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 Do u keep good relationship with neighbors?

Do u keep good relationship with neighbors?
 
Yes, just in case need helps [ 38 ] ** [59.38%]
No, don't even bother [ 26 ] ** [40.62%]
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thkent91
post Dec 16 2024, 11:27 AM

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QUOTE(Modasatan @ Dec 15 2024, 10:30 PM)
Yes or no? My parents said don't, i dont understand why...
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Cisne
post Dec 16 2024, 01:50 PM

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QUOTE(mystvearn @ Dec 16 2024, 08:29 AM)
True. More true if high rise, but I've visited a high rise at Old Klang Road... seems like 80s or 90s design. The community there is amazing. The surau/community center got people. Got sports day for apartment residence. Got one pakcik main tanam sayur, buah ask people to freely take. Some give back. Really like Kg atmosphere, but in KL.

Landed-should be more like communal. May not be during work phase (not retired). Once retired, people get a long well. Community becomes more integrated.

Currently staying at a landed location, technically 2nd gen-a minority in the housing area. Most all 1st gen retired or almost retired. Got activities. Got yearly tour visit. Visit neighbours in hospital etc. But it depends on people and society. For Muslims, there is the 5 times to prayer-so lepak/chat after that. Can confidently leave house cuti-cuti lama because neighbours keep watch.
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QUOTE(Treepex @ Dec 16 2024, 10:04 AM)
i miss my old day,

neighbour even give house key to you when they go cuti2.
neighbour gives you the hot dish they just cooked.
neighbour help you keep your shirt when raining is coming.
yes parking issue is common now, landed or highrise also same
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At the city, majority ppl do not treats their current home as their home.
The city home is always their temporary home, their real home is always their village / hometown.
During the festive season, the city home is not the home for celebration, the celebration is always held back at real home ( village / hometown).
During weekend, the hard to get "me time" or "family time", ppl are busy with own priorities. There is no luxury of excess time for the community.
People do not get to know each other anymore because of the scarcity of time.
People do not fear to cause harm anymore because we don't know each other.
People are more emotionless when dealing with ppl they don't know.
Don't know nowadays, what is the meaning of the life the society are living.
marfccy
post Dec 16 2024, 04:15 PM

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QUOTE(Treepex @ Dec 16 2024, 10:04 AM)
i miss my old day,

neighbour even give house key to you when they go cuti2.
neighbour gives you the hot dish they just cooked.
neighbour help you keep your shirt when raining is coming.
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those were the days mang, nowadays people dont know much about communal living ed

 

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