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 Can teach me how to woo her?, I just met her for few days...

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JinXXX
post Nov 7 2007, 11:02 AM

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QUOTE(rourou @ Nov 7 2007, 09:29 AM)
sms that ask what a person is doing, have dinner already and such are just lame.  shows that you do not have substance to talk about.  don't put on a "desperate" tag on you.  good luck
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so if no substance how to make substance ? la .. rourou wub.gif , care to advice all the young innocents boys and girls ?


QUOTE(icyz @ Nov 7 2007, 10:56 AM)
Yes, try not to sms too often asking those mini minor things. Will feel very 'farn'. Same like nagging, like her dad asking her whether she has taken her dinner and bla bla. Just tahan a bit at the moment. You're not her anyone yet, later she might feel as if you're stalking her. Then the situation might get even worse. Or as you said, sms her at a particular time each day.
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yeah, true but then some girls/guys like their "mate" to do that wor ..
i know its fan and also wasting money but in a way it shows you care mah...

yeah like at night, asking how was her day, but don't to often la.. must pancing pancing abit huh icyz wub.gif wub.gif tongue.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif
JinXXX
post Nov 7 2007, 11:31 AM

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QUOTE(icyz @ Nov 7 2007, 11:24 AM)
very true. i used to hope my ex would do the same, but he just never cared. even when i sms him, he would't reply. and that was after working hours..

i think i know how TS feels, but working time is meant for working. better dont disturb the other party so much. be professional maa..even when it comes to kau lui.. whistling.gif
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wow that just blows man, at least when people sms you can just reply bz now call u later or something..
good for you now he's you ex.. at least you can find/be with better people who actually give a shit, by shit i mean care more.. smile.gif

but then working time can also sms a little bit la.. send jokes or what, make the other party happy.. de-stress a little but not too much until it becomes annoying.. maybe icyz should write a book..

dating the professional way by icyz or another book from table to bedroom, secrets of the trade.. tongue.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif rclxms.gif


Added on November 7, 2007, 11:32 am
QUOTE(rourou @ Nov 7 2007, 11:29 AM)
urghhh i hate sms-es... don't know how ppl can actually have conversations pressing on those tiny buttons on the damn mobile @_@ don't your fingers hurt??
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handphone's keypads are soft, just like breast implants smile.gif hahahah lol

pardon my choice of words i'm cheery today seeing you all here.. smile.gif

yeah some girls don't like to sms they rather you call and chat on the phone.. smile.gif

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post Nov 7 2007, 11:38 AM

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QUOTE(icyz @ Nov 7 2007, 11:35 AM)
dear jinxxx..i'm actually very free @ work and i can go multi-tasking. just that i do not wish to disturb my friends during working hours unless there's any emergency.

how i wish i can call him but dont dare to ask or his number..icyz is a shy girl, lol


Added on November 7, 2007, 11:36 am
by the way, i prefer sms as i am to shy to talk, agagagaa
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dear icyz.. i'm actually very free @ work, as i work on project basis , i'm also an avid multi-tasker, but i considered myself to be a "super-tasker", i don't wanna disturb my friends on msn as they are well busy with work smile.gif ...

btw do you have his phone number? maybe u can sms him asking simple things first see how he respond lo...

oh i see, i also prefer sms for "first contact" basis, to gage them though the words they use, how the express... so that i know i won't be acting stupid of silly in front of them when i meet them.. smile.gif
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post Nov 7 2007, 11:46 AM

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QUOTE(icyz @ Nov 7 2007, 11:43 AM)
i dont have. dont think i have the guts to ask. i seldom ask for guys' numbers. not my style?
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well true true also, maybe you can change your style a little bit..
maybe you have the thought/impression if you ask a guys hp means you like or is attracted to him...
maybe thats why you dont ask..

maybe you should at last think , let's be friends first, and keep in touch if its ment to be by fate and destiny and guided by god then we will be together if not let's be friends and enjoy each other's company and jokes.. smile.gif
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post Nov 7 2007, 11:53 AM

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QUOTE(rourou @ Nov 7 2007, 11:50 AM)
hrm.. i can understand when some ppl prefers to msn and sms because they're shy.. but once you asked the person out for a date you should be comfortable enough with each other to have real life conversation?  what dissappoints me is that guys who seems to be witty online can turn up to be such duh when you actually meet them.
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true true.. you must understand.. online in the virtual world we don't need to worry about facial expressions which actually gives people the shyness feeling..

in the real world its different.. lucky i'm not that kind of person.. maybe on the 1st or 2nd i meet people in real life but later on when i accept them into my database then i'm who i am.. online .. offline.. middleline.. no line.. smile.gif

 

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