these are often beta males or orbiters who use relationship as an excuse to get to know a female. They often dont know how to be a player and be honest about it

so when these guys dont have much experiences with women, often times they will eject when they face objections

A lot of times, people just dont want extra feelings when dealing with business or friendship plus intimacy. They often cant switch their role freely so when you communicate with them, there will be this stifling and heavy energy around them

It could be a trauma when a guy cannot fully express his intent towards a female. There are number of factors, ie he was heavily judged by his father or constantly being nagged by mom that he's a useless human being, that may escalate into a physical dispute

he was likely being shamed that sex is bad and unnatural
a man who understands women wont easily verbalize this kind of thought, cause we just live in present moment and go for the sex closure