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How to Move On Really
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Goodguy909
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 Dec 31 2024, 09:14 PM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Sep 11 2024, 11:03 PM) How to move on from someone we have attachment/love/like to. Dont said those generic like. Dont know how long gonna go on like this. All this years depress due to loneliness. Now depress due to love even though got someone being so nice and already with me so long but have no feel to her yet gaslighting her. My feeling to her is more caring own families rather than love -Delete photos(I can't do it as i know i might never see her again so photo is very precious) -Keep ourself busy, go gym. Tried it but it just a cover. When night comes basically cant sleep cause when mind empty, all sort of though/memories rushing into my head instead I know the feeling might fade but i also know it will never go away. You broke up with your ex because argue on something or just broke peacefully ? I bet 60% is argue on something |
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Goodguy909
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Dec 31 2024, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Dec 31 2024, 09:50 PM) No1 or 2. If its 2 we broke due to distance and she know I have 1. Also she is islam and have 2 kids so she distance herself slowly. Disappear into thin air. This just summary but its very long long story Make you cannot tahan thinking first or second 1? |
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Goodguy909
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Jan 1 2025, 01:54 AM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Dec 31 2024, 11:20 PM) Keep thinking of second. The first still stay with me No come out sit down and talk peacefully bila putus ? If got and become normal friend I think you will be better , I suffer-ing something similar like you . Keep thinking and trying to move on . |
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Goodguy909
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Jan 2 2025, 08:44 AM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Jan 2 2025, 06:21 AM) Now again think of her again cannot sleep back hearing after mosque azan because that time when I at there I stay near mosque thus every morning will hear azan. This kind of little stuff keep make me remind of her when i try to sleep and its been almost a year like this. Its affecting my work when I lack of sleep. I see , thats the problem . Didn't sit down and talk to figure it out what problem you guys are . Believe me , heart still damn pain but atleast better 50% if do like this . My story is , almost a decade of love planning 2 years lagi will marry but problem still exist jadi both of us have to step back and let the problem to be solve . We still love each other and we have our own way to tell that (not s3x) now but not like couple chitchat before . |
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Goodguy909
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Jan 5 2025, 05:24 AM
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QUOTE(kesvani @ Jan 4 2025, 10:19 PM) Wow. Almost a decade?. Mine elaborate more?. Take your time to reply Yeah , now already a decade .... I try to summary it simple as possible , my broken english hope you can understand also lah hahaha... I "love" her at first sight , many peoples don't believe this... Hard to explain what's the feeling ... but yeah... you will feel it automatically she are the right person you want ... After few years , she got some matter and asking me whether i able to help her or not ? and yeah... the problem appears....(she are a trustworthy person , this is no doubt) ... after that , couple mah confirm got some argue 1 ... many times we argue will bring us back to the "matter" but nevermind lah after that we also good as before like nothing happen and still so love each other ...even we passed ldr when covid happens... recently , we argue lagi and then bring us back to the matter again ... we notice or admit it this is the problem we both need to step back and let it solve first only can move to the next stage .... we sit down talk peacefully and nicely , admit our problems ... both of us know we can't loose each other just need sometimes let the problem to be solve ... at the end , i so regret my decision...this is my soooooooo wrong decision in my life...if not sudah married and got family long time ago ... here is all the simple summarize story , impossible i tell the full story here...hope you can understand lah... This post has been edited by Goodguy909: Jan 5 2025, 05:36 AM |
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