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News“I just want to say goodbye” Form 1 Student in KL Falls to Her Death From 8th Floor of School BuildingPublished 5 seconds ago  October 2, 2024By Azri Azizan
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“I love you all, I just want to say goodbye.”


These were the last words of a Form 1 female student from Kuen Cheng Secondary School who posted a live farewell video on social media moments before jumping off the 8th floor of the school.

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In the video, the student, who spoke entirely in English expressed her gratitude and said she was grateful for her friends who had always been there for her.


As per the report from China Press, the incident occurred at around 6 PM yesterday (October 1) on the 8th floor of the teaching building of the school. Unfortunately, the student suffered from serious injury and was pronounced dead by the medical team.

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It is also reported that the student was cheerful and lively, and she was even talking & laughing with her peers in the class before the incident.

The management of the school has released an official statement via its website and confirmed the death of the student. The school also said counsellors will continue to provide psychological support and emotional counselling to other students who are affected by the matter.

On the other hand, Brickfields district Chief Police, ACP Ku Mashariman bin Ku Mahmood confirmed that the police received a report about the matter from the school, and the body of the student has been sent to the morgue for post-mortem.



At the time being, PDRM is investigating the matter as a case of sudden death.

The management of the school also urged the public NOT to spread unverified news as the police investigate the matter.

Befrienders KL offers free and confidential emotional support to anyone feeling distressed, depressed or suicidal. It’s a safe space where you can talk about anything that is troubling you while remaining anonymous. Please call 03-76272929 (24 hours).



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chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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Because many people angry I delete my post

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 12:46 PM)
Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

Apa lah bodoh sangat
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we dont know what is the actual cause

so diam 7
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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schooling time not focus on education focus on what? olympic gold medal training?
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Damn 13 y.o. committing suicide, real big red flag of societal illness.
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Last case was Secondary school Kajang Yu Hua ©. Form1 student jumped from 3rd floor if i remember correctly.
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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QUOTE(msacras @ Oct 2 2024, 12:45 PM)
Strawberry
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Stress, kena called strawberry, suicide, kena called strawberry.


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damn sad.. at form 1 he should be happily enjoying life..
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plenty of kids from cina skul 14th floor

during ayam's days my classmate also 14th floor from her own apartment

that was like form 2 or form 3 i can't remember, big news back then lol
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Anyone of you went thru puberty with some weird mood?

Last time I had some weird thought ... thought my balls got cancer because sometimes pain... I was depressed but I didn't wanna die so young.


I had a good academic performance, pretty tall and quite hensem. So I was thinking if I die, and reborn as typical ktard need I might as well isekai.

I suspect is due to the hormones

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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need to add new subject wajib for all students.
stress management and insert lesson on why they shouldnt suicide. put high marks in exam for this topic so that everybody needs to study hard about it.
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form 1 already can think of suicide.. sigh..
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QUOTE(homicidal85 @ Oct 2 2024, 12:52 PM)
need to add new subject wajib for all students.
stress management and insert lesson on why they shouldnt suicide. put high marks in exam for this topic so that everybody needs to study hard about it.
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Imagine failing to score it, even bigger failure, better 14th floor.
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 12:46 PM)
Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

Apa lah bodoh sangat
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They dont make the same human anymore nowdays.
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deswai don't always ask people go 14th floor, really the fella jump then how?
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QUOTE(H4XF4XTOR @ Oct 2 2024, 01:47 PM)
habislah. school haunted liao
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May be it is not due to study but family or bf problems.
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QUOTE(mingyuyu @ Oct 2 2024, 12:51 PM)
plenty of kids from cina skul 14th floor

during ayam's days my classmate also 14th floor from her own apartment

that was like form 2 or form 3 i can't remember, big news back then lol
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During my time @ SMK, 1 of my junior also 14th floor from the flat next to the previous Cheras badminton court @ the little Kowloon of MY. She was a straight As student but cannot cope with the stress of maintaining straight As result thus ended up 14th floor. Really kesian 🥲
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QUOTE(worldblues @ Oct 2 2024, 01:01 PM)
I freaking love the forum dwellers and the lowyat forum itself in the kopitiam section. I can literally talk about how I love pedophilia and fetishize about breaking a 6 year old child's womb with my dick while jerking it off towards the dead palestinian children yet I would never get ban. Never change Lowyat forum lmao
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QUOTE(MGM @ Oct 2 2024, 01:14 PM)
May be it is not due to study but family or bf problems.
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Edited to avoid unnecessary speculation. Sekian.

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I freaking love the forum dwellers and the lowyat forum itself in the kopitiam section. I can literally talk about how I love pedophilia and fetishize about breaking a 6 year old child's womb with my dick while jerking it off towards the dead palestinian children yet I would never get ban. Never change Lowyat forum lmao
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i will wait for the full story context, if any.

usually girl will mature in their intellectual way faster during 13-25 , the exception one of course

probably got bullied, house situation not good, bleak future as women, got threaten , everyday at school not happy, being told to tough up by old boomer / boomer parent ( very hate these parent )
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Everyone one make assumption it is due to academics
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The management of the school also urged the public NOT to spread unverified news as the police investigate the matter.

lloll. this better publicly say this case didnt happen at all.
if there nothing to ddig, there wont be any speculation.
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when we were in form 1 , we literally run all the time playing , no smartfon , no scomed , damn happy times.


now, kiasu mentality due to socmed
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 2 2024, 01:23 PM)
i will wait for the full story context, if any.

usually girl will mature in their intellectual way faster during 13-25 , the exception one of course

probably got bullied, house situation not good, bleak future as women, got threaten , everyday at school not happy, being told to tough up by old boomer / boomer parent ( very hate these parent )
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The most probable reasons have been circulating in mummies/parents/students group chat. I read about it but not nice to disclose it here.
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Sigh... live streaming some more... imagine the family members watch the live stream but can't do anything to stop her...
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Maybe she got cyberbullied?

R.I.P.
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QUOTE(lotussgot @ Oct 2 2024, 01:27 PM)
when we were in form 1 , we literally run all the time playing , no smartfon , no scomed , damn happy times.
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Not really. Refer to my post #31. Happened in the mid 90s.
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Why?? so sad to hear this kind of news. So young, sigh. RIP.

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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 2 2024, 01:31 PM)
Not really. Refer to my post #31. Happened in the mid 90s.
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your referred case is salah parents/guardians

expect the best from that poor guy/gal
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 12:46 PM)
Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

Apa lah bodoh sangat
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babi judgemental

LU SAPE????
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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 2 2024, 01:28 PM)
The most probable reasons have been circulating in mummies/parents/students group chat. I read about it but not nice to disclose it here.
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understandable, usually they will have a student gathering in the school hall to explain what happen as this has gone viral


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QUOTE(DValentine @ Oct 2 2024, 01:35 PM)
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I just reply to the other guy

Maybe it's not education
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Maybe she was sexually assaulted and seeking an end to the trauma?

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QUOTE(H4XF4XTOR @ Oct 2 2024, 12:47 PM)
habislah. school haunted liao
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 01:36 PM)
Sorry boss
I just reply to the other guy

Maybe it's not education
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QUOTE(lotussgot @ Oct 2 2024, 01:34 PM)
your referred case is salah parents/guardians

expect the best from that poor guy/gal
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Maybe family stress? U know la. Typical Chinese families love to compare their kids with others. Indirectly they made their kids feel inferior.
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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 2 2024, 01:28 PM)
The most probable reasons have been circulating in mummies/parents/students group chat. I read about it but not nice to disclose it here.
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sounds like not because of study stress

bf problem?
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 12:46 PM)
Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

Apa lah bodoh sangat
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Don't judge and assume so easily.

I have seen first hand what some parents have done to their children. Had one girl come into my clinic many years back. Very demure quiet girl in form 1 and from chung Hua no 1.

Obviously she's not in a good mind space and I asked how is her day to day life. She goes to school, once finish mom picks her and she eats in the car, goes to tuition. After noon tuition, mom picks her she goes home to shower and eat dinner then goes straight to night classes. Weekends? Ballet class, swimming class and violin classes. That poor girl even saw the sweets in my waiting area and ate it all up because her mom controls her
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 2 2024, 01:35 PM)
understandable, usually they will have a student gathering in the school hall to explain what happen as this has gone viral
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The mgmt of the school has issued a notice yesterday but didn’t mention the reason.
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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Oct 2 2024, 01:45 PM)
Don't judge and assume so easily.

I have seen first hand what some parents have done to their children. Had one girl come into my clinic many years back. Very demure quiet girl in form 1 and from chung Hua no 1.

Obviously she's not in a good mind space and I asked how is her day to day life. She goes to school, once finish mom picks her and she eats in the car, goes to tuition. After noon tuition, mom picks her she goes home to shower and eat dinner then goes straight to night classes. Weekends? Ballet class, swimming class and violin classes. That poor girl even saw the sweets in my waiting area and ate it all up because her mom controls her
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My wife asked me what to expect for our twins babies in the coming near future.

I told her, they should have free time to explore their own world.

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QUOTE(mingyuyu @ Oct 2 2024, 12:51 PM)
plenty of kids from cina skul 14th floor

during ayam's days my classmate also 14th floor from her own apartment

that was like form 2 or form 3 i can't remember, big news back then lol
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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Oct 2 2024, 01:45 PM)
Don't judge and assume so easily.

I have seen first hand what some parents have done to their children. Had one girl come into my clinic many years back. Very demure quiet girl in form 1 and from chung Hua no 1.

Obviously she's not in a good mind space and I asked how is her day to day life. She goes to school, once finish mom picks her and she eats in the car, goes to tuition. After noon tuition, mom picks her she goes home to shower and eat dinner then goes straight to night classes. Weekends? Ballet class, swimming class and violin classes. That poor girl even saw the sweets in my waiting area and ate it all up because her mom controls her
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typical modern slave ktard tend to think work stress is more severe than study stress, but I always think its the other way round

what they don't understand is some freedoms can only be achieved in adulthood, work is stressful yes but one can always resign and change job or even change field, no money one can always borrow from FaMa if not from friends and ahlong, not able to find gf but still can go 2feidei places to cheong, adults have all the freedom in the world and no need to see the face of parents, and no need to meet the expectation of the family








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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Oct 2 2024, 01:45 PM)
Don't judge and assume so easily.

I have seen first hand what some parents have done to their children. Had one girl come into my clinic many years back. Very demure quiet girl in form 1 and from chung Hua no 1.

Obviously she's not in a good mind space and I asked how is her day to day life. She goes to school, once finish mom picks her and she eats in the car, goes to tuition. After noon tuition, mom picks her she goes home to shower and eat dinner then goes straight to night classes. Weekends? Ballet class, swimming class and violin classes. That poor girl even saw the sweets in my waiting area and ate it all up because her mom controls her
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WTFish you fed her so much sweets for
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Conlanfirm is parents fault

Baru 13yo already suicide this kind of depression must have already happened during her primary years

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Could be case of bullying/cyber bullying. Not discounting that.
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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Oct 2 2024, 01:45 PM)
Don't judge and assume so easily.

I have seen first hand what some parents have done to their children. Had one girl come into my clinic many years back. Very demure quiet girl in form 1 and from chung Hua no 1.

Obviously she's not in a good mind space and I asked how is her day to day life. She goes to school, once finish mom picks her and she eats in the car, goes to tuition. After noon tuition, mom picks her she goes home to shower and eat dinner then goes straight to night classes. Weekends? Ballet class, swimming class and violin classes. That poor girl even saw the sweets in my waiting area and ate it all up because her mom controls her
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That sohai vapanel yesterday open thread say shouldn't let children go on school trips (bus catch fire and camping site landslide). Today he say children suicide is strawberry. He's just a troll la.
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Any suicide related to education is bullshit, in the end it boils down to parenting.

QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 2 2024, 01:17 PM)
During my time @ SMK, 1 of my junior also 14th floor from the flat next to the previous Cheras badminton court @ the little Kowloon of MY. She was a straight As student but cannot cope with the stress of maintaining straight As result thus ended up 14th floor. Really kesian 🥲
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Flat Seri Sabah is little Kowloon? Had stayed near the area for decades, and the flats itself is much less dense than the landed houses at Batu 9 to 11 there....



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Maybe family stress? U know la. Typical Chinese families love to compare their kids with others. Indirectly they made their kids feel inferior.
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I'm not saying this case is stress from family

But I know somwtim3s some ppl never satisfied.. if get 11A+ they ask why not 13A+.. if u r doctor they ask why you not some top cancer surgeon...if u r pilot they ask why u not flying f35.. why u not top gun Ace

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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Oct 2 2024, 02:06 PM)
Any suicide related to education is bullshit, in the end it boils down to parenting.
Flat Seri Sabah is little Kowloon? Had stayed near the area for decades, and the flats itself is much less dense than the landed houses at Batu 9 to 11 there....
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No, the ex stadium badminton is little Kowloon now. She 14th floor from the flat next to it.
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Don't judge and assume so easily.

I have seen first hand what some parents have done to their children. Had one girl come into my clinic many years back. Very demure quiet girl in form 1 and from chung Hua no 1.

Obviously she's not in a good mind space and I asked how is her day to day life. She goes to school, once finish mom picks her and she eats in the car, goes to tuition. After noon tuition, mom picks her she goes home to shower and eat dinner then goes straight to night classes. Weekends? Ballet class, swimming class and violin classes. That poor girl even saw the sweets in my waiting area and ate it all up because her mom controls her
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So u r child psych ah? Or seeing her bcoz of other issues then detected it... so candy helps cure her symptoms partially?

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Which education not focus on academic?

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Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

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It is parent really Kancheong type. Scare their kid can't compete with others, scare can't get a good result to secure a place in Top 3 Public University and enroll in hot degree displine.

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when we were in form 1 , we literally run all the time playing , no smartfon , no scomed , damn happy times.
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No, the ex stadium badminton is little Kowloon now. She 14th floor from the flat next to it.
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Oh... ya... then you are right... M Vertica really high density and got that title. I thought u meant the area used to be that.

The flat next to it is Flat Seri Sabah... Already had a few committed suicide there. One of them was my student too...

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SK/SMK and some private/international schools,
suka hati lu olang buat tak buat homework, janji finish work hours i clockout and go home
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Lol... relief teacher entering relief class

I thought relief means have to teach also... if like that doctor relief can say ok I'm just here to sit in the clinic if anything pls go to hospital ok
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Oh... ya... then you are right... M Vertica really high density and got that title. I thought u meant the area used to be that.

The flat next to it is Flat Seri Sabah... Already had a few committed suicide there. One of them was my student too...
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Wow u r teacher ah. So u teach MGTOw philosophy to the males or u let them suffer
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deswai don't always ask people go 14th floor, really the fella jump then how?
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damn.. back in the day ayam secondary sch... will stress if ur ping high and cant tunnel the host... or they dont fucking pause and save the game for me when i dc sad.gif
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I agree to this, always ask ppl go 14th floor and challenging people to go in to war, all these fella play a part in making it happen no matter how small the influence is.
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when we were in form 1 , we literally run all the time playing , no smartfon , no scomed , damn happy times.
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For those out there contemplating suicide, don't choose the easy way out by suicide. Your family will affected as well. Things will get better. Talk to someone.
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Wow u r teacher ah. So u teach MGTOw philosophy to the males or u let them suffer
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Not a teacher... just used to do part time tutoring, so technically still like a 'teacher'.

On that 'MGTOW' part, only educate young men that started to learn what its like in a now female centric world and how to go around it; not teenager boys that still need a lot character development...

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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ Oct 2 2024, 02:25 PM)
My stress was everyday dota n Cs but still can't be pro player.
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It is also reported that the student was cheerful and lively, and she was even talking & laughing with her peers in the class before the incident.


depression is no joke man

RIP

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Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

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This.

Don’t even have exams nowadays. Just pure assessment from teachers.

Like that also cannot.

Setobeli.

More like peer pressure keep compare this and that with friends and can’t keep up.

Last week je met old friend dotter in form 4 say need iPhone 16 if not Sudah outdated and can’t keep up with friends. Toxic friends
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Imagine that is your sibling or son or daughter, or close to some ktard watching this forum post.

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time changes, society going forward. tv/camera/ipod/cd player -> mobile phone with everything...
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It is also reported that the student was cheerful and lively, and she was even talking & laughing with her peers in the class before the incident.


depression is no joke man

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QUOTE(God Grid @ Oct 2 2024, 02:31 PM)
It is also reported that the student was cheerful and lively, and she was even talking & laughing with her peers in the class before the incident.


depression is no joke man

RIP

get help if you feel depress
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hard to tell for the ppl in depression.. only can raise awareness...
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but could also be happy on the outside, but dying on the inside

we have no idea what's going on in people's head or at home

should get help early one sad.gif
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So u r child psych ah? Or seeing her bcoz of other issues then detected it... so candy helps cure  her symptoms partially?
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I offer refleshments in my waiting area. Candy was because she asked from my staff but she told them not to tell the mom. Maybe her little way to get away from her control freak of a mom.

Fun fact people absolute love roasted peanuts whilst waiting.
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One of the teachers recently transferred from sjkc also shared the same story.
The stress and depression experienced by pupils in his previous school is no joke.
Some parents are too hard on their kids, to the point where the kids feel trapped and dunno how to deal with it the right way. Things get worse when parents start comparing them to other children.

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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 12:46 PM)
Which education not focus on academic?

Study also stress

Future work lagi stress

And form 1 only

Not major exam

Apa lah bodoh sangat
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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Oct 2 2024, 02:17 PM)
Oh... ya... then you are right... M Vertica really high density and got that title. I thought u meant the area used to be that.

The flat next to it is Flat Seri Sabah... Already had a few committed suicide there. One of them was my student too...
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Yes, mmg got many 14th floor cases there.

OMG! Your student also 14th floor there? 😓
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chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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I miss " kelas buat kilija sendiri "

Lol... relief teacher entering relief class

I thought relief means have to teach also... if like that doctor relief can say ok I'm just here to sit in the clinic if anything pls go to hospital ok
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dont forget that teacher who keeps getting pregnant brows.gif
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habislah. school haunted liao
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That whole area is just haunted. Ask the bungalow owners of that area.

Last time I saw a house which the roof was gone to halau whatever hantu there.
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Yes, mmg got many 14th floor cases there.

OMG! Your student also 14th floor there? 😓
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last time i studied there, and my friend stays there too,
memang hotspot for people who wanna 14th floor

the ground floor canopy you can see a few huge dents from the falling body,
last time they didn't bother to fix it, so everyday walk under that suicide dent
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QUOTE(XP750 @ Oct 2 2024, 03:27 PM)
last time i studied there, and my friend stays there too,
memang hotspot for people who wanna 14th floor

the ground floor canopy you can see a few huge dents from the falling body,
last time they didn't bother to fix it, so everyday walk under that suicide dent
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You studied at the SK or SJKC NK?
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chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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Bullying pon banyak, jz never reported. Teachers also to be blamed. If students slow or bad in certain subjects, no tolong mcm cikgu dulu. Just brand as stupid, bodo then student pon kena bullied, one example.

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I miss " kelas buat kilija sendiri "

Lol... relief teacher entering relief class

I thought relief means have to teach also... if like that doctor relief can say ok I'm just here to sit in the clinic if anything pls go to hospital ok
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This type of environment is B40 making factory
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Damn 13 y.o. committing suicide, real big red flag of societal illness.
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Bullying pon banyak, jz never reported. Teachers also to be blamed. If students slow or bad in certain subjects, no tolong mcm cikgu dulu. Just brand as stupid, bodo then student pon kena bullied, one example.
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that school everyday bantai the student to the parent if every day fall back in thier studies

also they like to compare one, others better than you, tell u off why u struggling.
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form 1 got so stress d?
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Serious shit, Kuen Cheng very high stress school.
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I offer refleshments in my waiting area. Candy was because she asked from my staff but she told them not to tell the mom. Maybe her little way to get away from her control freak of a mom.

Fun fact people absolute love roasted peanuts whilst waiting.
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Which clinic so bagus offer roasted peanuts.


Semenanjung clinics all sit down wait only no refreshment at all. Lolipop give to kids also rare already.
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dun way form 1, primary school also stress already that school
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Yes, mmg got many 14th floor cases there.

OMG! Your student also 14th floor there? 😓
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Yup. Nice boy. Lived 12th floor. No contact for years after stopped tutoring, then suddenly was told about some screaming about finances and he jumped off his unit at night.

Sigh, at times would feel some guilt when "what if" kicks in - like there was some possibility to reach out to him and he would be still alive today.

Guess sometimes fate is more powerful than intent.
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if u want to study there, u have to wake up 5am to go to school, because that place superjam and u have to wait long line to get in.

thank goodness I didn't study there.
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Cukur we grew up when it’s still cool to be edgy.

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That school is haunted and the demons like to influence people to 14th floor...
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 03:39 PM)
no, I heard from friends who send their kids there.

if u want to study there, u have to wake up 5am to go to school, because that place superjam and u have to wait long line to get in.

thank goodness I didn't study there.
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i studied at both schools. turn out to be very well.

just because the school is the best in the whole country, doesn't mean people are prone to commit suicide.

how many people have graduated, how many committed suicide.

RIP my junior. It's a very unfortunate incident.
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That whole area is just haunted. Ask the bungalow owners of that area.

Last time I saw a house which the roof was gone to halau whatever hantu there.
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QUOTE(gashout @ Oct 2 2024, 03:42 PM)
i studied at both schools. turn out to be very well.

just because the school is the best in the whole country, doesn't mean people are prone to commit suicide.

how many people have graduated, how many committed suicide.

RIP my junior. It's a very unfortunate incident.
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I came from same school as Najib.

I have never heard of any suicide since I graduated.

So u tell me...why KC is like this.
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I came from same school as Najib.

I have never heard of any suicide since I graduated.

So u tell me...why KC is like this.
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use one case to paint the whole school dark.

form 1 only, what stress?

many schools got people commit suicide, this isn't the first case...
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QUOTE(JohnL77 @ Oct 2 2024, 02:02 PM)
That sohai vapanel yesterday open thread say shouldn't let children go on school trips (bus catch fire and camping site landslide). Today he say children suicide is strawberry. He's just a troll la.
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Likely depression. Chinese kids and being in top school
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 03:39 PM)
no, I heard from friends who send their kids there.

if u want to study there, u have to wake up 5am to go to school, because that place superjam and u have to wait long line to get in.

thank goodness I didn't study there.
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kids studying in 80s-90s were like, 5am whats the issue ?
not to say which era is better, but it's a process that u need to go thru anyway.


i remembered last time due to limited bus services my brother 's bus time actually 4.45am (not wake up)/my bus 5.15am, and he's having tuition after school, piano, sleeping, computer classe, taekwondo, and what expression he used ? "tired"
Have seat or not that's another question.


frankly i dont know when the word "STRESS" got viral, and even 5 years old kid is telling me "i'm stressed"

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QUOTE(AyamBlend @ Oct 2 2024, 03:50 PM)
kids studying in 80s-90s were like, 5am whats the issue ?
not to say which era is better, but it's a process that u need to go thru anyway.
i remembered last time due to limited bus services my brother 's bus time actually 4.45am (not wake up)/my bus 5.15am, and he's having tuition after school, piano, sleeping, computer classe, taekwondo, and what expression he used ? "tired"
Have seat or not that's another question.
frankly i dont know when the word "STRESS" got viral, and even 5 years old kid is telling me "i'm stressed"
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kek, 5am also no issue for me dulu
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QUOTE(XP750 @ Oct 2 2024, 04:27 PM)
last time i studied there, and my friend stays there too,
memang hotspot for people who wanna 14th floor

the ground floor canopy you can see a few huge dents from the falling body,
last time they didn't bother to fix it, so everyday walk under that suicide dent

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Dude that's disturbing as hell.

Reading the thread feels like I'm the odd one out for not even hearing about any suicide cases among my peers during my time at school.
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QUOTE(AyamBlend @ Oct 2 2024, 03:50 PM)
kids studying in 80s-90s were like, 5am whats the issue ?
not to say which era is better, but it's a process that u need to go thru anyway.
i remembered last time due to limited bus services my brother 's bus time actually 4.45am (not wake up)/my bus 5.15am, and he's having tuition after school, piano, sleeping, computer classe, taekwondo, and what expression he used ? "tired"
Have seat or not that's another question.
frankly i dont know when the word "STRESS" got viral, and even 5 years old kid is telling me "i'm stressed"
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he thinks all school like gomen school, just go there play, have fun. come back, then it's called a normal school.
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https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...ding-speak-out/

Parents of girl who fell from KL school building speak out

In an interview with Sin Chew Daily, the girl’s parents said their daughter, who was the third child in the family, had a bubbly personality and was deeply loved at home.

They also added that they never placed any pressure on her to perform well academically and gave her time to relax and unwind whenever she returned from school.

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.

“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

‘We don’t know why she did what she did’

Given this, the girl’s parents are understandably distraught over her passing and are trying to come to terms with the tragedy.

They said that they’re not blaming anyone for the tragedy, with the girl’s father adding that perhaps his daughter would still be alive if she was shown more love at home.

We’re not facing any financial problems nor did we place any undue pressure on her regarding her studies. However, we’re not dismissing the possibility that she may have experienced something else that caused her to take her own life.

“We’ve also accepted the fact that she’s no longer alive and we will spend more time in loving and taking care of our other three children,” they said.

The girl’s parents also asked netizens to respect their daughter by not circulating her photos online.
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https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...ding-speak-out/

Parents of girl who fell from KL school building speak out

In an interview with Sin Chew Daily, the girl’s parents said their daughter, who was the third child in the family, had a bubbly personality and was deeply loved at home.

They also added that they never placed any pressure on her to perform well academically and gave her time to relax and unwind whenever she returned from school.

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.

“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

‘We don’t know why she did what she did’

Given this, the girl’s parents are understandably distraught over her passing and are trying to come to terms with the tragedy.

They said that they’re not blaming anyone for the tragedy, with the girl’s father adding that perhaps his daughter would still be alive if she was shown more love at home.

  We’re not facing any financial problems nor did we place any undue pressure on her regarding her studies. However, we’re not dismissing the possibility that she may have experienced something else that caused her to take her own life.

“We’ve also accepted the fact that she’s no longer alive and we will spend more time in loving and taking care of our other three children,” they said.

The girl’s parents also asked netizens to respect their daughter by not circulating her photos online.
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Wah, my theory proven rite. Demons did appear to influence her.

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Wah, my theory proven rite. Demons did appear to influence her.
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school hostel usually is 4 people in one room. i stayed there before.

but at 6pm, it's also time for people to go to canteen to eat. i guess she didn't go to canteen, instead...
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https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...ding-speak-out/

Parents of girl who fell from KL school building speak out

In an interview with Sin Chew Daily, the girl’s parents said their daughter, who was the third child in the family, had a bubbly personality and was deeply loved at home.

They also added that they never placed any pressure on her to perform well academically and gave her time to relax and unwind whenever she returned from school.

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.

“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

‘We don’t know why she did what she did’

Given this, the girl’s parents are understandably distraught over her passing and are trying to come to terms with the tragedy.

They said that they’re not blaming anyone for the tragedy, with the girl’s father adding that perhaps his daughter would still be alive if she was shown more love at home.

  We’re not facing any financial problems nor did we place any undue pressure on her regarding her studies. However, we’re not dismissing the possibility that she may have experienced something else that caused her to take her own life.

“We’ve also accepted the fact that she’s no longer alive and we will spend more time in loving and taking care of our other three children,” they said.

The girl’s parents also asked netizens to respect their daughter by not circulating her photos online.
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what is that 1st pic on the right?

Got vid of that jumping?
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what is that 1st pic on the right?

Got vid of that jumping?
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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1 Macai involve Robbery = All macai robber.

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They said that they’re not blaming anyone for the tragedy, with the girl’s father adding that perhaps his daughter would still be alive if she was shown more love at home.


This is the real reason la
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 03:39 PM)
no, I heard from friends who send their kids there.

if u want to study there, u have to wake up 5am to go to school, because that place superjam and u have to wait long line to get in.

thank goodness I didn't study there.
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I remember last time i wake up 7am and brush up 715, 730 reach school then ready for the day
Now I am waking up 545 to start preparing everything 615 start car 640 only reach school, then 700 consider late already cb

I think primary school time move early?
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got news mention she was live before jump
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But the pic got circled, seems like someone recording her instead.
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schooling time not focus on education focus on what? olympic gold medal training?
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Wrong.

Actually, schooling is meant to teach you to become a proper person, education is only part of it.

This is the real problem of asian education, the path is crooked.

Schooling supposed to be happy, lively and learning, not result and comparing.

Untill now, so many asian parent still failed to understand.

The success of life not decided by your education, but your personality and attitudes.

Sad.

Note: if result = everything then why most of the invention and technology in this world were mainly coming from western not asian? think about it.

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Reminds me so much of Constantine movie. The sister jumped because she didn’t want to be the conduit for the Devil’s son to get through.
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Ayam from chinese independent high school also. Even the stress is crazy, but with good friends around we support each other, life in high school is the best experience ever. Even now we still very close and came out together even bring out teachers along.
I'm the godfather of one of my classmate's daughter. We planning trips every year.
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Didnt know chinese independent school also got hostel
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But the pic got circled, seems like someone recording her instead.
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from the new.
1. her sis asking stop spreading the jump video
2. do live before jump

news i read, this morning: https://www.chinapress.com.my/?p=4125324
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where video..?
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WTF? Already 2024 and still blame tragedies on ghosts and demons?!?!
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QUOTE(AyamBlend @ Oct 2 2024, 03:50 PM)
kids studying in 80s-90s were like, 5am whats the issue ?
not to say which era is better, but it's a process that u need to go thru anyway.
i remembered last time due to limited bus services my brother 's bus time actually 4.45am (not wake up)/my bus 5.15am, and he's having tuition after school, piano, sleeping, computer classe, taekwondo, and what expression he used ? "tired"
Have seat or not that's another question.
frankly i dont know when the word "STRESS" got viral, and even 5 years old kid is telling me "i'm stressed"
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No lerrr. I grew up in the 80’s. I still recall this tuition mate of mine. A high flying student from VI. Out of the blues, his parents came knocking on our door. Asking if I’ve heard from him. He went missing. They were so distraught. I know they were extremely proud of him, them being only petty traders.

Fast forward a year or more. His body was discovered miles away in Templar’s Park. His remains were positively identified. He went there to unalive himself. No mess. Amongst pure nature.

I like to think he finally found Peace.
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F@$k man! Can't imagine how the family feels right now 😔

RIP little girl
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cannot be lah stress study. must be got other variables...
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This school is super rich. And many T20 parents send their kids there. Also the cause of massive jams along Jln Syed Putra. With such richness I wonder if they provide adequate & competent counsellors for the students or not.
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QUOTE(AyamBlend @ Oct 2 2024, 03:50 PM)
kids studying in 80s-90s were like, 5am whats the issue ?
not to say which era is better, but it's a process that u need to go thru anyway.
i remembered last time due to limited bus services my brother 's bus time actually 4.45am (not wake up)/my bus 5.15am, and he's having tuition after school, piano, sleeping, computer classe, taekwondo, and what expression he used ? "tired"
Have seat or not that's another question.
frankly i dont know when the word "STRESS" got viral, and even 5 years old kid is telling me "i'm stressed"
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last time I studied at SK, relaks saja.

no need to wake up at 5am lah, because my school no traffic jam. I just wake up at 6am to go morning school.

why primary students have to wake up so early? pointless lah.
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I remember last time i wake up 7am and brush up 715, 730 reach school then ready for the day
Now I am waking up 545 to start preparing everything 615 start car 640 only reach school, then 700 consider late already cb

I think primary school time move early?
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because KC traffic jam, so parents need to get their kids wake up early to get there.

some more the cars have to line up before they get into the school.

of all the chinese schools, seriously I don't know why parents sent them there. Its location is so jam.
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cannot be lah stress study. must be got other variables...
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Ada... It seems hantu

https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...lding-speak-out

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.
“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

But if you ask me grieving parents don't make reliable witnesses
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Oct 2 2024, 06:22 PM)
Ada... It seems hantu

https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...lding-speak-out

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.
“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

But if you ask me grieving parents don't make reliable witnesses
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Then it's confirmed

Seeing ghost is clearest sign of mental illness

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Ada... It seems hantu

https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...lding-speak-out

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.
“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

But if you ask me grieving parents don't make reliable witnesses
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People don't watch ghost videos on YouTube?

They cannot hurt you, at most is scratch you, but what they can do is influence you....
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 06:18 PM)
because KC traffic jam, so parents need to get their kids wake up early to get there.

some more the cars have to line up before they get into the school.

of all the chinese schools, seriously I don't know why parents sent them there. Its location is so jam.
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they are the one contributing to the jam at jalan syed putra till jalan istana. lol.

during non school days tht road is such a gem to use in the morning.
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chit ngoi sun pin to the family. but why the cantonese name of the school sound like derma sperm? pakar bahasa kanto guailow83 sila konfirmasi.
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they are the one contributing to the jam at jalan syed putra till jalan istana. lol.

during non school days tht road is such a gem to use in the morning.
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I still no clue as to why parents send them to this school.

So jam and have to wake up early.
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Then it's confirmed

Seeing ghost is clearest sign of mental illness
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see ghost, send her to bomoh?

not sure if this is the right decision.

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This type of environment is B40 making factory
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That time syok la , now think back , some of these teachers probably cost some ppl their future....
Not everyone can be self reliant etc especially at that age
Some need teachers to push them to study etc..
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see ghost, send her to bomoh?

not sure if this is the right decision.
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People don't watch ghost videos on YouTube?

They cannot hurt you, at most is scratch you, but what they can do is influence you....
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There is no ghost.

Only mental illness


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Probably uneducated family
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not sure.

I remember my primary school was 4 storey high and had railings.

then they had public donation run to cover the railing areas, with hollow bricks, got hole can see outside, that way it is breathable.

They already had the forward vision to anticipate these issues.

8 storey high school, the school should consider precautions.
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There is no ghost.

Only mental illness
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You haven't watched haunting videos on YouTube I see.

Got some excellent series. Most cases involve people who never believed in the existence of hantu....until they really kena.
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QUOTE(kcal @ Oct 2 2024, 06:39 PM)
chit ngoi sun pin to the family. but why the cantonese name of the school sound like derma sperm? pakar bahasa kanto guailow83 sila konfirmasi.
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u mind dirty hence sounds like it lor

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u mind dirty hence sounds like it lor

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Yea that's why don't know why so many people die die want to send their kids to SJKC

As though it's the best.

Yea best at memorising answers, good at obeying orders.


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Kinda cold of the parent to have aceepted and move on when it's barely been a few days.
Suicide are not accidents, they don't just fall out of the sky, even more so on early teens.
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when i was form 1, i only think about playing pokemon lel.

this graph might be true after all.
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QUOTE(giftfre @ Oct 2 2024, 02:14 PM)
It is parent really Kancheong type. Scare their kid can't compete with others, scare can't get a good result to secure a place in Top 3 Public University and enroll in hot degree displine.

Water can carry a boat from one to another destination but also can over turn a boat easily.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 06:47 PM)
not sure.

I remember my primary school was 4 storey high and had railings.

then they had public donation run to cover the railing areas, with hollow bricks, got hole can see outside, that way it is breathable.

They already had the forward vision to anticipate these issues.

8 storey high school, the school should consider precautions.
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Should do this to all high rise

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You haven't watched haunting videos on YouTube I see.

Got some excellent series. Most cases involve people who never believed in the existence of hantu....until they really kena.
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QUOTE(lopo90 @ Oct 2 2024, 06:55 PM)
Yea that's why don't know why so many people die die want to send their kids to SJKC

As though it's the best.

Yea best at memorising answers, good at obeying orders.
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QUOTE(focusrite @ Oct 2 2024, 07:20 PM)
It's difficult to be a teen nowadays.
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news say that its mental illness

she start to see non existent stuff
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Oct 2 2024, 06:22 PM)
Ada... It seems hantu

https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...lding-speak-out

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.
“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

But if you ask me grieving parents don't make reliable witnesses
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I think there is more than this.

This is my experience before with similar incident. Let's call my friend daughter, Betty.

Betty say she always see ghost, hearing voices. Parents bring her to religious people to "help". But nothing works until the parents say she is "faking" until don't want to go school. One day she attempted suicide but luckily failed and need to hospitalized.

During the hospitalization, a mental health specialist was sent to evaluate her.

It was found all those "ghost" and "voices" Betty was hearing ? It was caused by her having panic attack because she have issue being in places with a lot of people. The doctor realized when all of the nearby bed have visitors and nurses and doing their work at the same time. The room will look crowded and Betty heartrate increases a lot and she begin to scream and asking the "ghost" to go away.

After going to counselling/therapist for like 2 year, Betty no longer see "ghosts" and have a better life now.
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Stupid girl.

Pity her family and everyone that she impacted from her suicide.

Honestly, if want to suicide should do it somewhere isolated where you won't drag other people into it.

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QUOTE(tkyong1 @ Oct 2 2024, 04:35 PM)
Wrong.

Actually, schooling is meant to teach you to become a proper person, education is only part of it.

This is the real problem of asian education, the path is crooked.

Schooling supposed to be happy, lively and learning, not result and comparing.

Untill now, so many asian parent still failed to understand.

The success of life not decided by your education, but your personality and attitudes.

Sad.

Note: if result = everything then why most of the invention and technology in this world were mainly coming from western not asian? think about it.
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Right now technological advancements in China is faster than Western countries already too.

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QUOTE(Etude8891 @ Oct 2 2024, 07:34 PM)
Don't simply say things if you don't know.

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he's talking about the toxic environment which is Asian parenting.

this kind of environment long been happening la.

those days in my school we talk about how Sinkie students find ways to commit suicide during their exams because of stress.


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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 07:24 PM)
news say that its mental illness

she start to see non existent stuff
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mental illness is a disorder of the brain, could be cause by rapidly deaths of brain cell.
what caused premature death of brain cell? stress , lack of sleep and trauma.

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QUOTE(h@ksam @ Oct 2 2024, 07:36 PM)
he's talking about the toxic environment which is Asian parenting.

this kind of environment long been happening la.

those days in my school we talk about how Sinkie students find ways to commit suicide during their exams because of stress.
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Well I'm talking about his "Note: if result = everything then why most of the invention and technology in this world were mainly coming from western not asian? think about it."

That's incorrect.

On the other hand, Tiger mom culture is nothing new. End of the day it IS perhaps surprisingly to some that it IS really focusing on building better skillset to survive in life for the kid when they grow up. Too bad some cannot get a handle on their own mental toughness so guess the kid breaks down.

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QUOTE(king99 @ Oct 2 2024, 07:28 PM)
I think there is more than this.

This is my experience before with similar incident. Let's call my friend daughter, Betty.

Betty say she always see ghost, hearing voices. Parents bring her to religious people to "help". But nothing works until the parents say she is "faking" until don't want to go school. One day she attempted suicide but luckily failed and need to hospitalized.

During the hospitalization, a mental health specialist was sent to evaluate her.

It was found all those "ghost" and "voices" Betty was hearing ? It was caused by her having panic attack because she have issue being in places with a lot of people. The doctor realized when all of the nearby bed have visitors and nurses and doing their work at the same time. The room will look crowded and Betty heartrate increases a lot and she begin to scream and asking the "ghost" to go away.

After going to counselling/therapist for like 2 year, Betty no longer see "ghosts" and have a better life now.
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Thank God hospital was sharp enough to spot it

Hope she fully recovered

I got a feeling this girl also something like this, seeing ghost is a symptom of something else. But if parents want to move on no point dwelling on it.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 06:17 PM)
last time I studied at SK, relaks saja.

no need to wake up at 5am lah, because my school no traffic jam. I just wake up at 6am to go morning school.

why primary students have to wake up so early? pointless lah.
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QUOTE(zerorating @ Oct 2 2024, 07:37 PM)
mental illness is a disorder of the brain, could be cause by rapidly deaths of brain cell.
what caused premature death of brain cell? stress , lack of sleep and trauma.
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blame it to ghost

case closed
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 07:52 PM)
Ok you got good explanation
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anyway, if a kid suicide, im pretty sure it is mostly parents fault.
people who kena buli alot in my school also have friends, so they dont feel depressed, they dont even thinking of ended their life because asyik kena buli
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QUOTE(zerorating @ Oct 2 2024, 08:06 PM)
anyway, if a kid suicide, im pretty sure it is mostly parents fault.
people who kena buli alot in my school also have friends, so they dont feel depressed, they dont even thinking of ended their life because asyik kena buli
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I always think that people who ended their life have mental illness.

I ask you la. If you kena buli, will you kill yourself? Of course no.

For me, I will do something back to the buli.

Anyway, nobody ever buli me because maybe I'm one of the tallest all the time. Hahaha
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if mental illness kenot say wan lah

sometime they seem laugh laugh happy happy , inside who knows.. until too late


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If total mark below 56 or 55 or 50 (i dunno which is for kuen cheng, my time is 56 at another school), then u need to retain form..

Maybe she feel ashamed because need to retain form again?
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Parents actually seeking answers, incident also witnessed by teacher.

https://www.therakyatpost.com/news/malaysia...ng-high-school/

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Parents Seek Answers Following Daughter’s Tragic Death At Kuen Cheng High School

A video purportedly showing the student’s final moments has emerged, adding to the complexity of the incident.

A 13-year-old girl has died after falling from the eighth floor of a building at Kuen Cheng High School.

The incident occurred on Tuesday evening (1 Oct).

Brickfields district police chief Assistant Commissioner Ku Mashariman Ku Mahmood has confirmed that the case is being treated as sudden death, according to Sin Chew.

Police initially suggested excessive schoolwork pressure as a possible cause, but the girl’s parents have urged against speculation.
Family Struggles to Understand Tragedy

The girl’s parents, who wished to remain anonymous, expressed their grief and confusion.

We never put any academic pressure on her. We’re trying to understand why this happened.

He added that they had allowed their daughter to play games freely at home and had not experienced financial problems.

The family revealed that their daughter had previously reported seeing a “ghost” in her school dormitory, but they had addressed the issue through a ritual, and she had chosen to return.

A video has emerged showing the moments before the student’s death.

In the footage, the girl stands barefoot on the edge of a corridor wall, with a chair nearby.

Speaking in English, she addresses her friends.

I love you guys; I just want to say goodbye. I’m very grateful to all of you. Bye.

The student, visibly distressed, expresses gratitude to her friends between sobs.

A teacher witnessed the incident and used the school’s public address system to urge the student to come down.

However, it was too late when the teacher reached the scene.
School Issues Statement on Student’s Death

Kuen Cheng High School confirmed the death of a student in an official statement on its website the same day.

The school said immediate emergency measures were taken, and authorities were notified.

Despite these efforts, medical personnel confirmed the student had passed away.

The statement said counsellors would offer support to students affected by the event.

The school also urged against sharing unverified information on social media and requested privacy for the family, and would cooperate fully with the ongoing investigation into the student’s death.

It did not comment on the authenticity of the circulating video or provide details of the incident.
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QUOTE(king99 @ Oct 2 2024, 07:28 PM)
I think there is more than this.

This is my experience before with similar incident. Let's call my friend daughter, Betty.

Betty say she always see ghost, hearing voices. Parents bring her to religious people to "help". But nothing works until the parents say she is "faking" until don't want to go school. One day she attempted suicide but luckily failed and need to hospitalized.

During the hospitalization, a mental health specialist was sent to evaluate her.

It was found all those "ghost" and "voices" Betty was hearing ? It was caused by her having panic attack because she have issue being in places with a lot of people. The doctor realized when all of the nearby bed have visitors and nurses and doing their work at the same time. The room will look crowded and Betty heartrate increases a lot and she begin to scream and asking the "ghost" to go away.

After going to counselling/therapist for like 2 year, Betty no longer see "ghosts" and have a better life now.
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a lot of people have mental illness

some able to feed their mental illness through religion because religion give you channel to talk to non-existence entity and make you feel better

but some not that lucky…some are truly mentally disturb and need medical attention urgently

if someone around you say he/she see ghost or went into hysteria like what happened to Malay school girl, faster bring them to see psychiatrist
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Girl only high school?got bullied like you're lesbian because Don't have bf?or lou gu po?etc etc? I mean if this is girl school and she becomes the bully target is very hard for her to get off . My wife also from girl school sometimes got bullied too situations without anyone knowing , especially if teacher also looking you for a problem when she tell to teacher the teacher also buat tak tahu or kena revenge by the bullier.
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Girl only high school?got bullied like you're lesbian because Don't have bf?or lou gu po?etc etc? I mean if this is girl school and she becomes the bully target is very hard for her to get off . My wife also from girl school sometimes got bullied too situations without anyone knowing , especially if teacher also looking you for a problem when she tell to teacher the teacher also buat tak tahu or kena revenge by the bullier.
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Kuen cheng sudah boy girl
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Stress, kena called strawberry, suicide, kena called strawberry.
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 09:54 PM)
a lot of people have mental illness

some able to feed their mental illness through religion because religion give you channel to talk to non-existence entity and make you feel better

but some not that lucky…some are truly mentally disturb and need medical attention urgently

if someone around you say he/she see ghost or went into hysteria like what happened to Malay school girl, faster bring them to see psychiatrist
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They way you keep insisting it's mental illness makes you sound suspiciously mentally ill yourself macha. Better get yourself checked
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QUOTE(techtalks @ Oct 2 2024, 09:43 PM)
They way you keep insisting it's mental illness makes you sound suspiciously mentally ill yourself macha. Better get yourself checked
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Well, it was confirmed by other too that seeing ghost is mental illnesses
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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 08:20 PM)
I always think that people who ended their life have mental illness.

I ask you la. If you kena buli, will you kill yourself? Of course no.

For me, I will do something back to the buli.

Anyway, nobody ever buli me because maybe I'm one of the tallest all the time. Hahaha
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Cakap "always" but 1st post here call suicider bodoh  thumbsup.gif
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It's like autism

When people see autistic kid, they assume the kid is naughty

So when people see suicide people as bodoh, but unfortunately suicide people have mental illnesses

What you have is a description of a situation where it is bodoh to suicide but unfortunately the person suicide cannot control herself because got mental illnesses
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They way you keep insisting it's mental illness makes you sound suspiciously mentally ill yourself macha. Better get yourself checked
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70% of k is mentally ill bro...
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or just no life in general
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I'm not saying this case is stress from family

But I know somwtim3s some ppl never satisfied.. if get 11A+ they ask why not 13A+.. if u r doctor they ask why you not some top cancer surgeon...if u r pilot they ask why u not flying f35.. why u not top gun Ace
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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ Oct 2 2024, 12:52 PM)
Anyone of you went thru puberty with some weird mood?

Last time I had some weird thought  ... thought my balls got cancer because sometimes pain... I was depressed but I didn't wanna die so young.
I had a good academic performance, pretty tall and quite hensem. So I was thinking if I die, and reborn as typical ktard need I might as well isekai.

I suspect is due to the hormones
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In my case, I was just lonely and struggle to make friends. Not stress or academic problems.

But anime saved me, thank you japenis cartoons.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 03:39 PM)
no, I heard from friends who send their kids there.

if u want to study there, u have to wake up 5am to go to school, because that place superjam and u have to wait long line to get in.

thank goodness I didn't study there.
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common for chinese independent high school

i went through this 5 continuous years, wake up 445am or so then take bath makan breakfast while being half awake throughout the whole time

530 bus sekolah will come and reach school around 6+, class starts at 715 or so, i just tidur alone in the classroom until other classmates start showing up

why so early? coz jalan kuching is fuckin jam after 6am all the way till like 11am lol, stupid road & people who arrive after 630am will queue outside the gate for 20-30 minutes as the kids got dropped off

then class will end around 315pm, if ada co-cu then need to stay until 530-6pm

saturday got halfday class lagi

no idea how i lived through all of this but i will never send my kids through the same torture in the future

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QUOTE(9m2w @ Oct 2 2024, 07:44 PM)
Thank God hospital was sharp enough to spot it

Hope she fully recovered

I got a feeling this girl also something like this, seeing ghost is a symptom of something else. But if parents want to move on no point dwelling on it.
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>Ghost, demon related
>father said that perhaps if given more love ? to the person ? what ? perhaps he has given a clue on it, parenting fault ?
>8th floor jump

speechless,


saw someone say if kena bully , fight back etc etc instead of suicide, boy, girl if u havent fight against some rich powerful family (dato, datin, large donor ) which i accident did before and gotten some serious consequence which i dont want to say, these rich powerful family own the school btw, it is like chaebol of SMJK chinese school, if u dont believe me , u see how they treat those large donor compare to low donor or non donor. At best i only see these bully who has dato datin large donor background , they get gantung sekolah only and come back total fine but given warning only. Plus these ppl can send their future grandkids to attend the school, just mention the donor name and proof related. And these bully can do whatever they want, the victim is at their mercy. Best is not cross their path and leave them alone.

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QUOTE(bereev @ Oct 2 2024, 10:12 PM)
You know Keun cheng must take uec and spm exam
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I dunno

Sounds stressful

But she is in form 1.


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Girl only high school?got bullied like you're lesbian because Don't have bf?or lou gu po?etc etc? I mean if this is girl school and she becomes the bully target is very hard for her to get off . My wife also from girl school sometimes got bullied too situations without anyone knowing , especially if teacher also looking you for a problem when she tell to teacher the teacher also buat tak tahu or kena revenge by the bullier.
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I dunno

Sounds stressful

But she is in form 1.
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Form 1 got uec exam, but not sure is due to example or others reason
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Well actually the girl see ghost

Meaning she has some kind of mental illness

But the parents just send her to religion exorcism

Wrong method

Should send to psych evaluation
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They way you keep insisting it's mental illness makes you sound suspiciously mentally ill yourself macha. Better get yourself checked
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QUOTE(9m2w @ Oct 2 2024, 07:22 PM)
Ada... It seems hantu

https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...lding-speak-out

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.
“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

But if you ask me grieving parents don't make reliable witnesses
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The girl stay hostel and not going back home daily?. That school is near the chinese cemetary just behind not far away if i m correct. I m not superstitious or what in this generation but do she behave differently since the ghost festival 1 month ago. The parents should notice and take more concern to their daughter right.

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>Ghost, demon related
>father said that perhaps if given more love ? to the person ? what ? perhaps he has given a clue on it, parenting fault ?
>8th floor jump

speechless,
saw someone say if kena bully , fight back etc etc instead of suicide, boy, girl if u havent fight against some rich powerful family (dato, datin, large donor ) which i accident did before and gotten some serious consequence which i dont want to say, these rich powerful family own the school btw, it is like chaebol of SMJK chinese school, if u dont believe me , u see how they treat those large donor compare to low donor or non donor.  At best i only see these bully who has dato datin large donor background , they get gantung sekolah only and come back total fine but given warning only.  Plus these ppl can send their future grandkids to attend the school, just mention the donor name and proof related. And these bully can do whatever they want, the victim is at their mercy. Best is not cross their path and leave them alone.
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QUOTE(mingyuyu @ Oct 2 2024, 10:11 PM)
common for chinese independent high school

i went through this 5 continuous years, wake up 445am or so then take bath makan breakfast while being half awake throughout the whole time

530 bus sekolah will come and reach school around 6+, class starts at 715 or so, i just tidur alone in the classroom until other classmates start showing up

why so early? coz jalan kuching is fuckin jam after 6am all the way till like 11am lol, stupid road & people who arrive after 630am will queue outside the gate for 20-30 minutes as the kids got dropped off

then class will end around 315pm, if ada co-cu then need to stay until 530-6pm

saturday got halfday class lagi

no idea how i lived through all of this but i will never send my kids through the same torture in the future
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KNS, should ask them back.... lol.... what are you...? cool2.gif  cool2.gif
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Haiyaa sometimes understandable la, they saying so because they think got more potential and its wasted
But , sometimes, there needs to be a balance ma. Not everyone wants to be highly stressed top cancer surgeon sometimes one just wants to open small clinic in small town enjoy slow pace of life...

Sometimes one just wanna fly airasia and piap2 stewardess ma, not everyone wanna be Flying ace pew pew kill people and name written I history book as one of the best

Sometimes just because you can do something doesn't mean you have to do it.

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when we were in form 1 , we literally run all the time playing , no smartfon , no scomed , damn happy times.
now, kiasu mentality due to socmed
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Those days not many school bus operator, and expect to stand throughout the journey from your house to the school lol. Big buses able to cilok in Taman Taman road, now don't think possible

Now so many school van/private operator, and driving from semenyih / PJ / seremban to KL like so easy now.
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fren, Kuen Cheng is special case.

the other day I driving in subang, even got Kuen Cheng bus sending kids to their home.

So many people want to send their kids there.

no surprise have to wake up early due to jam.
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You know Keun cheng must take uec and spm exam
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actually can opt or not?

if one decide to go for SpM and skip uec, can or not?
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so ada cuti or school now give promotion?
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actually can opt or not?

if one decide to go for SpM and skip uec, can or not?
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UEC is a must , student encourage to take spm also , so they easy to enter university and look for job future, but spm only take core subject

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Yes, mmg got many 14th floor cases there.

OMG! Your student also 14th floor there? 😓
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""It is also reported that the student was cheerful and lively, and she was even talking & laughing with her peers in the class before the incident.""


ofc la.....aiyoooo....the happiest people are more likely to be the saddest
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 3 2024, 08:48 AM)
fren, Kuen Cheng is special case.

the other day I driving in subang, even got Kuen Cheng bus sending kids to their home.

So many people want to send their kids there.

no surprise have to wake up early due to jam.
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special or not, i was pointing out the fact that 5am wake up was a norm, but some making it like a super duper "stress" thing, c'mon, my neighborhood primary school also require my relative to wake up at 5.15am and bus come by 6am NOW.

30-40 years ago totally diff, have to tumpang who ever ppassing by that area, i.e. Nan Kai / Chung hwa Jalan Ipoh was considered "very far" for / Cheras / Ampang / Kajang people.

Now i think u can even get school bus for Semenyih all the way till Kuen Cheng (40km+ journey).

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You know Keun cheng must take uec and spm exam
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How to force? Isn't UEC senior 3 and SPM senior 2? If you leave school at senior 2, what can they do?
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How to force? Isn't UEC senior 3 and SPM senior 2? If you leave school at senior 2, what can they do?
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Spm can take at any age
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What? You mean UEC and SPM in the same year? Who the heck does that?
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so ada cuti or school now give promotion?
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so whos fault ?

>He also expressed deep regret that he only learnt how important it was for him for openly express his love, which came at the cost of his daughter’s life.

>You taught me how to say ‘I love you’ openly, but you exchanged your life to do so. It’s not worth it! Don’t you know how precious life is?

>“Before you made the decision (to end your life), why didn’t you tell me? Why must you learn from my example (of not speaking up)? Daddy was wrong. I’m sorry and I love you. Please forgive me,” he wrote sorrowfully.

a lot clues...

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What? You mean UEC and SPM in the same year? Who the heck does that?
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Mostly UEC Privet school do this la what so strawberry

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hope this tragedy is a wake up call to those parents who projecting their failures onto their child by forcing them to only focus on academic in an unhealthy way
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QUOTE(AyamBlend @ Oct 3 2024, 11:16 AM)
special or not, i was pointing out the fact that 5am wake up was a norm, but some making it like a super duper "stress" thing, c'mon, my neighborhood primary school also  require my relative to wake up at 5.15am and bus come by 6am NOW.

30-40 years ago totally diff, have to tumpang who ever ppassing by that area, i.e.  Nan Kai / Chung hwa Jalan Ipoh was considered "very far" for / Cheras / Ampang / Kajang people.

Now i think u can even get school bus for Semenyih all the way till Kuen Cheng (40km+ journey).
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Nowadays we just send our kids to nearby schools. Even got cainis school nearby.

but many parents die die want to buy property near Kuen Cheng, then send their kids there. Unless u live in Taman Persiaran Desa behind Mid Valley, no matter how near, you gonna still have to wake up 5am.
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UEC is a must , student encourage to take spm also , so they easy to enter university and look for job future, but spm only take core subject
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wow, can imagine how stressful have to take UEC plus SPM

think most secondary vernacular is machiem ni.
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Private school..

If total mark below 56 or 55 or 50 (i dunno which is for kuen cheng, my time is 56 at another school), then u need to retain form..

Maybe she feel ashamed because need to retain form again?
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13yo, means she just commenced form 1?

just started...
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Counselling 1 - - ◆ Psychological and mentality consultation.
*KSSM = Kurikulum Standard Sekolah Menengah
2 exams per year, normally held in June and October (50-70%)
School
Exam On-going class tests, assignments ( Homework + Projects ) (30-50%)
Passing marks: Total average 60% and above
Junior 3 : JUEC
Public
Exam Senior 2: SPM
Senior 3: SUEC


https://kuencheng.edu.my/ebook/New-Students...tml/page10.html

average 60% ?

just 60% above pass or ? no competition mah , 60% is fail ?
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What? You mean UEC and SPM in the same year? Who the heck does that?
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QUOTE(bereev @ Oct 3 2024, 12:05 PM)
Mostly UEC Privet school do this la what so strawberry
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 3 2024, 12:11 PM)
wow, can imagine how stressful have to take UEC plus SPM

think most secondary vernacular is machiem ni.
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spm take age 17, form 5
uec take age 18, form 6

people do quit after form 5..and study private college.


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for those asking, i just simply research

Counselling 1 - - ◆ Psychological and mentality consultation.
*KSSM = Kurikulum Standard Sekolah Menengah
2 exams per year, normally held in June and October (50-70%)
School
Exam On-going class tests, assignments ( Homework + Projects ) (30-50%)
Passing marks: Total average 60% and above
Junior 3 : JUEC
Public
Exam Senior 2: SPM
Senior 3: SUEC
https://kuencheng.edu.my/ebook/New-Students...tml/page10.html

average 60% ?

just 60% above pass or ? no competition mah , 60% is fail ?
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i was from that schoool. apa mau tanya, tanya. stop speculating.

yes 60% is needed to go to next level. i know some people age 22 only finish high school, cause they couldn't pass every year

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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 3 2024, 12:18 PM)
for those asking, i just simply research

Counselling 1 - - ◆ Psychological and mentality consultation.
*KSSM = Kurikulum Standard Sekolah Menengah
2 exams per year, normally held in June and October (50-70%)
School
Exam On-going class tests, assignments ( Homework + Projects ) (30-50%)
Passing marks: Total average 60% and above
Junior 3 : JUEC
Public
Exam Senior 2: SPM
Senior 3: SUEC
https://kuencheng.edu.my/ebook/New-Students...tml/page10.html

average 60% ?

just 60% above pass or ? no competition mah , 60% is fail ?
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Total 60 and above is only pass.
Below is fail lo

They got several method to do calculation one.

Malay chinese english mathematic carry value x 4
Other sub subject maybe x3 or x2


If your main 4 carey value drag your total points, you need to work double hard to replace tat missing mark from other subject

Lets say u english get total 30 x 4 = 120
If u want to replace that missing 120 from lets say physical education, tat one need to be contribute double (example 60 x 2 =120)

Bukan main senang, memang stress one
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i was from that schoool. apa mau tanya, tanya. stop speculating.

yes 60% is needed to go to next level. i know some people age 22 only finish high school, cause they couldn't pass every year
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Oh u from KC one la...
Then u are before merge or after boy girl merger batch?
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Oh u from KC one la...
Then u are before merge or after boy girl merger batch?
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yes, from kc...

cannot tell, later you know im not 16 years old, pok pok chui!
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yes, from kc...

cannot tell, later you know im not 16 years old, pok pok chui!
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2019 join forum

Aiyah
Sure is no kkj batch one la
Maybe last few girl only batch

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2019 join forum

Aiyah
Sure got kkj batch one la
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told you i pok pok chui
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My one is ur competitor
Tjhs

That time ranking is
Chong hua - tsunjin - kuen chen - zhun kong
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My one is ur competitor
Tjhs

That time ranking is
Chong hua  - tsunjin -  kuen chen - zhun kong
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what competitor...

kc and ch always top 2, but ch was always the best... bottom 2 is tj and zk tongue.gif tongue.gif tongue.gif

now kc top private school. im SOOO proud smile.gif

nigel ch...
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QUOTE(gashout @ Oct 3 2024, 12:45 PM)
what competitor...

kc and ch always top 2, but ch was always the best... bottom 2 is tj and zk  tongue.gif  tongue.gif  tongue.gif

now kc top private school. im SOOO proud  smile.gif

nigel ch...
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Jangan mimpi la.. now hear say is tsun jin and kuen cheng same ranking sahaja..
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i think the fb got one post by the father say he so regret something like that....

issit the same case...
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wow, can imagine how stressful have to take UEC plus SPM

think most secondary vernacular is machiem ni.
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Not only that, their sciences and math are taught in both English and Mandarin. So you got to remember everything in both languages. So in actual it’s UEC+IGCSE+SPM
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tered derailed into UEC kids fighting for pride among themselves


TOP FUKKING KEK
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spm take age 17, form 5
uec take age 18, form 6

people do quit after form 5..and study private college.
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aiya macam ni can quit UEC when reach 17 lah

if good enough then go for STPM or private lor.


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QUOTE(Super2047 @ Oct 3 2024, 12:54 PM)
Not only that, their sciences and math are taught in both English and Mandarin. So you got to remember everything in both languages. So in actual it’s UEC+IGCSE+SPM
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actually this is what I want

the only thing mamakthir did good was the english for math and science.


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i was from that schoool. apa mau tanya, tanya. stop speculating.

yes 60% is needed to go to next level. i know some people age 22 only finish high school, cause they couldn't pass every year
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aiya ayam need understand mah that why i ask here lo, thx for reply so i can understand we have such school exist in malaysia something like top 1% elite school
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QUOTE(Boomwick @ Oct 3 2024, 12:25 PM)
Total 60 and above is only pass.
Below is fail lo

They got  several method to do calculation one.

Malay chinese english mathematic carry value x 4
Other sub subject maybe x3 or x2
If your main 4 carey value drag your total points, you need to work double hard to replace tat missing mark from other subject

Lets say u english get total 30 x 4 = 120
If u want to replace that missing 120 from lets say physical education, tat one need to be contribute double (example 60 x 2 =120)

Bukan main senang, memang stress one
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wtf, glad i am not in this school, i would kms with stress and expectation
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actually this is what I want

the only thing mamakthir did good was the english for math and science.
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Can you tell me why you wanted to learn math and sciences both in English and Mandarin?
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i think the fb got one post by the father say he so regret something like that....

issit the same case...
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I supposed we will never know the reason.

Our media always report summary leaving a lot of big question marks.

I remember in Australia, got one man throw his kid into sea, their newspaper report all the way to his mental issue, background check, where he live, what he does for a living, damn the article macam 3 pages long, for 1 week of reporting.

from there, we can all learn from the dude's crime and prevent it from happening.

but here, we will never know why or what cause it to happen.


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Can you tell me why you wanted to learn math and sciences both in English and Mandarin?
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maybe not in mandarin lah

but in english yes.

but i tell u, the other day, I was in meeting with China PRC engineers, they were all talking in mandarin terminologies for engineering, I seriously don't know what they talking about. rclxub.gif



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what competitor...

kc and ch always top 2, but ch was always the best... bottom 2 is tj and zk  tongue.gif  tongue.gif  tongue.gif

now kc top private school. im SOOO proud  smile.gif

nigel ch...
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smjk yu hua no place ke ? sadge
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i think the fb got one post by the father say he so regret something like that....

issit the same case...
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got liao, refer back to my post
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wtf, glad i am not in this school, i would kms with stress and expectation
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All secondary vernacular schools are like this lah

Chung Ling, Chung Hwa, Confucious, etc all have these requirements lah

that's why many after primary go back to SK.
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Jangan mimpi la.. now hear say is tsun jin and kuen cheng same ranking sahaja..
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QUOTE(DValentine @ Oct 3 2024, 12:54 PM)
tered derailed into UEC kids fighting for pride among themselves
TOP FUKKING KEK
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the pride we have for our school, you won't understand tongue.gif

QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 3 2024, 01:00 PM)
smjk yu hua no place ke ? sadge
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smjk i dunno which school best. srjk yu hua heard good
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maybe not in mandarin lah

but in english yes.
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Exactly, it’s so unnecessary to be like that. It adds so much additional stress to the kids. If it’s only in English, the kids can channel their time and energy saved to other areas such as sports or even rest time.

They should just follow how government DLP schools , just do the math and sciences in English, the rest can do in BM or Mandarin as they wish. This will benefit the kids very much physically and mentally.
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 3 2024, 01:00 PM)
smjk yu hua no place ke ? sadge
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Conlanfirm... not in list at all.. lol
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maybe not in mandarin lah

but in english yes.

but i tell u, the other day, I was in meeting with China PRC engineers, they were all talking in mandarin terminologies for engineering, I seriously don't know what they talking about.  rclxub.gif
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It’s just like last time, primary learn all the terms in mandarin, secondary learn all the term in BM, university learn all the term in English. Our education system really a mess.
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 3 2024, 12:58 PM)
wtf, glad i am not in this school, i would kms with stress and expectation
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Yea man..
Last time ayam from form3 go to form4, go choose science..
Then straight away tak kena passing mark need to retain form..

But before retain, they give you a final chance to resit exam to get your marks better again..

Good lord that resit exam ayam can pass.. if not really malu gila the stress.. imagine all your fren naik form 5, you kawan with new people from form 3..
And the worst remark u can get is when ur peers say, 留级生
Is so fking ashamed and stress and really pugima feeling one no joke..

Imagine the new fren from form3 go form4, always tease u as 留级生... fking ass feel no joke especially this kind of strawberry generation
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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 2 2024, 01:28 PM)
The most probable reasons have been circulating in mummies/parents/students group chat. I read about it but not nice to disclose it here.
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i completely agree with you on that we shouldn't speculate out of respect....
100% agree we can't disclose anything

this is malaysia and almost everything serious follows as such, don't speculate, don't say anything this that, hush and shut up at all cost......

see laa now....see!

a Form 1 student taking her own life

and we're not allowed to discuss exactly what drive students to this stage

it's HUGE

but shut up

ok - if that's the standard SOP whenever there is something as alarming as this, keep quiet

malaysia oh my malaysia

"The management of the school also urged the public NOT to spread unverified news as the police investigate the matter"

something is very wrong in the way we handle things but who cares, all of us someday will go away anyway

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It’s just like last time, primary learn all the terms in mandarin, secondary learn all the term in BM, university learn all the term in English. Our education system really a mess.
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but u know...that's what makes msians so marketable.

got msians working in China, Japan, USA, everywhere in the world, because of our flexibility to learn in other languages.
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common for chinese independent high school

i went through this 5 continuous years, wake up 445am or so then take bath makan breakfast while being half awake throughout the whole time

530 bus sekolah will come and reach school around 6+, class starts at 715 or so, i just tidur alone in the classroom until other classmates start showing up

why so early? coz jalan kuching is fuckin jam after 6am all the way till like 11am lol, stupid road & people who arrive after 630am will queue outside the gate for 20-30 minutes as the kids got dropped off

then class will end around 315pm, if ada co-cu then need to stay until 530-6pm

saturday got halfday class lagi

no idea how i lived through all of this but i will never send my kids through the same torture in the future
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I think its more common for KC, due to its location.

Can say its one of the worst locations to have a school.

I believe its mainly due to the long que of parents cars and school buses.

if I have to wake up at 445am, I rather live in JB and go to Singapore school.
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i was from that schoool. apa mau tanya, tanya. stop speculating.

yes 60% is needed to go to next level. i know some people age 22 only finish high school, cause they couldn't pass every year
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My son 12 year old already in Grade 9 @ Form 3
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this is so sad man.

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but u know...that's what makes msians so marketable.

got msians working in China, Japan, USA, everywhere in the world, because of our flexibility to learn in other languages.
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Well, there are also many foreigners @ angmoh working everywhere in the world despite only knowing English 😂🤣
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The most probable reasons have been circulating in mummies/parents/students group chat. I read about it but not nice to disclose it here.
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can PM me the reason?

we want to learn from this tragic incident.
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Well, there are also many foreigners @ angmoh working everywhere in the world despite only knowing English 😂🤣
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well they r able to do it because their MNCs are estabkishing their offices in overseas.

I give example Google is setting up their data centers here so their Ang Moh are able to lead the offices here.

Whereas for us msians, how many of us gets this benefit because our own local companies establish offices overseas? not as many as western corporates, right?

But still...they able to stand on their own.
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this is so sad man.
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No lerrr. I grew up in the 80’s. I still recall this tuition mate of mine. A high flying student from VI. Out of the blues, his parents came knocking on our door. Asking if I’ve heard from him. He went missing. They were so distraught. I know they were extremely proud of him, them being only petty traders.

Fast forward a year or more. His body was discovered miles away in Templar’s Park. His remains were positively identified. He went there to unalive himself. No mess. Amongst pure nature.

I like to think he finally found Peace.
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WTH! 22 only completed high school? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
My son 12 year old already in Grade 9 @ Form 3
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National school 30-40% score consider pass

Chinese independent school 60% only consider pass
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but u know...that's what makes msians so marketable.

got msians working in China, Japan, USA, everywhere in the world, because of our flexibility to learn in other languages.
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No doubt it’s good to know more languages, but not to the extend of learning math and sciences in English and Mandarin. Isn’t it learning mandarin in Chinese class, plus in Chinese history and geography enough? Lagi mao in math and sciences?

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National school 30-40% score consider pass

Chinese independent school 60% only consider pass
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No doubt it’s good to know more languages, but not to the extend of learning math and sciences in English and Mandarin.
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I don't know about mandarin

but i am for learning maths in english
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National school 30-40% score consider pass

Chinese independent school 60% only consider pass
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Even if u fail in national school, u still continue up form one la
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wah our national school standard so low now ? i thought 40 ?
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It’s just like last time, primary learn all the terms in mandarin, secondary learn all the term in BM, university learn all the term in English. Our education system really a mess.
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That is why the trend in Klang Valley today is going private international schools.

Nowadays, if you go MPH or Popular, they are selling IGCSE revision books.

Those who can't afford full fledge private international schools will send their kids to those shophouse type private schools especially secondary level to prepare them to go fully English in U.

This type of schools are mushrooming everywhere in Klang Valley and some is doing so well until they became full fledge international schools.
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well they r able to do it because their MNCs are estabkishing their offices in overseas.

I give example Google is setting up their data centers here so their Ang Moh are able to lead the offices here.

Whereas for us msians, how many of us gets this benefit because our own local companies establish offices overseas? not as many as western corporates, right?

But still...they able to stand on their own.
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Foreign companies in MY are hiring many expats from other countries due to their experties that we are lack of and not because it is a benefit as claimed by you. You might wonder how do I know. Well, there is a department in my office that deals with immigration law matters thus statistic never lies.
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I don't know about mandarin

but i am for learning maths in english
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Foreign companies in MY are hiring many expats from other countries due to their experties that we are lack of and not because it is a benefit as claimed by you. You might wonder how do I know. Well, there is a department in my office that deals with immigration law matters thus statistic never lies.
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Look at Pos Msia hire foreign expat and they still making losses.

bad decisions bro.
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Their syllabus:
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2. Chinese
3. English
4. Physics (in English+Chinese)
5. Biology (in English+Chinese)
6. Chemistry (in English+Chinese)
7. Math (in English+Chinese)
8. Chinese history (in Chinese)
9. Geography (in Chinese)
10. SPM sejarah (in BM)
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yeah that looks quite unnecessary.


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can PM me the reason?

we want to learn from this tragic incident.
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Can't imagine the pain her parents have to go through
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But he left his parent broken hearted, he didn't leave in peace.
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Sadly, for reason only he could fathom, I guess he decided that’s the best decision (in his warped mind) for everyone as he put the noose around his head.



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Don’t be so KPC. If you are a parent, please spend as much time as possible with your kids and treat them as your bff.
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tell me lah, dun tell me u here for fun ah.

Everybody here is in this forum is because of KPC lah

We want to learn here so we can be better parents or at least parents who can detect these issues in children before its too late.

U say u know mah, if u don't want to share, u won't say it here.

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Look at Pos Msia hire foreign expat and they still making losses.

bad decisions bro.
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Who am I to judge whether their decision is wise or otherwise 😅

My previous statement is to show that language is not the main criteria to be hired as an expat but rather your expertise.
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tell me lah, dun tell me u here for fun ah.

Everybody here is in this forum is because of KPC lah

U say u know mah, if u don't want to share, u won't say it here.
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Why not you go and ask the girl yourself?
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Don’t be so KPC. If you are a parent, please spend as much time as possible with your kids and treat them as your bff.
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nice advice , treat them as bff, i should treat my parent bff lol
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Why not you go and ask the girl yourself?
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ask you better.


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Their syllabus:
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4. Physics (in English+Chinese)
5. Biology (in English+Chinese)
6. Chemistry (in English+Chinese)
7. Math (in English+Chinese)
8. Chinese history (in Chinese)
9. Geography (in Chinese)
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This give me the impression of “Jack of all trades, master of none” 😅

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Rip

Can't imagine the pain her parents have to go through
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However can they imagine the pain that the girl went through in a boarding school at merely 13 year old?
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This give me the impression of “Jack of all trades, master of none” 😅
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Master of none? Those who are good are really very outstanding, but comes with a huge price.
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Their syllabus:
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yes

i had to take like total 15-16 subjects i cant remember

doesnt matter u want to take UEC by form 6 or not, still have to prepare for both PMR/UEC & SPM/UEC

thats why saturday pun kena ada sekolah

idk how the statistics are like, but it does train you to be more tough mentally if you can survive the 5 or 6 years of hardship

the famous Uncle Roger was from the same secondary school
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[A girl from Kun Cheng High School fell from a building] "You taught me to express my love." Dad: But you paid for it with your life, it's not worth it!

"Dad couldn't sleep for two days. As soon as I closed my eyes, I saw your memories and your smile. I really missed you so much!"

A Chinese junior high school girl fell to her death at Kun Cheng Middle School; the father of the deceased posted again on the third day after his daughter's death, expressing his reluctance to see his daughter leave, which made those who saw it sad.

The deceased's father posted on Facebook this morning, expressing his deep reluctance to see his beloved daughter pass away. He said that he has not been able to sleep since his daughter left, and as soon as he closes his eyes, he is reminded of the memories between father and daughter and their family.

"I don't want to pretend or endure anymore. I want to cry. Daddy looks strong on the surface, but he is also vulnerable sometimes. I really miss you so much!"

"I know you've been wronged a lot outside. It's okay, just come back! Come home! There are dad, mom, brother and sister at home. Have you forgotten them all?"

In addition, he also felt very guilty, thinking that he should have expressed his love for his daughter earlier so that the child could feel more love.

"You paid the price of your life to teach me that I should always express my love, but the price is too high... You are too stupid. Life is more important than anything else."

The deceased's father also thanked his daughter for the happy memories she brought them during her lifetime, and hoped that his daughter could live a good life in the Western world and continue their father-daughter relationship in the next life.

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QUOTE(mingyuyu @ Oct 3 2024, 03:09 PM)
yes

i had to take like total 15-16 subjects i cant remember

doesnt matter u want to take UEC by form 6 or not, still have to prepare for both PMR/UEC & SPM/UEC

thats why saturday pun kena ada sekolah

idk how the statistics are like, but it does train you to be more tough mentally if you can survive the 5 or 6 years of hardship

the famous Uncle Roger was from the same secondary school
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I doubt the pressure from school can lead to this . come on it's form 1 .
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Kuda betul this father.
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nice advice , treat them as bff, i should treat my parent bff lol
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Master of none? Those who are good are really very outstanding, but comes with a huge price.
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For an outstanding student, he/she can excel in any school. Not necessary to suffer in a “military training camp”.
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[A female student from Kun Cheng High School fell from a building] The deceased has a sweet smile in her last photo and will hold a funeral tomorrow to end her short life

The Chinese junior high school girl who fell to her death at Kun Cheng Middle School two days ago will be cremated tomorrow after being kept at the Fugui Memorial Hall for three days.

The reporter observed at the Nirvana Memorial Hall in Sungai Besi at around 11 o'clock this morning and found that there were not many people outside the funeral hall. The parents of the deceased woman were believed to have not arrived yet.

The little deceased in the photo has a sweet smile.

A Chinese woman believed to be a relative of the female victim said in an interview at the scene that she was very grateful for the media and the public's concern about the case in recent days.

"But I hope the public can focus on more meaningful things."

The woman's eyes were red and swollen and she looked sad. After a brief interview, she declined to speak.

The female deceased’s wake began at the Nirvana Memorial Hall in Sungai Besi for three days yesterday. The funeral will be held at 10am tomorrow and the body will be cremated at the Nirvana Crematorium in Shah Alam.

The incident occurred at around 6pm on the 1st of this month on the 8th floor of a Chinese independent school teaching building in Kuala Lumpur.

A Chinese junior high school girl was unfortunately killed after falling from the 8th floor of the school. There were many different opinions on the cause of the girl's fall, but the police later stated at a press conference that they believed it was caused by life stress.


Sigh, pity the kid.
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Kuda betul this father.
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National school 30-40% score consider pass

Chinese independent school 60% only consider pass
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My son is in IS while I was from SRK/SMK. During my time, passing mark was 50%, not sure whether it is still the same now.

Is 60% applies across the board for all CIS?
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I doubt the pressure from school can lead to this . come on it's form 1 .
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not saying its 100% related but its definitely more stressful than those going to SK/SMK

QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 3 2024, 02:31 PM)
My son is in IS while I was from SRK/SMK. During my time, passing mark was 50%, not sure whether it is still the same now.

Is 60% applies across the board for all CIS?
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mine was 60% and they are really strict about it

had a few friends got 58-59% only but school doesnt allow them to progress even after appeals

end up drop out and went for SK
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It's like autism

When people see autistic kid, they assume the kid is naughty

So when people see suicide people as bodoh, but unfortunately suicide people have mental illnesses

What you have is a description of a situation where it is bodoh to suicide but unfortunately the person suicide cannot control herself because got mental illnesses
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What we have here is you being an ass calling suicider bodoh and autistic now

If anything you're the autistic and bodoh one here

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QUOTE(mingyuyu @ Oct 3 2024, 02:09 PM)
yes

i had to take like total 15-16 subjects i cant remember

doesnt matter u want to take UEC by form 6 or not, still have to prepare for both PMR/UEC & SPM/UEC

thats why saturday pun kena ada sekolah

idk how the statistics are like, but it does train you to be more tough mentally if you can survive the 5 or 6 years of hardship

the famous Uncle Roger was from the same secondary school
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chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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The stress might from parents
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I doubt the pressure from school can lead to this . come on it's form 1 .
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Different people different acceptance of stress.

Some.kids no tiao one if get last or retain

Some will really cannot take it.

At this kind of time, which is year end, the result already keluar.. those who will continue form 2 or retain also already know..

If the kid suicide at this point of time and due to life stress as a student, possibly is due to kena retain form gua?

Anyhow, rip to her.. sometimes this kind of stress, got good got bad.

Good is they push u
Bad is they push u too much if u cannot take it then like this girl..
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What we have here is you being an ass calling suicider bodoh and autistic now

If anything you're the autistic and bodoh one here
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I think the bodoh is you who cannot comprehend what he was saying. He was trying to say people view those who die by suicide as bodoh when in fact they are struggling with mental illness that severely impact their ability to make rational decisions. You are the truly bodoh here.
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So study related, not love related?
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dun way form 1, primary school also stress already that school
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Primary Stress what? No more upsr no major exams all just in class accessment by the teacher, what is there to stress about ? ... And most of the teacher are biased if they have favorite students or own nephew/niece study in that class..
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QUOTE(mingyuyu @ Oct 3 2024, 03:09 PM)
yes

i had to take like total 15-16 subjects i cant remember

doesnt matter u want to take UEC by form 6 or not, still have to prepare for both PMR/UEC & SPM/UEC

thats why saturday pun kena ada sekolah

idk how the statistics are like, but it does train you to be more tough mentally if you can survive the 5 or 6 years of hardship

the famous Uncle Roger was from the same secondary school
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With all that education, Uncle Roger ended up being an influencer whistling.gif
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Different people different acceptance of stress.

Some.kids no tiao one if get last or retain

Some will really cannot take it.

At this kind of time, which is year end, the result already keluar.. those who will continue form 2 or retain also already know..

If the kid suicide at this point of time and due to life stress as a student, possibly is due to kena retain form gua?

Anyhow, rip to her.. sometimes this kind of stress, got good got bad.

Good is they push u
Bad is they push u too much if u cannot take it then like this girl..
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Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2

Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9
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Wtf
First time i hear, if not pass exam, need to retain/repeat for another year?

Crazy

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With all that education, Uncle Roger ended up being an influencer  whistling.gif
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Thats just being smart.
Just like the hawk tuah girl, if you go viral, run with it.
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Wtf
First time i hear, if not pass exam, need to retain/repeat for another year?

Crazy
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Not exam la..
If not pass the final total average point
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Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2

Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9
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I dunno la.. i am just guessing only based on life stress as a student especially when it is nearing end of school term

Since it is private chinese, end of school term will know u get passing mark or not to go up or retain..

Is my guessing only.. real reason i dunno

But high chance is this
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RIP little girl..

beyond academic reasons, some parents die die push their children to excel in studies so they don end up in lower tier SMKs is due to disciplinary issues..

i am OK that my kids r performing academically at mid tier at any school provided discipline is kept.... but we all know in schools not performing well academically, there is issues with discipline and even gangsterism.. on the overall, elite schools have better discipline..
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Primary Stress what? No more upsr no major exams all just in class accessment by the teacher, what is there to stress about ? ... And most of the teacher are biased if they have favorite students or own nephew/niece study in that class..
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I don't know

independent chinese school also no exam like SK ?
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RIP little girl..

beyond academic reasons, some parents die die push their children to excel in studies so they don end up in lower tier SMKs is due to disciplinary issues..

i am OK that my kids r performing academically at mid tier at any school provided discipline is kept.... but we all know in schools not performing well academically, there is issues with discipline and even gangsterism.. on the overall, elite schools have better discipline..
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trouble with independent school if you fall back behind, they kick you out

or they stress u out with more replacement classes, if u still struggle, they kick you out.

I am not supporting what the parents did but I can understand why they did what they did, if they are ones that keep pushing their kids hard to study.


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Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2

Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9
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No such ruling also can suicide one lah.

In my hometown, got kid from Chinese family suicide after SPM/PMR (i forgot which one) due to result not good enough (iinm, didn't score enough As). The school is urban SMJK with 80% Chinese students. Headmaster also Chinese. The only subject using the Chinese language is Bahasa Cina. All others are in Malay. No UEC.

100% parent fault, they should teach the child "If u have tried ur best, it's okay to fail. I will still love u no matters what'.

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QUOTE(smallcrab @ Oct 3 2024, 04:31 PM)
Wtf
First time i hear, if not pass exam, need to retain/repeat for another year?

Crazy
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1. Example: If student score 0 then send to next level score 0, is this how edu system should work?
2. Meritocracy ?

While meritocracy has its benefits, it is a system that would ostracisize average and underpeformers. Probably this is the reason she could be stress.
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 04:15 PM)
Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2

Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9
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KC charge 6k per year

international school an average one charge 50k a year

better int school ones charge 100-200k a year

thats why many parents send to KC
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KC charge 6k per year

international school an average one charge 50k a year

better int school ones charge 100-200k a year

thats why many parents send to KC
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So salah parents tak cukup loaded? 😂🤣

Btw, I cannot brain why must make her stay in the hostel when the parents are working in PJ/SJ?
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Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2

Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9
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+1

Smart kid can skip few grades in IS.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 3 2024, 04:49 PM)
KC charge 6k per year

international school an average one charge 50k a year

better int school ones charge 100-200k a year

thats why many parents send to KC
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6k per year but retain become 12k for that year if kena retain again?

And why in the 1st place must send to a school with such ruling ? can graduate from such school come out sure more powerful than others kah? sry i really cnanot brain this

and to add nowadays international school got those which is around 15-18k per year oh .... but if the parent can afford rm6k but drive bmw merc im sure they can afford higher fees but drive perodua proton la coz those who really cant afford to pay will just send their kid to smk instead

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I don't think retain is problem. Pressure from parents is problem. Instead of helping her, probably at home emotionally abuse her.
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 05:01 PM)
6k per year but retain become 12k for that year if kena retain again?

And why in the 1st place must send to a school with such ruling ? can graduate from such school come out sure more powerful than others kah? sry i really cnanot brain this
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1 of my admin staff punya niece and nephew also from that school. Now 1 of them working as a kindy teacher and another one selling phone in shopping mall.
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1 of my admin staff punya niece and nephew also from that school. Now 1 of them working as a kindy teacher and another one selling phone in shopping mall.
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wtf.... r u for real?
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Of course! If every single student from there also become top guns, then all the elite schools and IS can gulung tikar de lo.

As I said in my earlier post, an outstanding student can excel in any school, not necessary must go to a “military training camp” whistling.gif:
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So sad

While my niece are aiming for excellent in her school I keep telling her cukup makan can dy. even with all B u still can go into university. No need all Straight A.

Do balancing don't push yourself too much

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Of course! If every single student from there also become top guns, then all the elite schools and IS can gulung tikar de lo.

As I said in my earlier post, an outstanding student can excel in any school, not necessary must go to a “military training camp” whistling.gif:
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And ..... not every student is book smart aka can excel in their studies

Never get A doesnt mean not normal why on earth must retain due to whatever school ruling wei why can just be a normal 13yo kid instead

But anyway back to the father's posting ..... what he posted also no use already coz he already lose hopefully he can get back up from this as he still have 3 more kids to take care and don make the same mistake again
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QUOTE(ApocalypseSoon @ Oct 3 2024, 05:48 PM)
No such ruling also can suicide one lah.

In my hometown, got kid from Chinese family suicide after SPM/PMR (i forgot which one) due to result not good enough (iinm, didn't score enough As). The school is urban SMK with 80% Chinese students. Headmaster also Chinese. The only subject using the  chinese language is Bahasa Cina.

100% parent fault, they should teach the child "If u have tried ur best, it's okay to fail. I will still love u no matters what'.
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Maybe I'm lucky but I got out of that spiral myself. Learned early I shouldn't live life to please others, even parents.

Enrolled in one of the national secondary school categorized as High Performance School, got into the top class.
One time got 2nd place overall in science subjects in whole school, come back home mother asked me 'why so low'?
I think I got a fever after hearing that. Cherry on top 1st place was my twin brother.

Still did well academically afterwards until now, but based on my own motivation, to my own target and satisfaction.

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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 3 2024, 04:57 PM)
So salah parents tak cukup loaded? 😂🤣

Btw, I cannot brain why must make her stay in the hostel when the parents are working in PJ/SJ?
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so don't have to wake up 5am to go to school kot. I dunno.

Maybe parents think there are school wardens that can provide tution at same time. Macam my friend told me his son at MSRM get tution also from the school warden.

It is the economic reality of society, when this private school is cheaper and have the reputation, tendency to have more parents send their kids there, to give better future.

I am not defending them but its demand vs supply.


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6k per year but retain become 12k for that year if kena retain again?

And why in the 1st place must send to a school with such ruling ? can graduate from such school come out sure more powerful than others kah? sry i really cnanot brain this

and to add nowadays international school got those which is around 15-18k per year oh .... but if the parent can afford rm6k but drive bmw merc im sure they can afford higher fees but drive perodua proton la coz those who really cant afford to pay will just send their kid to smk instead
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those international school 15-18k very low class one lah

and they potential to close down if business no good.

KC > 100 year old school with experience with reputation, KC can charge 6k per year because they receive a lot of money from private donors namely the rich T20 nons and businesses.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 3 2024, 05:45 PM)
those international school 15-18k very low class one lah

and they potential to close down if business no good.

KC > 100 year old school with experience with reputation, KC can charge 6k per year because they receive a lot of money from private donors namely the rich T20 nons and businesses.
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Well if for u is low class can always send to smk which is foc ma

So this KC have such ruling for more than 100 years already? Last time kena retain retain retain now become parent send kid go back same school still same kah kena retain lol really cannot brain all this typical type c
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To be fair, Kuen Cheng High School is a great school. Many good and responsiblle teachers, good facilities, brilliant students. The only drawback is their syllabus is too heavy and should be revised accordingly.

How do I know? My kid studied there for few years previously.

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Chung hwa, kuen cheng and tsun jin
Junior 1 intake always kaboom until no seat one dun play play.. kena sit pre examination test to see which class u masuk..

If terlalu weak, cannot even masuk.

But form 6 then will left lesser by maybe 3 classroom because in between got student fell out
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Chung hwa, kuen cheng and tsun jin
Junior 1 intake always kaboom until no seat one dun play play.. kena sit pre examination test to see which class u masuk..

If terlalu weak, cannot even masuk.

But form 6 then will left lesser by maybe 3 classroom because in between got student fell out
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Don’t simply say. Form 6 not many people because a lot of students left after taking SPM .
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Don’t simply say. Form 6 not many people because a lot of students left after taking SPM .
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Now i dunno la
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Saw this on reddit .
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ Oct 3 2024, 07:00 PM)
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One incident then people paint syllabus difficult got bullying.
What's wrong with people.

The school didn't even sweep the incident under the carpet. Everyone knows it's kc. Cause kc reported it.


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May she RIP

Your post on personal loan, why close?
Its a forum, let people ask and discuss.
You no longer need it, but others may still use it.
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May she RIP

Your post on personal loan, why close?
Its a forum, let people ask and discuss.
You no longer need it, but others may still use it.
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Thread derail:

Better not, leave it to others open it. Whenever i open thread it's going to be disaster and lead to sudden personal attacking to me.

No thanks

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During 80’s, I was in Kindergarten of KC. Back then, I used to remembering the downstairs hall which we often gathered for napping section. And the dessert I first time having was red bean soup in KC. Great childhood memories.

I believe KC will be hiring Sifu to do proper cleansing to the haunted area for reassuring no more disturbance to the school.

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vapanel jangan la bodo, study and get 13A's still get u no where except new bullies in work place. young time is time for u to take booze and mix with party beast, from there u meet richfag and become like j.low, oh wai
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Rip to the girl.
Condolences to the family. Wish they can move forward from here.
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QUOTE(Ryan19 @ Oct 4 2024, 05:08 AM)
During 80’s, I was in Kindergarten of KC. Back then, I used to remembering the downstairs hall which we often gathered for napping section. And the dessert I first time having was red bean soup in KC. Great childhood memories.

I believe KC will be hiring Sifu to do proper  cleansing to the haunted area for reassuring no more disturbance to the school.
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Bro... what year u in KC kindy?
Unker also from there... 85/86... Then masuk KC1...
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Bro... what year u in KC kindy?
Unker also from there... 85/86... Then masuk KC1...
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Then u older than me.
If not mistaken, studied there 1988-1990.

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Ahh... so i betul2 unker...
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 06:24 PM)
Well if for u is low class can always send to smk which is foc ma

So this KC have such ruling for more than 100 years already? Last time kena retain retain retain now become parent send kid go back same school still same kah kena retain lol really cannot brain all this typical type c
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yeah smk is another option.

someone in this forum say got people retain until 22yo.

huh? can happen meh?


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My girl also dasyat ... primary school SJKC then secondary SMK ... start climbing over school gate to freedom. I kena called to sekolah ... those days.... headache lo
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If it's my daughter, I think I will also 14th floor join her. The pain is unimaginable.
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The father of a 13-year-old student who fell to her death at Kuen Cheng High School here has broken the family’s silence over the incident, posting a heartbreaking message to his late daughter on his Facebook page.

According to Sin Chew Daily, the man also uploaded dozens of photographs of his daughter that showed her growing over the years as well as others of the family.

In the emotional post, the man accepted blame for his daughter’s death, saying he knew she had been facing problems outside of the home.

“Baby, Daddy has not been able to sleep for two days. I am heartbroken! I am not going to pretend any more and I don't want to endure it any more. I am going to cry loudly.
“I really can't hold it back! On the surface, I am very strong, but in fact, Daddy's heart can also be fragile. When I close my eyes, I can only see memories of you! Your smile! I miss you so much!” he wrote in the emotional post.
“You didn't know how to answer this multiple-choice question, why didn't you come home and ask me? If you didn't know how to answer, why didn't you say so? Why did you have to learn from Dad! Dad is wrong! I'm sorry! I love you! Please forgive me!”
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“Baby,今天是你的出殡之日!你要开开心心走完这最后的旅程!那些不好的事情已经不存在!今天会有很多人来陪伴你。”
“你不会孤单,家人永远都在你的身边!你到了另外一个世界要活到开心快乐,记住了不要再活到别人嘴巴里,只有活出自己才是最真实的存在!永远爱你的家人❤️”

The man added that his daughter’s death finally taught him the importance of expressing one’s love openly, but said he wish it did not cost his daughter’s life for him to learn this lesson.

The Kuen Cheng High School yesterday confirmed the death of one of its students due to a fall from the eighth floor of a building on its grounds.
Vernacular newspaper China Press reported that the student had posted a live video before her fall.

Brickfields police chief Ku Mashariman Ku Mahmood said in a statement yesterday that no criminal element was found in the case, which has been classified as a case of sudden death.

Source: ‘Please forgive me!’: Grief-stricken father pens emotional farewell to Kuen Cheng student in fatal fall

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If it's my daughter, I think I will also 14th floor join her. The pain is unimaginable.
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RIP, she had so much potential in life.
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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 3 2024, 04:57 PM)
So salah parents tak cukup loaded? 😂🤣

Btw, I cannot brain why must make her stay in the hostel when the parents are working in PJ/SJ?
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nowadays both parents working bah. Hard to arrange transport especially u know KL road jam like shit all day long let alone queue up dropping at school.

Plus no one to take care after school coz still working. If send them to those tuition or hobby class the costs is also about the same d compare to send to hostel.
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Maybe I'm lucky but I got out of that spiral myself. Learned early I shouldn't live life to please others, even parents.

Enrolled in one of the national secondary school categorized as High Performance School, got into the top class.
One time got 2nd place overall in science subjects in whole school, come back home mother asked me 'why so low'?
I think I got a fever after hearing that. Cherry on top 1st place was my twin brother.

Still did well academically afterwards until now, but based on my own motivation, to my own target and satisfaction.
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So your twin brother now the more successful in life than you?
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chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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do you know exactly why she took her life.

RIP, she had so much potential in life.
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Anyone have the video?
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impact of social media seeking attention. Sad case nevertheless.. RIP
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What i got is bully case
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video going around showing bullying in washroom - i no understand chinese so cannot confirm

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video going around showing bullying in washroom - i no understand chinese so cannot confirm
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Wah, really ke? The bully needs to be expelled then..
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video going around showing bullying in washroom - i no understand chinese so cannot confirm
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really ah? that one not the perak/penang one ke?
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What i got is bully case
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but father denied the girl bullied in video is his daughter.

case of mistaken identity?

if its really bully case, sure any victim's father will rage and make noise to authorities to take action.

but not in this case mah.

don't think is bully case.
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video going around showing bullying in washroom - i no understand chinese so cannot confirm
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Wah, really ke? The bully needs to be expelled then..
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Shuddup la. She has passed away.

Go create unnecessary rumors for what?

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but father denied the girl bullied in video is his daughter.

case of mistaken identity?

if its really bully case, sure any victim's father will rage and make noise to authorities to take action.

but not in this case mah.

don't think is bully case.
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If bully case then really GG
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okay.... without know the reason for why she chose to jump.

Please do not end your life. you can fight and do not give up.

I am sorry for her family lost...

NO rip for suicide....
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 7 2024, 05:26 PM)
but father denied the girl bullied in video is his daughter.

case of mistaken identity?

if its really bully case, sure any victim's father will rage and make noise to authorities to take action.

but not in this case mah.

don't think is bully case.
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I'm glad my parents never send me or my sibilings to Chinese school

All those Chinese educated friends have some sort of kiasu / funny pattern

But government school now also becoming worse.. So I think private schools are the best if u can afford it.. My brother was lucky to study in private school...
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I'm glad my parents never send me or my sibilings to Chinese school

All those Chinese educated friends have some sort of kiasu / funny pattern

But government school now also becoming worse.. So I think private schools are the best if u can afford it.. My brother was lucky to study in private school...
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Sekolah Kebangsaan used to be good
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Yes, during my time it was quite ok.. Only many gangsters, broken windows and teachers who always ponteng

Now it has gone to the dogs according to some of my friends who send their kids to school

I can speak Malay fluently compared to some of my Chinese-ed colleagues who can't even speak it
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I'm glad my parents never send me or my sibilings to Chinese school

All those Chinese educated friends have some sort of kiasu / funny pattern

But government school now also becoming worse.. So I think private schools are the best if u can afford it.. My brother was lucky to study in private school...
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Funny thing was that when I was in school, I used to pick up cantonese singing hk pop songs and grew up watching HK drama.
Then my cousins in the north and south pick up hokkien and grew up watching taiwan drama.

Today...our kids don't even speak dialect anymore, all speak mandarin. My cousin complain why his kids don't speak their hokkien mother tongue.

All chinese are speaking mandarin now, when I worked in HK, I find even the new generation have to learn mandarin there. I go Japan for tour, I find the staff at restaurant or hotel all from China speak mandarin to me.

Mandarin like getting very important.
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Quite irresponsible for whoever that person is to spread and claim was due to bullying.
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Quite irresponsible for whoever that person is to spread and claim was due to bullying.
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always got this kind of mentally illed person on earth.
eat full nothing do spread rumors, incite racial hate, 18 jan so on and so forth.
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Funny thing was that when I was in school, I used to pick up cantonese singing hk pop songs and grew up watching HK drama.
Then my cousins in the north and south pick up hokkien and grew up watching taiwan drama.

Today...our kids don't even speak dialect anymore, all speak mandarin. My cousin complain why his kids don't speak their hokkien mother tongue.

All chinese are speaking mandarin now, when I worked in HK, I find even the new generation have to learn mandarin there. I go Japan for tour, I find the staff at restaurant or hotel all from China speak mandarin to me.

Mandarin like getting very important.
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always got this kind of mentally illed person on earth.
eat full nothing do spread rumors, incite racial hate, 18 jan so on and so forth.
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karma will go to these kind of people who spread rumors.

it isn't enough the family has to go through such trauma of this tragedy, now got nutcase want to spread fake video and story pulak.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 8 2024, 08:46 AM)
Funny thing was that when I was in school, I used to pick up cantonese singing hk pop songs and grew up watching HK drama.
Then my cousins in the north and south pick up hokkien and grew up watching taiwan drama.

Today...our kids don't even speak dialect anymore, all speak mandarin. My cousin complain why his kids don't speak their hokkien mother tongue.

All chinese are speaking mandarin now, when I worked in HK, I find even the new generation have to learn mandarin there. I go Japan for tour, I find the staff at restaurant or hotel all from China speak mandarin to me.

Mandarin like getting very important.
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I prefer Cantonese over Mandarin growing up in KL

Most KL ppl still speak Cantonese

But too bad Mandarin is the international language


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QUOTE(-PuPu^ZaPruD3r- @ Oct 7 2024, 06:39 PM)
Yes, during my time it was quite ok.. Only many gangsters, broken windows and teachers who always ponteng

Now it has gone to the dogs according to some of my friends who send their kids to school

I can speak Malay fluently compared to some of my Chinese-ed colleagues who can't even speak it
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during my time. SK has quite a few chinese students.
just for curiosity and planning for future. i look back at my primary school fb page.
all is just one race. no other race spotted.
if i send my kid there sure will feel depressed.
so will be no choice, have to send to SJKC when the time comes.

then my first "new" secondary school, was too religious. like guys n girls have to separate naik tangga.
so my mum port me out to another SMK which is more balanced.
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very hard to avoid, mandarin everywhere.

even meleis now all want to learn mandarin

i saw all the chinese school and kindergarten theyu all want to put their kids there.
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I prefer Cantonese over Mandarin growing up in KL

Most KL ppl still speak Cantonese

But too bad Mandarin is the international language
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me too, but life is changing.

less n less people are speaking dialect.

the new generation are speaking cantonese less in KL.


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so till now still dont know what was the cause of her suicide choice?
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QUOTE(Akaashi @ Oct 5 2024, 12:56 AM)
nowadays both parents working bah. Hard to arrange transport especially u know KL road jam like shit all day long let alone queue up dropping at school.

Plus no one to take care after school coz still working. If send them to those tuition or hobby class the costs is also about the same d compare to send to hostel.
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Boss, her parents bikin biz sendiri at SJ/PJ area. Shopping mall operation timing ie 10am to 10pm so apa susah to arrange transport oh. If takut jam, siapa suruh choose that school? 😅
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Sekolah Kebangsaan used to be good
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ha? local kl/pj why must sent kids to hostel...i dont see the logic
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I prefer Cantonese over Mandarin growing up in KL

Most KL ppl still speak Cantonese

But too bad Mandarin is the international language
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Me too. I am a banana but fluent in cantonese
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ha? local kl/pj why must sent kids to hostel...i dont see the logic
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This is exactly my sentiment.
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i just want to see my kids everyday..i cannot said for others.
typical question i asked my kids, how is your day? everything ok? what u have in school? how your friend? etc

conversation not lasting 5-10m but i will remember all their stories, fren and teachers name and i will ask them again and again

we just spent too much time on HP

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so till now still dont know what was the cause of her suicide choice?
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The most probable reasons have been circulating in mummies/parents/students group chat. I read about it but not nice to disclose it here.

Afterall, it’s only speculative in nature since there’s no suicide note.
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QUOTE(ts1 @ Oct 8 2024, 09:52 AM)
i just want to see my kids everyday..i cannot said for others.
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Me too! Not only see but I try to spend as much time as possible with my boy.
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wah banyak post for a suicide case.
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QUOTE(acbc @ Oct 2 2024, 01:44 PM)
Maybe family stress? U know la. Typical Chinese families love to compare their kids with others. Indirectly they made their kids feel inferior.
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I feel & understand that bro!

When my parents compare me with other kids academic results, I also compare other kids parents financial capability with my parents too! (eg. big house, japanese or euro cars, birthday celebration and etc)

after that, terus senyap and dont compare anymore laugh.gif

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QUOTE(steevan1000 @ Oct 8 2024, 09:21 AM)
so till now still dont know what was the cause of her suicide choice?
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Pressure to perform maybe
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https://www.thestar.com.my/news/nation/2024...s-pleads-father - 2024/10/07 - don't-link-my-daughter's-death-to-viral-videos - pleads-father
PETALING JAYA: The father of the 13-year-old student who died in a fall recently has denied claims that his daughter was the victim of bullying.

In a Facebook post on Monday (Oct 7), he also urged the public not to spread videos that claim the girl was bullied.

"The girl in the video is not my daughter. Please stop spreading it. Thank you," he said in his post.

A video circulating online shows a group of unidentified girls hitting a female student in a school toilet.

The father also urged the public to stop circulating his late daughter's final video message.

"Please delete and stop sharing the video of my daughter's last message," he added in his post. ...


OK it's not linked but the Police should still investigate the bullying case in the video if it happened in the hostel of a private Malaysian Chinese school, eg arrest and charge the bullies in court.
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Sometimes you cannot pressure the kids too much, parents also to blame because they like comparing with relatives kids. 😅 something it's better to let the kids alone let them find their own path.
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QUOTE(steevan1000 @ Oct 8 2024, 09:21 AM)
so till now still dont know what was the cause of her suicide choice?
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Later at 8pm, got fb live by her dad.


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Depression is a silent killer. Unless you share it.
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Anyone saw the video of the girl last message?

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Quite irresponsible for whoever that person is to spread and claim was due to bullying.
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completely agree

but it's VERY DEPRESSING for anyone seeing that helpless schoolgirl girl (in viral vid) being bullied (mainly by 2 girls) in the toilet with the rest (yup got sick audience) watching and cheering them on - just pure evil
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Me too. I am a banana but fluent in cantonese
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Guys, can U all help to report the idiot that spreading the fake news at FB?? So many people believing that

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/ek4yLAGyuLnhxRKq/

I made my report edi for false information
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Family issue is the reason that cause the girl to take her life. From what the couple shared, their relationship wasn’t good, and thus has impacted the small little girl mental. Just imagine if your parents alway fight, how would you feel as a kid, and no where to voice out your concern.
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QUOTE(Super2047 @ Oct 8 2024, 10:01 PM)
Family issue is the reason that cause the girl to take her life. From what the couple shared, their relationship wasn’t good, and thus has impacted the small little girl mental. Just imagine if your parents alway fight, how would you feel as a kid, and no where to voice out your concern.
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So the parents always fight? I understand that feeling
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QUOTE(Super2047 @ Oct 8 2024, 11:01 PM)
Family issue is the reason that cause the girl to take her life. From what the couple shared, their relationship wasn’t good, and thus has impacted the small little girl mental. Just imagine if your parents alway fight, how would you feel as a kid, and no where to voice out your concern.
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At 13, my parents quarrel and I ask them to stop, if not I will run away.

They insisted to quarrel, so I wear my clothes and go out cc to play until tomorrow afternoon
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QUOTE(Super2047 @ Oct 8 2024, 11:01 PM)
Family issue is the reason that cause the girl to take her life. From what the couple shared, their relationship wasn’t good, and thus has impacted the small little girl mental. Just imagine if your parents alway fight, how would you feel as a kid, and no where to voice out your concern.
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Was a lengthy 1-hr live session. tldw is basically frequent argument in the house?
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QUOTE(KitZhai @ Oct 8 2024, 10:27 PM)
At 13, my parents quarrel and I ask them to stop, if not I will run away.

They insisted to quarrel, so I wear my clothes and go out cc to play until tomorrow afternoon
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I scroll over the father's live and hear he says something like my daughter want to change the world, that moments I knew his father brain is fucuk up and close it
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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 8 2024, 07:51 PM)
Later at 8pm, got fb live by her dad.


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eh...so fast removed?
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Fixed the link.
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then u gun down others?
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Many signs have shown that her parents want to kuda over the demise of their daughter

From the past few days keep posting public posts on FB, and tonight the live stream together with the so called counsellor

In the live stream, the parents was so calm and demure, and have the courage to give advice to the audience, if people not knowing the news they wouldn't believe that they have just lost their daughter less than a week ago, one week is too short of time for grieving, who in their right mind have the mood to open live

Btw the father's fb page has 4k followers, and some said he is some kind of influencers selling things live for a living

Gosh i start to feel the parents are problematic kind

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Many signs have shown that her parents want to kuda over the demise of their daughter

From the past few days keep posting public posts on FB, and tonight the live stream together with the so called counsellor

In the live stream, the parents was so calm and demure, and have the courage to give advice to the audience, if people not knowing the news they wouldn't believe that they have just lost their daughter less than a week ago, one week is too short of time for grieving, who in their right mind have the mood to open live

Btw the father's fb page has 4k followers, and some said he is some kind of influencers selling things live for a living

Gosh i start to feel the parents are problematic kind
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agreed that the father is kuda, pity his daughter
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Disgusted by this type of parents. Pui.
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 9 2024, 12:02 AM)
Many signs have shown that her parents want to kuda over the demise of their daughter

From the past few days keep posting public posts on FB, and tonight the live stream together with the so called counsellor

In the live stream, the parents was so calm and demure, and have the courage to give advice to the audience, if people not knowing the news they wouldn't believe that they have just lost their daughter less than a week ago, one week is too short of time for grieving, who in their right mind have the mood to open live

Btw the father's fb page has 4k followers, and some said he is some kind of influencers selling things live for a living

Gosh i start to feel the parents are problematic kind
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Fixed the link.
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damn 1 hr of kuda dry.gif
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QUOTE(machomama @ Oct 8 2024, 08:45 PM)
completely agree

but it's VERY DEPRESSING for anyone seeing that helpless schoolgirl girl (in viral vid) being bullied (mainly by 2 girls) in the toilet with the rest (yup got sick audience) watching and cheering them on - just pure evil
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it is even more depressing, for some sick maderfarker to post the helpless girl being bullied and claim that she was the suicide girl.


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QUOTE(Super2047 @ Oct 8 2024, 10:01 PM)
Family issue is the reason that cause the girl to take her life. From what the couple shared, their relationship wasn’t good, and thus has impacted the small little girl mental. Just imagine if your parents alway fight, how would you feel as a kid, and no where to voice out your concern.
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Parents aren't perfect, fight and potential split will happen.

There's got to be more underlying issues other than the parents fight.


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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 9 2024, 12:02 AM)
Many signs have shown that her parents want to kuda over the demise of their daughter

From the past few days keep posting public posts on FB, and tonight the live stream together with the so called counsellor

In the live stream, the parents was so calm and demure, and have the courage to give advice to the audience, if people not knowing the news they wouldn't believe that they have just lost their daughter less than a week ago, one week is too short of time for grieving, who in their right mind have the mood to open live

Btw the father's fb page has 4k followers, and some said he is some kind of influencers selling things live for a living

Gosh i start to feel the parents are problematic kind
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father fb profile is CONTENT CREATOR...

use daughter for his own fame, he still has 3 other children, won't feel much pain.

useless parents.
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 9 2024, 07:57 AM)
it is even more depressing, for some sick maderfarker to post the helpless girl being bullied and claim that she was the suicide girl.
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you mean the few people here who speculate for fun

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you mean the few people here who speculate for fun

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well obviously they need to get their info collection right.


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QUOTE(gashout @ Oct 9 2024, 08:03 AM)
father fb profile is CONTENT CREATOR...

use daughter for his own fame, he still has 3 other children, won't feel much pain.

useless parents.
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so the real issue is due to exploitation, parents always argue with each other.

too much content creation until kids also macam part of your workforce?

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QUOTE(DValentine @ Oct 8 2024, 04:10 PM)
polis buat kerja no need u teach, no need report to u
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but asking a question which has nothing related to you somehow offended you ? or i have misinterpreted your reply hmm.gif
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QUOTE(gashout @ Oct 9 2024, 08:03 AM)
father fb profile is CONTENT CREATOR...

use daughter for his own fame, he still has 3 other children, won't feel much pain.

useless parents.
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a lot of issues start from within the family

since from the start I suspect the pressure and stress comes from the parents but I don't want to speculate much.

the school itself does has high expectations on their students and the most important things such as supports and encouragements come from the family/parents
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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 9 2024, 12:02 AM)
Many signs have shown that her parents want to kuda over the demise of their daughter

From the past few days keep posting public posts on FB, and tonight the live stream together with the so called counsellor

In the live stream, the parents was so calm and demure, and have the courage to give advice to the audience, if people not knowing the news they wouldn't believe that they have just lost their daughter less than a week ago, one week is too short of time for grieving, who in their right mind have the mood to open live

Btw the father's fb page has 4k followers, and some said he is some kind of influencers selling things live for a living

Gosh i start to feel the parents are problematic kind
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it's highly suspected they utilize the death of their own daughter as a free publicity & free ticket to fame
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QUOTE(gashout @ Oct 9 2024, 08:03 AM)
father fb profile is CONTENT CREATOR...

use daughter for his own fame, he still has 3 other children, won't feel much pain.

useless parents.
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Where got content creator? The fader sells and repairs watches niaaa. Made few amateur videos on why should maintain your Lolex call himself content creator bangwall.gif

I’m totally switched off now wrt her parents. After the live FB.

Learn your lesson, Man!!!! Use that one-hour to spend to get to know your other kids instead of grabbing the limelight out of a tragedy.
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I won't be surprised if one day there's a movie based on true story of this and starring... the father.
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QUOTE(overthemoon @ Oct 9 2024, 09:13 AM)
Where got content creator? The fader sells and repairs watches niaaa. Made few amateur videos on why should maintain your Lolex call himself content creator  bangwall.gif

I’m totally switched off now wrt her parents. After the live FB.

Learn your lesson, Man!!!! Use that one-hour to spend to get to know your other kids instead of grabbing the limelight out of a tragedy.
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now 7.8k followers.

2 more fb live, sure can hit 15k followers.

wanna milk children, even milk about their death.

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what is there to use this case to remind parents to love their children? then now talk like reach enlightenment, good hypnosis friend attract positive energy stuff.

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QUOTE(overthemoon @ Oct 9 2024, 09:13 AM)
Where got content creator? The fader sells and repairs watches niaaa. Made few amateur videos on why should maintain your Lolex call himself content creator  bangwall.gif

I’m totally switched off now wrt her parents. After the live FB.

Learn your lesson, Man!!!! Use that one-hour to spend to get to know your other kids instead of grabbing the limelight out of a tragedy.
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why use headline like this???

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why use headline like this???

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Pardon … What does it say please?
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Pardon … What does it say please?
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'my daughter has something to tell everyone'



how shitty is this father.
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tht counsellor is such a hottie
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how shitty is this father.
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I hope his watch shop gulung tikar ranting.gif
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tht counsellor is such a hottie

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You need a specs shop, not a watch shop
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why no listen to chanfong 988
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how shitty is this father.
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die like still can talk to people? really shitty father, the one should die is the father
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If you take a look at their Organisation Chart, you will realise that there is something wrong.

It seems like the whole school reports to the Principal. And the School Hostel, which is a very important component, is placed right at the bottom and reports to the Head of HR.

They really need to revamp this old-school management approach. Appoint a Head of Boarding, who has similar powers as the Principal. And have the two of them report to the Board.

 

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