TS, my very twisted opinion is he did not want to spend time to court you to into bed. Since you have demanded that you need movies, dinners, spend quality time before u will give in to intimacy. He must be thinking this takes too much time.
Better go for tinder chicks who bow to money immediately.

Also i have kool setori about men coming out of the woodwork suddenly and confessing. Might post at /k soon. Since got triggered by you.