My situation is reverse
Myself and wife working

However:
100% my pay cheque goes to my wife, she’s the financial controller

While:
I’m also doing house chores, taking care our daughter (going to be 3 next month) - shower her, making milk, sending her to school, picking her up, spend time with her.

My wife:
She’s work and sleep and spend on bag, cute stuff, making herself pretty.