation, work in one company same position for life can afford everything. nowaday so much uncertainty and risk.
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AI, Robotics, automation and now decoupling r disrupting the world.
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post May 1 2025, 09:35 PM

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QUOTE(Rorschach85 @ May 1 2025, 02:19 PM)
99% k/tard posting comment in this thread have no children or not married.
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Almost every week got this kind of loser tered .

If this , if that ... if , if , if

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