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Form 1 student jumps out of Kuen Cheng building, sad, RIP
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snimple
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Oct 3 2024, 04:15 PM
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QUOTE(Boomwick @ Oct 3 2024, 02:44 PM) Different people different acceptance of stress. Some.kids no tiao one if get last or retain Some will really cannot take it. At this kind of time, which is year end, the result already keluar.. those who will continue form 2 or retain also already know.. If the kid suicide at this point of time and due to life stress as a student, possibly is due to kena retain form gua? Anyhow, rip to her.. sometimes this kind of stress, got good got bad. Good is they push u Bad is they push u too much if u cannot take it then like this girl.. Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2 Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9
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smallcrab
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Oct 3 2024, 04:31 PM
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Wtf First time i hear, if not pass exam, need to retain/repeat for another year?
Crazy
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Sichiri
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Oct 3 2024, 04:32 PM
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QUOTE(30624770 @ Oct 3 2024, 04:13 PM) With all that education, Uncle Roger ended up being an influencer  Thats just being smart. Just like the hawk tuah girl, if you go viral, run with it.
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Boomwick
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Oct 3 2024, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(smallcrab @ Oct 3 2024, 04:31 PM) Wtf First time i hear, if not pass exam, need to retain/repeat for another year? Crazy Not exam la.. If not pass the final total average point
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Boomwick
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Oct 3 2024, 04:35 PM
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 04:15 PM) Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2 Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9 I dunno la.. i am just guessing only based on life stress as a student especially when it is nearing end of school term Since it is private chinese, end of school term will know u get passing mark or not to go up or retain.. Is my guessing only.. real reason i dunno But high chance is this
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seather
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Oct 3 2024, 04:44 PM
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RIP little girl..
beyond academic reasons, some parents die die push their children to excel in studies so they don end up in lower tier SMKs is due to disciplinary issues..
i am OK that my kids r performing academically at mid tier at any school provided discipline is kept.... but we all know in schools not performing well academically, there is issues with discipline and even gangsterism.. on the overall, elite schools have better discipline..
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hoonanoo
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Oct 3 2024, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(kitt2000 @ Oct 3 2024, 04:10 PM) Primary Stress what? No more upsr no major exams all just in class accessment by the teacher, what is there to stress about ? ... And most of the teacher are biased if they have favorite students or own nephew/niece study in that class.. I don't know independent chinese school also no exam like SK ?
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hoonanoo
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Oct 3 2024, 04:47 PM
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QUOTE(seather @ Oct 3 2024, 04:44 PM) RIP little girl.. beyond academic reasons, some parents die die push their children to excel in studies so they don end up in lower tier SMKs is due to disciplinary issues.. i am OK that my kids r performing academically at mid tier at any school provided discipline is kept.... but we all know in schools not performing well academically, there is issues with discipline and even gangsterism.. on the overall, elite schools have better discipline.. trouble with independent school if you fall back behind, they kick you out or they stress u out with more replacement classes, if u still struggle, they kick you out. I am not supporting what the parents did but I can understand why they did what they did, if they are ones that keep pushing their kids hard to study.
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ApocalypseSoon
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Oct 3 2024, 04:48 PM
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 04:15 PM) Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2 Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9 No such ruling also can suicide one lah. In my hometown, got kid from Chinese family suicide after SPM/PMR (i forgot which one) due to result not good enough (iinm, didn't score enough As). The school is urban SMJK with 80% Chinese students. Headmaster also Chinese. The only subject using the Chinese language is Bahasa Cina. All others are in Malay. No UEC. 100% parent fault, they should teach the child "If u have tried ur best, it's okay to fail. I will still love u no matters what'. This post has been edited by ApocalypseSoon: Oct 5 2024, 01:55 PM
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Pikichu
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Oct 3 2024, 04:48 PM
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QUOTE(smallcrab @ Oct 3 2024, 04:31 PM) Wtf First time i hear, if not pass exam, need to retain/repeat for another year? Crazy 1. Example: If student score 0 then send to next level score 0, is this how edu system should work? 2. Meritocracy ? While meritocracy has its benefits, it is a system that would ostracisize average and underpeformers. Probably this is the reason she could be stress.
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hoonanoo
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Oct 3 2024, 04:49 PM
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 04:15 PM) Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2 Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9 KC charge 6k per year international school an average one charge 50k a year better int school ones charge 100-200k a year thats why many parents send to KC
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cheryee
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Oct 3 2024, 04:57 PM
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 3 2024, 04:49 PM) KC charge 6k per year international school an average one charge 50k a year better int school ones charge 100-200k a year thats why many parents send to KC So salah parents tak cukup loaded? 😂🤣 Btw, I cannot brain why must make her stay in the hostel when the parents are working in PJ/SJ?
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cheryee
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Oct 3 2024, 04:59 PM
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 04:15 PM) Then parents fault 100% why on earth must you send her to a school with such ruling? apa retain apa can go form 2 Intenational school kan ada money asal bayar sure can go from year 7 to year 8 and oh ya if really smart kid can even skip year 8 straight go year 9 +1 Smart kid can skip few grades in IS.
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snimple
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Oct 3 2024, 05:01 PM
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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 3 2024, 04:49 PM) KC charge 6k per year international school an average one charge 50k a year better int school ones charge 100-200k a year thats why many parents send to KC 6k per year but retain become 12k for that year if kena retain again? And why in the 1st place must send to a school with such ruling ? can graduate from such school come out sure more powerful than others kah? sry i really cnanot brain this and to add nowadays international school got those which is around 15-18k per year oh .... but if the parent can afford rm6k but drive bmw merc im sure they can afford higher fees but drive perodua proton la coz those who really cant afford to pay will just send their kid to smk instead This post has been edited by snimple: Oct 3 2024, 05:06 PM
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YamiBear
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Oct 3 2024, 05:03 PM
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I don't think retain is problem. Pressure from parents is problem. Instead of helping her, probably at home emotionally abuse her.
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keyibukeyi
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Oct 3 2024, 05:05 PM
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Mayb the chinese in cainis school to deep, she sorrow kenot memartabatkan engrish
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cheryee
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Oct 3 2024, 05:06 PM
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 05:01 PM) 6k per year but retain become 12k for that year if kena retain again? And why in the 1st place must send to a school with such ruling ? can graduate from such school come out sure more powerful than others kah? sry i really cnanot brain this 1 of my admin staff punya niece and nephew also from that school. Now 1 of them working as a kindy teacher and another one selling phone in shopping mall.
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snimple
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Oct 3 2024, 05:08 PM
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QUOTE(cheryee @ Oct 3 2024, 05:06 PM) 1 of my admin staff punya niece and nephew also from that school. Now 1 of them working as a kindy teacher and another one selling phone in shopping mall. wtf.... r u for real?
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cheryee
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Oct 3 2024, 05:13 PM
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QUOTE(snimple @ Oct 3 2024, 05:08 PM) Of course! If every single student from there also become top guns, then all the elite schools and IS can gulung tikar de lo. As I said in my earlier post, an outstanding student can excel in any school, not necessary must go to a “military training camp”  :
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Koranshita
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Oct 3 2024, 05:15 PM
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So sad
While my niece are aiming for excellent in her school I keep telling her cukup makan can dy. even with all B u still can go into university. No need all Straight A.
Do balancing don't push yourself too much
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