He has to make his choice then; either miss the current boat or wait for the next one.

As for me, I tak jadi kahwin after 8 years together with the same guy. He's letting me go and I'm also tired of waiting for him.

I'm back to single and semi-available. Currently, I'm rebuilding my life and refining myself after the failed relationship. Will make myself available to the dating market next year. Fun to go on dates with new men again.

haha you're so adorable, really care for your bro ramjade a lot. :thumbsup:

Well, most men whom I know of just want housewife or working mom type of women--- I call them the good girls: traditional, obedient and tolerant, like most of my female friends.

I'm far from these qualities that most men seek. I love thrills and adventures, I think out of the box, and I challenge the status quo. So... I'm not every man's cup of tea. I know and accept this fact long ago, and I feel okay about it.

I always believe it takes a special man to see and appreciate my depth, variety and multi-facets, but I have yet to meet such a man. I thought my ex was the one for me, but I grew too much and too fast while he was still stagnant, so we no longer match in our vibes and pace.

Ah well, I'll just keep having fun and living my best life, and leave the rest to God/universe to arrange.

Yes, piggy.  

Btw, si mangkuk just messaged me again...