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TSJoeK
post Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM, updated 9 months ago

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Sadding life of middle age crisis from my friend perspective

Married, commitment to waifu and kids
Work stressed. At home full of responsibilities. Wife working, shared responsibility.
Work like dog at office, go back home kemas rumah, teach kids etc. Tired

Sudah tua, friends also kurang.
Got 5 friends remaining, ask keluar minum, 4 busy with life and 1 already mati

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy, kena tibai until 9 pages

From work, to home, to hobby, to sembang kencang at Internet, all cannot

What to do. Just pass time until die? sad.gif
alanyuppie
post Mar 27 2025, 11:18 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 12:16 PM)

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:21 AM

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Just pass time until die bero, just like everyone of us.

Born to serve, just like Matrix, only different is we serve life instead of robot.
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:21 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
Naturally guy like cars
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Nah.

I prefer hot chicks.

Cars are just means to get from point A to point B.

Only reason I drive nicer cars are to pick up chicks.
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:21 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
Sadding life of middle age crisis from my friend perspective

Married, commitment to waifu and kids
Work stressed. At home full of responsibilities. Wife working, shared responsibility.
Work like dog at office, go back home kemas rumah, teach kids etc. Tired

Sudah tua, friends also kurang.
Got 5 friends remaining, ask keluar minum, 4 busy with life and 1 already mati

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy, kena tibai until 9 pages

From work, to home, to hobby, to sembang kencang at Internet, all cannot

What to do. Just pass time until die? sad.gif
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:23 AM

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Sohai, who ask to membiak and get married? If you not ready for all this commitment then why commit?

Typical loser who don't control their own destiny, instead fall to peer pressure
TSJoeK
post Mar 27 2025, 11:23 AM

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QUOTE(ListenToTheWind @ Mar 27 2025, 11:21 AM)
Just pass time until die bero, just like everyone of us.

Born to serve, just like Matrix, only different is we serve life instead of robot.
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QUOTE(hotdayum @ Mar 27 2025, 11:21 AM)
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:24 AM

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Totally understand the feeling. So Chun this morning was thinking how I wish I can get sick and go into the abbyss. No more responsibilities
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:24 AM

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QUOTE(Kaya Butter Toast @ Mar 27 2025, 11:23 AM)
Sohai, who ask to membiak and get married? If you not ready for all this commitment then why commit?

Typical loser who don't control their own destiny, instead fall to peer pressure
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not kahwin also no other choice.

all people surrounding will kahwin. ended up no friends anymore also
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
Naturally guy like cars

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without see logo and label, i dont even know what car im looking

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Mar 27 2025, 11:24 AM)
Totally understand the feeling. So Chun this morning was thinking how I wish I can get sick and go into the abbyss. No more responsibilities
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the feeling come and go, believe me. Someday u feel that way, someday u feel better. stay strong.
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:31 AM

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post Mar 27 2025, 11:32 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
Sadding life of middle age crisis from my friend perspective

Married, commitment to waifu and kids
Work stressed. At home full of responsibilities. Wife working, shared responsibility.
Work like dog at office, go back home kemas rumah, teach kids etc. Tired

Sudah tua, friends also kurang.
Got 5 friends remaining, ask keluar minum, 4 busy with life and 1 already mati

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy, kena tibai until 9 pages

From work, to home, to hobby, to sembang kencang at Internet, all cannot

What to do. Just pass time until die? sad.gif
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halo boss

beli bicycle je . waifu tanya price u just answer "murah je"

see amoi ketat ,ajak justin loong
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:33 AM

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QUOTE(Kaya Butter Toast @ Mar 27 2025, 11:23 AM)
Sohai, who ask to membiak and get married? If you not ready for all this commitment then why commit?

Typical loser who don't control their own destiny, instead fall to peer pressure
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You should never ever volunteer for Befrienders or simliar NGOs kek
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:33 AM

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QUOTE(9m2w @ Mar 27 2025, 11:33 AM)
You should never ever volunteer for Befrienders or simliar NGOs kek
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Like seriously weh, why bitch about the choices you made. Getting married, having kids... It's all a choice
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:34 AM

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Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.

>btw why bro. ur money rite . not u ask her money pun . haiya .

topup abit cibik RS je
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:35 AM

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dump waifu and get a new car
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:35 AM

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post Mar 27 2025, 11:36 AM

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life goes on bro


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post Mar 27 2025, 11:37 AM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:24 AM)
not kahwin also no other choice.

all people surrounding will kahwin. ended up no friends anymore also
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So wait, kahwin because everyone around kahwin? What logic is this.

Maybe need to do some self reflection on why no friends...


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post Mar 27 2025, 11:38 AM

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QUOTE(Kaya Butter Toast @ Mar 27 2025, 11:33 AM)
Like seriously weh, why bitch about the choices you made. Getting married, having kids... It's all a choice
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We make the choices to the best of our ability and from what we know at the time

But circumstances change la. Things might really have taken for the worse and unforeseen stuff may have happened

Some ppl no matter how hard they plan might get the short end of a very short stick due to life

If bitching helps, let them la

But serious dude, you should not ever volunteer for Befrienders
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:38 AM

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time to buy big bike, go on solo road trips.
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:38 AM

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post Mar 27 2025, 11:40 AM

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Mid life crisis

ktard kena tibai sikit sikit, sadding

What is the point of coming to /k
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:43 AM

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I can understand the feeling, feels like you are trapped liao.

But then that is what we call responsibility and dependability. Your family depends on you alone.

I kuat sembang je, I ghey so I don't have this experience lol.
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:43 AM

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TS datang lagi dengan humble bragging dia

later will open thread about wat car to buy again and flex his salary lol
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:45 AM

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QUOTE(9m2w @ Mar 27 2025, 11:38 AM)
We make the choices to the best of our ability and from what we know at the time

But circumstances change la. Things might really have taken for the worse and unforeseen stuff may have happened

Some ppl no matter how hard they plan might get the short end of a very short stick due to life

If bitching helps, let them la

But serious dude, you should not ever volunteer for Befrienders
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Circumstances change, sure. But bitching instead of taking action?

I can't stand those.... Grab life by the steering wheel, not sit at the back seat and complain about optional choices made in life and blame everything else.

I was a beta male skinny loser who couldn't get women when I was younger. Now, women throw themselves at me. How? By working on myself and improving my career.
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This is why gamer or toy collector hubby is underrated. Our hobby don't cost a lot compared to cars, extreme sports or travelling.
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QUOTE(billylks @ Mar 27 2025, 11:43 AM)
I can understand the feeling, feels like you are trapped liao.

But then that is what we call responsibility and dependability. Your family depends on you alone.

I kuat sembang je, I ghey so I don't have this experience lol.
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gay also can form family adopt kid wat?
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QUOTE(y500 @ Mar 27 2025, 11:46 AM)


gay also can form family adopt kid wat?
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In malaysia, you better not itchy adopting kids if you are ghey.
If ayam not mistaken, if you are single you can adopt kids only if are female. (not sure correct or not)
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post Mar 27 2025, 11:55 AM

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spend time with yr kids?
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If you no family and responsibilities also problem jugak. You see me good, I see you good only.

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post Mar 27 2025, 11:58 AM

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Posting in thread full of weak men.
Suck it up and soldier on.
You are living in a peaceful nation with all your basic needs fulfilled.
Whining like bitches
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post Mar 27 2025, 12:02 PM

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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
teach kids
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Many find joy and fulfilment shaping their offsprings' character and destiny.

Else better don't have them.
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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
Sadding life of middle age crisis from my friend perspective

Married, commitment to waifu and kids
Work stressed. At home full of responsibilities. Wife working, shared responsibility.
Work like dog at office, go back home kemas rumah, teach kids etc. Tired

Sudah tua, friends also kurang.
Got 5 friends remaining, ask keluar minum, 4 busy with life and 1 already mati

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy, kena tibai until 9 pages

From work, to home, to hobby, to sembang kencang at Internet, all cannot

What to do. Just pass time until die? sad.gif
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post Mar 27 2025, 12:09 PM

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QUOTE(Kaya Butter Toast @ Mar 27 2025, 11:33 AM)
Like seriously weh, why bitch about the choices you made. Getting married, having kids... It's all a choice
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U should be perfect as agent for euthanasia package wink.gif
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QUOTE(killdavid @ Mar 27 2025, 11:58 AM)
Posting in thread full of weak men.
Suck it up and soldier on.
You are living in a peaceful nation with all your basic needs fulfilled.
Whining like bitches
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Peaceful time create weak men, we need something grand like alien invasion.
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QUOTE(iGamer @ Mar 27 2025, 12:13 PM)
Peaceful time create weak men, we need something grand like alien invasion.
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Ktards very suffering driving x50. Suffering dunno what carnto change
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Waiha unker JoeK , apasal so down todei. Got /k tibai u until page 9 is your honor, u see others /k, not even ppl wanna komen.
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QUOTE(wagie @ Mar 27 2025, 12:14 PM)
work eat fap sleep only. no life  sad.gif
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get waifu like unker joek. u will have roller coaster life mah
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QUOTE(JoeK @ Mar 27 2025, 11:16 AM)
Sadding life of middle age crisis from my friend perspective

Married, commitment to waifu and kids
Work stressed. At home full of responsibilities. Wife working, shared responsibility.
Work like dog at office, go back home kemas rumah, teach kids etc. Tired

Sudah tua, friends also kurang.
Got 5 friends remaining, ask keluar minum, 4 busy with life and 1 already mati

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy, kena tibai until 9 pages

From work, to home, to hobby, to sembang kencang at Internet, all cannot

What to do. Just pass time until die? sad.gif
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Life is rough and the only way is to go through it.
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I am 40...don't know kira middle age already or not.

but ok lar everything.

Be grateful laugh.gif
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aiyah,
lack of sex jer...
wife no give u is it ???
life is an economic style,
kalau Coke mahal, beli la Pepsi.
KFC mahal n kecik , beli la MarryBrown.
Life is full of choices bro,
be a man and own your life.
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QUOTE(killdavid @ Mar 27 2025, 12:17 PM)
Ktards very suffering driving x50. Suffering dunno what carnto change
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Jimmy Carr despite being a very snide comedian actually got pretty good insights on life



Show me a trust fund baby and i'll show you a tortured mind. Sometimes the most kesian of souls are those that have the material wealth
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Mar 27 2025, 12:51 PM)
Jimmy Carr despite being a very snide comedian actually got pretty good insights on life



Show me a trust fund baby and i'll show you a tortured mind. Sometimes the most kesian of souls are those that have the material wealth
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Truest of words

Rich kid who drives BMW all his life from daddykasi would not appreciate simpan own money to buy BMW

Hardworking kid who works hard and simpan money to buy own bmw with own hard earned money will get satisfaction
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Mar 27 2025, 12:51 PM)
Jimmy Carr despite being a very snide comedian actually got pretty good insights on life



Show me a trust fund baby and i'll show you a tortured mind. Sometimes the most kesian of souls are those that have the material wealth
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True. Society is telling a lie that everyone should be happy. We are not owed or guaranteed happiness. If we have happiness everyday in our lives then it will not be called "happiness". It will be called "normal" or "just another Tuesday".
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Mar 27 2025, 12:51 PM)
Jimmy Carr despite being a very snide comedian actually got pretty good insights on life



Show me a trust fund baby and i'll show you a tortured mind. Sometimes the most kesian of souls are those that have the material wealth
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people always like to meme about material wealth doesn't matter. But having zero material wealth have real repercussions, like starving to death, sick and no money to treat, etc. They are always worse off than the trust fund baby. whistling.gif
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QUOTE(koja6049 @ Mar 27 2025, 12:57 PM)
people always like to meme about material wealth doesn't matter. But having zero material wealth have real repercussions, like starving to death, sick and no money to treat, etc. They are always worse off than the trust fund baby.  whistling.gif
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Hell no matters to me kek. More wealth sure solves lot of problems

But in terms of how you are mentally, the trust fund baby maybe the more prone to sikit2 commit suicide thoughts compared to the guy struggling day to day.
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Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy

Kecian ts
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Mar 27 2025, 01:05 PM)
Hell no matters to me kek. More wealth sure solves lot of problems

But in terms of how you are mentally, the trust fund baby maybe the more prone to sikit2  commit suicide thoughts compared to the guy struggling day to day.
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i believe it is different spectrum of mental illness ba, the destitute ones alot turn to drugs, the super wealthy ones also turn to drugs to cope with their mental health. It is those extreme environments, either caused by having alot of wealth, or having zero wealth, that causes mental health issues.

But other than that, wealth itself doesn't cause mental issues, it is how you cope with stress, outlook of life, having balanced or great expectations then not meeting them, etc. It is just those living under extreme conditions that is ill prepared to cope with such issues, unlike normal middle-class people.
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