Sadding life of middle age crisis from my friend perspective

Married, commitment to waifu and kids
Work stressed. At home full of responsibilities. Wife working, shared responsibility.
Work like dog at office, go back home kemas rumah, teach kids etc. Tired

Sudah tua, friends also kurang.
Got 5 friends remaining, ask keluar minum, 4 busy with life and 1 already mati

Focus on own hobby. Naturally guy like cars
Want buy new car. Waifu don't let.
Open tered sembang what car to buy, kena tibai until 9 pages

From work, to home, to hobby, to sembang kencang at Internet, all cannot

What to do. Just pass time until die?