dude you're already overdoing it. STOP giving her attention for say 1-2 weeks and see how she respond.

Sorry if this sound harsh, but I got strong feeling that she is just using you. She is playing hard to get as she already know you are chasing her. If you confess now, very high chance she'll reject as you mentioned she still thinking bout her ex while attached to her bf. 

You confess now confirm Game Over liao. U already been put under her friends zone. Thanks to showing too much interest in her and treating her a bit like a princess. Princess usually doesnt fall in love wtih their serveant. They fall in love with a prince who owns a castle and a white horse.....

ZZzZZzzzzZz.....so the best courting advice for a man is to listen to a girls opinion? LOL 

i tell you right now go on listen to her advice, you already become half wuss image under that girl. Keep listening and lets see who become the sorhai in the end. 

Lemme tell you a couple years back my ex gf had a bf already in relationship for 3 years, and i knew her from that point on, during that ocassion she flirt wif many other guys... all fall for her and become some kinda sorhai wuss and began treating her like a princess and chasing her lookin like a loser, including her bf(who also treats her the same).

I wasn't interested at all wif her, and treat her so so only. Since we r in the same college and she lives nearby my neighbourhood we meet everyday and went back together everyday. Sometimes thrs a moment whr she thinks shes so freaking hot coz many idiot chasing her and lansi wif me, and immediately i shoot her back kaw kaw. I didnt even give her a single chance to heighten up her ego, in fact keep smashing them into pieces. So practically yeah we r frens but theres numerous occasion whr i ended up treating her like a bit of a trash...

Fast forward a couple of months, FOr your info all the guys that wooing her desperately and showing too much care and attention all she rejected mercilessly, either alwayz kena scold or something else, and it was pretty heartless... in the end she fall in love wif me    in fact i even kena force to couple wif her.....

Your asking for my advice? attack their weak point. WHat is their weak point? They love SECURITY. Security for girls means both physically, emotionally and mentally.

Physically they love tall and buff guys. Why? because they feel secure, they want the guys to dominate them.

Mentally how? the 1st step is the easiest. Money/wealth/good career/owns a business/have nice car/have nice house/knows how to make money/financial independence or freedom from guys.

Last step is whr most of the guys PHAILS. Emotionally. You must emotionally DOMINATE or at LEAST BE EQUAL in the relationship. This means not giving in 100% to her every ridiculous demand(buying her expensive stuff, treat her every dinner, paying for everything, keep praising her so freaking beautiful until her ego bloatens up, keep giving her some kinda gifts, desperately call and sms her for hours, showing very early in the relationship that you've fall in love wif her, therefore you become their servant and do everything for her). If you do this, you mentally and emotionally shift the dominant power from you to them, its when the girl who'll make the calls, and hold more dominant power in the relationship. WHen your in this deep shite situation rest assured, no matter how nicest men in the world you become in her eyes, you will only be put in the her friends list, you wont ever get to be her bf. Even if you get to, its another typical relationship whr the guy suffers the most and the girl is the only 1 benefited from the relationship. Im not saying you must dominate 100%, AT LEAST the situation should be equal, either physically, mentally and emotionally.

Notice so many girls keeps whining their bf(an *ss hol*) no good but in the end still stick wif their bf? Notice why so many guys treat their gf like a princess and in the end got dumped for numerous reason? Most of you guys see it only thru your eyes but not thru your mind. Look, think and learn from the humanity around you, look at situation from an open mind without taking sides, being prejudice or selfish, and let nature and GOD tell you how this world works.

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Added on December 15, 2007, 11:08 pm
Anyway sorry i didnt meant to be sexist, so no harm in flaming you. Coz if relationship is really dat straight forward i wouldn't suffer so much heartbreaking relationship in my early teeny years until im 23-24 years until when i learn thru experience, and thru wisdom.

Coz if its dat simple in courting a girl then there wouldn't be so much inexperience guys in relationship sulk a lot in this cupid corners. Coz they all do it the old fashion and straightforward guys way, like what you suggest. 

chi gik la i tell u tis story..
i'm lovin it

Updated:

Just now having snooker with her... Ask her about the date for 24 de... She said might be cannot worr... Cause her bf cant confirm the date for her de.... So I ask her how about 25... She said dont know also... So I told her I will blank out these 2 dates and will keep her update the status... She said if got other event... dont let it blank.. I said nvm... I dont have event that time... I will totally blank it out for her....

Tonight... really enjoy playing snooker with her de.... Eventhough she is not pro... but the feeling was so nice.... On the way back to her house... Im asking her bf things..... and she told me about it also.... I do think that want to hold her hand that time... but I keep pressing myself not to do so... Wait until the right time.... If I really go out with her.... I promise her to get her a unforgetable and memorable date for her de.....

Even become spanar... I also want to court her already... Cause I like her very much.... I will do my best to court her... If I fail also... I wont regret... I have do my best....

1st sight must pass 1st marr... then after that.. We chat alot and get to know that we have some same thoughts... Like and dislike as well....