aiyoyo... it's early to put feelings into her. Give yourself maybe another 6 months or so to know her as a friend. Treat her as you would u treat you usual friends . You don't sms you usual friends asking him/her whether finish working or eaten dinner already right?

The fact that she bother to reply your sms and msn means she already have a good impression of you. Don't blow it. Spread your effort like butter. Call her maybe once in 2-3 weeks?. Maybe date her once in 1-2 months. The rest of the time, study/work and play hard. Your life doesn't revolve around her.

Usually, don't put feelings in a girl unless she put feelings into you first. This is because, girls are slower to like guys. They take a long time to 'warm up' and takes a long time to 'warm down'.
Guys are the opposite. So be patience.


Continue like this and you will ended up like the guy who 'stalks' icyz.

hahaha.. you can save yourself a lot trouble by getting a temporary prepaid hp number and ask that guy to call you to chit chat. The benefit is tremendous, such as:

1) Save yourself a lot of time from typing. Talking is faster.
2) Faster for you to judge his confidence. No chance for him to 'correct' his msn/sms message before sending.
3) His tone and speech tell a lot of about himself.
4) Just throw away the prepaid card if he starts stalking you.

Of course, if you are interested to know more, PM me for details (just like vey99)..hahha!!

This post has been edited by hyperweb: Nov 7 2007, 12:18 PM

cool way to go....

One thing that i can share with you just in case you experience it.

Some gals are attention seekers. When they sense that they are not getting enough attention from you, they will try to throw 'hints' to you to mess you up. Here are some classic examples these type of ppl would do:

1) Send those cute sms to you. These sms has words like 'missing you', ' you brighten my day', 'thinking of you' and all sorts of nonsense. Usually these sms are those type that are mass forwarded and not a personal message.

2) Keep calling you 3-4 times a day says that she is bored.

3) Share dramatic stories about her life with you. Usually those stories are similar you see in those korean drama.


If you ever responded to her hint start starts giving attention to her again, she will then will withdraw herself from you. She will repeat this cycle when she thinks it is necessary to continue to get attention.


I'm not sure about you, most of my friends (including me) experienced it many years ago. So, it's best to avoid falling into this type of trap.

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Added on November 7, 2007, 10:08 pmhahaha....you seems to be tackling all the gals in this forum...may the force be with you...


This post has been edited by hyperweb: Nov 7 2007, 10:08 PM

I think you are in another world. How's the feeling of 'love'?... good right?... enjoy it while you can... because 90% of the time, it will ended up in pain.

Frankly, you are infatuated with her...which is not good. Since you are more of less decided to follow your feelings, I wish you all the best.

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Added on November 15, 2007, 7:03 pmI like your style. Frank but blunt. ... mind if i be your friend?..

This post has been edited by hyperweb: Nov 15 2007, 07:04 PM

It's some feelings that leads you to put a lot all of attention and time on another person that you hardly knew.
If you use logic, it makes no sense why you should give her so much attention. But, with uncontrollable feelings, logic fails.

So, it's really up to you to decide...to take step back or follow your heart.