Yes or no? My parents said don't, i dont understand why...

it's always good to have more allies in your life than enemies. especially where you spend most of the time in your life, i.e., home and work

There is this saying "Never make enemy at your resting place"

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It depends...

If the neighbour is shitty...then...nolar.

If you ok, I'm ok...then everyone is ok.

Its for your own good.



Your mother know how "good" u are.

Yes no maybe

I don't, I don't even smile or greet them lol, because I hate nosy people. At any given time I smiled, they will stop me and ask me how I am, where I work, how's my life, am I seeing someone, when will I get married. Like bro MYOB lmao.

My neighbours are racists. You can guess which country I live in.
The only one who was not racist already pass away and daughter moved out.
Majority thinks UMNO MCA MIC PPBM PAS are okay but they are dividing the people.

Those who think that PMX elected can immediately undo 60 years of racist policy, obsession with religion and damaged by race-based political structure in 4 years are not the sharpest tool in the box. So it is important to keep your enemies closer.

of course need la.

u bukan hidup dalam gua anymore, can be all alone.

anything happen, neighbor is your best bet for help.

The way we live have changed. In the past, we used to know the houses in the village. We know the house number, the head of the house, the size of the family, who is the eldest,2nd,3rd,... youngest. Nowadays, due to the complexity of the modern living with the scarcity of the "time", it would not be surprising that some didn't even know their neighbor living to the left & right after living in the same community > 10 years. How sad the living community have become, it is similar trend repeating at the different countries as well, not limited locally.

If given me a chance, I'll prefer the good neighborhood feeling back then in the village. Where everyone knows us, everyone is guarding everyone interest & safety, you do not feel unsafe to let your children to walk on the street. The price of the development & scarcity of time.

i find it a simple parking issue will spoil the relationship

True. More true if high rise, but I've visited a high rise at Old Klang Road... seems like 80s or 90s design. The community there is amazing. The surau/community center got people. Got sports day for apartment residence. Got one pakcik main tanam sayur, buah ask people to freely take. Some give back. Really like Kg atmosphere, but in KL.

Landed-should be more like communal. May not be during work phase (not retired). Once retired, people get a long well. Community becomes more integrated.

Currently staying at a landed location, technically 2nd gen-a minority in the housing area. Most all 1st gen retired or almost retired. Got activities. Got yearly tour visit. Visit neighbours in hospital etc. But it depends on people and society. For Muslims, there is the 5 times to prayer-so lepak/chat after that. Can confidently leave house cuti-cuti lama because neighbours keep watch.

Yes, always.. from depan ke belakang.. You can get many info / insights of the taman from everyone.

its always good to be nice to people.
u might not get it directly back from them, but u will get it back.
spread positivity.

I came acrosses an uncle always smile at u and 1 day he parked his car in front of my car while i was washing my car in the garage... He said just 5 mins.... I realized he took advantage from the "good relationship"

you dont need to be friends with neighbours but at least be in their good books

i miss my old day,

neighbour even give house key to you when they go cuti2.
neighbour gives you the hot dish they just cooked.
neighbour help you keep your shirt when raining is coming.


yes parking issue is common now, landed or highrise also same

i threaten my neighbours almost every day.

Good relationship of course, with everyone if possible.

Just don't do sohai shit then you're good.