Eh brudder, dun think too much la... u're stressing yourself too much to tackle her... every couple started as friends 1st ma... If not u want her to say "Appreciate to have u as my Fubu" meh? Take a break sometimes and dun sms or call her too often... talking bout hold her hands i did that b4 when i was with this gal (got bf dy and she also say her relationship with her bf not good), i just said my hand is cold and hold her hand straightaway before we walked on the beach during midnite... luckily she didn't reject and that was my first time holding a gal's hand. FYI, she's still attach to her bf now... after few months telling me that her bf treat her badly... At first tot got huge chance when i get to date her out for movies... but then while dating her she's chatting with her bf on the phone hurts me badly... after few major setbacks i finally gave up... her feelings is still towards her bf... So i'm now searching for the right 1...

To TS just go on slowly and don't push everything too fast... make it as friends 1st... while doing that u can know her better and to think whether is she the one u're searching... (u're like a lvl 1 hero now and trying to firstblood someone i never did that b4 hehehe) and remember dun get excited too easily for a small thing...

Keep up the good work! We will support you and u have a very interesting and kanjiong thread ... (been reading this topic the whole morning in office )

Bro, be strong. U ain't lose nothing. Just dun be afraid next time when u wanna kau another person. Dun be like a Singaporean so kiasu and kiasi can dy... I was in your same situation last time until one day a sentence from my dad broke my sadness and he asked me why are u so kiasu? Learn from mistakes... (Actually i lost to my dad in running... last time but i won him now... hehe ) Now what u should do is prepare yourself better for another gal. Make more friends... not necessarily always gal only ok... And dun listen to those sad songs... probably can try to listen to Bob Sinclair - Love generation I'm listening now