Confusing Male Behaviour, [Decoded and Solved on 25/9/24]
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 Sep 14 2024, 05:05 PM
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Guys are like prince/knights/explorers Girls are like princess in the castle. So, the guys will explore around la If they find one who is available, they will try to court la. If got rejected, then just move on to another one. Ralna liked this post
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Sep 14 2024, 05:06 PM
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QUOTE(Ralna @ Sep 14 2024, 01:22 PM) I'll give an example. this is obviously just someone who have never courted a girl or ever got into a relationship before.Recently, there was guy from my university who asked to be in a relationship with me, and I said yes, I'd give him a chance to get to know each other better. Then he asked if we could get physically intimate (non-sexual, e.g. holding hands, hugging, cuddling). I said yeah, if we caught feelings for each other, we should just follow the natural flow. Then he started overthinking: what happens if we can't control ourselves and we have xxx? Then he started worrying about his 'performance' because he was single for years and couldn't 'last' that long. In total, he initiated meeting me 3 times, but also cancelled 3 times, then he went MIA. Me:   We haven't even started dating yet, and he's already thinking soooooooooo far ahead. He works as an analyst. So, to me, it's more like his own overthinking/insecurity issues rather than my own...  Ralna liked this post
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Sep 17 2024, 03:56 AM
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QUOTE(Ralna @ Sep 17 2024, 01:23 AM) haha you're so adorable, really care for your bro ramjade a lot. :thumbsup: Yes, that special man would be a submissive man. Well, most men whom I know of just want housewife or working mom type of women--- I call them the good girls: traditional, obedient and tolerant, like most of my female friends. I'm far from these qualities that most men seek. I love thrills and adventures, I think out of the box, and I challenge the status quo. So... I'm not every man's cup of tea. I know and accept this fact long ago, and I feel okay about it. I always believe it takes a special man to see and appreciate my depth, variety and multi-facets, but I have yet to meet such a man. I thought my ex was the one for me, but I grew too much and too fast while he was still stagnant, so we no longer match in our vibes and pace. Ah well, I'll just keep having fun and living my best life, and leave the rest to God/universe to arrange.   The one who will listen to you day and night, listening to your orders. If he is someone like Elon Musk, why would he be entertaining your whims and fancies in the long run? For the short-term, probably yes.It's going to be very difficult to have two captains in a ship. When you have two very dominant personalities in a relationship, there will be constant fights and arguments which eventually lead to a breakdown in the relationship. That's why the traditional baby boomer relationship works well and tend to last long (eg. man goes to work and make household important decisions, woman takes care of household). And that is assuming the man is a hardworking man, not those abusive lazy type of man. Or otherwise, the woman taking a lead in the relationship while the man be the househusband. But then again, not many women can accept that a man is less successful than her and this relationship usually breaks down as well. You can see for yourself why many modern relationships don't last very long. For example, take a look at those examples where popular successful actors and actresses who got married which then usually ended in divorce. This post has been edited by Blofeld: Sep 17 2024, 04:02 AM |
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