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my average match meetup is once a year. FML.

This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Sep 4 2024, 02:36 PM

if only im rich to buy beans, might end up with my highschool crush last time

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Worth it meh.

This type of app mainly for hookups or some casual shit only based on experience.

If you wanna find serious relationships, better meet irl.

If you decide to go the online route, better pay for more premum dating services where they go through candidates profiles including income and etc.

Recently i got 1 amoi friend, 35 years old, good looking and got high paid job in an e-commerce company, paid like 5k for some dating services, managed to land a 44 year old financial controller in a MNC. To be honest she's 8/10, but personality a bit weird, and don't know how to communicate well be it with guys or girls. Colleagues also kinda isolate her.

Another case, I got this nerdy friend, also 35 this year, quite a rich guy worked in sg for 5 years and then came back to <alaysia, working with an e-wallet company. but sucky when chasing girls, ended up paid 1.5k to lose his virginity last year, but coudn't cum because too ganjeong and wearing condom. Spent a small fortune on dating/relationship coaching, finally landed a gf, but his gf is 3/10 only.

So seriously, just pay for somebody to find you a suitable candidate if you wanna go the virtual dating route, if you're into serious shit, else, just slide into some onlyfans amoi's dms and see how it goes.

i know people who met their life partner through cmb, fb and wecheat
all doing ok

Speaking from experience, CMB has the least amount of scammer, and have proper filter to focus on your target group (e.g. casual, short or long term relationship).

Most male who use dating app are those who find it hard to initiate & maintain conversation with female irl, or does not many single and available female in their social circle. So kasi chan lah.

my average match meetup is once a year. FML.

You're not alone, though i stop using dating apps like for quite long time now due to match with pig butcher scammer, land whale, and only like 1 or 2 decent women. Then the conversation just die off, i don't know why and i never disrespect or saying those negative things to them.

I encountered a few then in CMB, now i don't know la. Typical pig butcher scammer, at first all so friendly and nothing suspicious. Then they start introducing to their "hustling", when you questioning them then they will get mad.

Think about it this way

Who are the people using online dating apps?

If the girl is a good catch, she'll get so many requests and the chance to meet a few creeps is pretty much 100%. So it won't be long before she jumps off the platform.

Better for her to get people from real life that can be filtered by friends and environment.

So chance you're going to meet someone nice is damn low.

Better for you to also try to meet people in real life, since all the losers already on the online dating apps. In person approach will automatically put you in a much higher tier than your competition.

I would disagree based on my experience. If I am active there are times I could have 4-5 meets a week (sometimes 2 on the same day)

ive met plenty of very nice and normal girls from apps

Slightly better than Tinder. Not much of matches.

Face problem.

Rubbish app.. The girls there are sometimes quite weird

Kena stalked by girls I met there in real life.. Scary experience

Meet so many, but still nothing from it... so... what are we suppose to conclude from that?

Why so many people here say cannot? If you can’t get matches or dates, it’s you, not them. There’s barely any scammers on CMB lol. If I wanted to I could go on a date every week on each Friday Saturday Sunday. But I’m selective also la.

This post has been edited by trojandude: Sep 4 2024, 04:21 PM

CMB definitely the better apps out there. I been using it on and off, have plenty of matches and meet up.

Used it before... Managed to get real matches... What I found is that those women I know and met tend to have like an assessment of you.. If you slip a bit(I mean like argue or question their decision/attitude), either they will be mad or ghosting you...

Plus they will get irritated if you ask if she's meeting or dating other guys...

your face problem lol, last time i also got play CMB and got pretty good results from there, girls there are more serious than other apps that are full of scammers and freeloaders

on average i can get a few dates per month

there are many crazies in online platform. once they grow slightly attached to you, that's it, they go cuckoo if you wanna move on. good thing is most of them can get physical after one or 2 meetups.

Beggers can't be choosers right?

better than 0 chance. i miss any shot that is not taken.

wish there are women to meet in real life. how do army that live in camp meet women?

This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Sep 4 2024, 05:44 PM

why here got 2 types of "reviews", whos problem lmao

who is somebody?

Dating services

they match up because they feel that since they have paid a lot, might as well just accept the fate. it's about money more than anything. they don't feel anything in free stuff like CMB and Tinder and take it for granted (and continue to seek for better match).

my experience few years back was that i cant even get a single match. Lol, serious face problem.

Need new app. Dating in the dark.

You sounded like that dude with 3 pills as his profile picture

And yet those fish are still looking for dimes.


The right way to use these apps is to only use it to set up dates. The app's job is to give you more options. If they want to chat, do it face to face.


Tunggu apa lagi? Makan je la.

they threaten to make ur acc inactive alot lol
last time it was if u didnt log in for 1 month str8 then they send notification
recently i got log in to swipe a little bit then didnt do it for the next couple days then they start to send notification saying will make my acc inactive already
felt like its more and more aggressiv now
i got so many free beans from their screw up that i can basically use it like premium but i dont want to give girls the idea that they are too good for me that i have to use beans to boost my place kek
most of the ones that swipe me have 0 info on their profile and just some grainy pics thats it
duno even know what to talk to them about

Lots of spoilt wimmin & pig chops altering pictures easily what to do man. You have to fulfill their "ticks" and nothing off Mr. Perfect then chance also low to follow up.

Downside same, during date happy happy smile but inside the box of otak, already noted something off about you. Oh he is talking too much, talking too little and no connection/feel. This is just a dinner date and bye block ghosted. He is not that handsome no xxxxxx tonight.

Both genders can play the game of multiple dating at one go and not telling you about it.

Laid berapa or no action just dates.

Face pecah personality something off = sorry mang you have to find another wimmin that can "take it" or else you are gonna be single "dog" forever no meals for you. Woof.

with face problem but normal attitude, I cannot win. most women in CMB are also very financially capable. ktards 20k barely affect love fortune. location and job are important too. girls only like city guy in white collar.

This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Sep 5 2024, 07:36 AM

never encounter this

I know right? Some of them even have instagram accounts just to make it a bit “legit”, being fake accounts they only like have less than 20 post, hundreds of followers and they only like follow 30 people.

https://www.instagram.com/jjennyhere?igsh=dzJleTdycWZ2eGdo

This instagram belongs to one of the scammer, i didn’t even realise this account still active though even after so long. Btw the girl you’re looking definitely from stolen pictures, previously this account using another girl’s pictures. Same fake account, but picture keep changing.

Only losers pay to get dates.

Wait till u use TanTan , 99.9% scammers use fake PRC influencer pics , some recycle fake pics create few name

Most probably, like i said the conversation just died off. Again i never talk crazy with them, also not texting them like everyday which clingy if you ask me. A gap like 2-3 days, asking how they doing and sometimes sharing what we encountered during work or life etc. Probably those just too boring to them, i did ask some question about them. Family, jobs, life, hobby, travelling, movies etc.

An average looking girl can have at least 20-30 likes every freaking day. She wont able to focus unless the guy is outstanding in conversation or somehow special to her. N i beliv many are not looking for relationship thru the app. Perhaps use it for attention, test market or killing some time. not taking it seriously

And they also fishing for instagram follower lol

not everyone is a winner.
that's why match making service exist.

i don't see anything wrong with boring. that is how life is. stable. u don't want drama everyday.

i wish i had this when younger. of the time i tried and uninstalled, i had 3 matches in a day.

mafioso sifu in CMB. he corn cake many amois via CMB. can PM or ask him questions about CMB.

If it works for you then it works. Paying doesn't auto makes it works.

If it doesn't work, it's because of your tactic.
- edit your pic nice nice but still you
- simply chat and initiate meetup within 1-3 days. Otherwise conversation will die out.
- meetup, sendiri pandai pandai la.

Some looking for "action" kind of dudes, TBH even though i'm selling houses/condos but i still don't know how to sweet talking or comes up with any cheesy pickup lines to impress the ladies.

I have met some girls that offer to change platform at chat at WhatsApp. Normally don't end well. Especially when I ask for their social media accounts and they all said they don't use it. Pretty weird to me people in this age don't even have 1 social media account.

Maybe they scared you fap to their pics

she should consider herself lucky when she is sexually attractive.
some women are just totally not sexually attractive attractive.

Besides CMB, Bumble also not bad.... inside not much scammers coz need to fill out many questions..... the worst dating app is tantan n tinder....

had a few friends that actually got married meeting through cmb. but only through cmb. the rest never hear got any suckcess

i can tell you at probably around 2/10 girls dont use soc med. but they will lurk at other places one. pretty one will become the influencer that you know. average one maybe still got posting. some hidden pretty one will offline cause i know some.

This post has been edited by Silfer: Jan 20 2025, 08:55 AM

Cuz it is all scam

cmb has lesser scammers compared to bumble and tinder. but still got a lot. scammers are getting smarter day by day, they can be an ordinary malaysian girl with a proper office job but part time job is a scammer. insta and facebook looks a bit legit but with experience, you'll be able to know that it's a fake account. they can even talk normally with you for few weeks and up to 1 month, then only they will slowly ask you to join their side hustle etc.

i've been getting few dates of different girls every month when single. record was about 3 different girls every week. but need to spend a lot of money, cause for every date, i've got to pay for the bill for sure. no free "food" in this world. and it's very tiring, every session is like a freaking interview session. but of course i have my standard answers and routine charm movements/words to win the girl's heart.

great times when i was young and reckless. hahaha now i prefer meeting girls irl.

This post has been edited by callmecool: Jan 20 2025, 08:56 AM

lol you have no game.. used to be in this app 6 years ago.. dated quite a few.

6 years ago and today, very different. Dating apps are ticking bombs before it becomes useless and just straight up ground for bots, scammers and catfish. Just look at skout and tinder. Nobody uses these seriously anymore. The same will happen to bumble, cmb, okc, tantan, etcetc. I think tantan and okc is already scamzone.

probably because you look rich?

My experience is so far so good. Mostly met decent ones. 2 or 3 scammers also experienced before.

But in the end, I settle down with someone not from online social media

PM me if you seriously need tips to filter out the bad ones.

What is this obsession with relationships?

maybe. hahaha not sure...

Met one that's up for free drinks and dinner with her group from cmb. And her profile is still up there after a few years.

met one Tan Tan girl for drinking session. It felt like genuine date at first, but a few dates later, realize she just want to sell her MLM products to me only.
True story.

This post has been edited by Jimsee: Jan 20 2025, 03:38 PM

i think CMB is the one with higher quality in terms of education and profession

wechat , tantan, all for b40

tinder for m40

CMB can have m40 and t20

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: Jan 20 2025, 03:40 PM

Why pay? Leave it to fate. Every pot/kettle got cover, just need to hunt for a partner. Best places, office (diff dept), libraries, coffee spots, even shopping arcades. For a guy, read more and learn about humour, the opening move is to get her attention. If you’re funny and dun look like a stalker, a girl will give you one chance to proceed. Lots of confidence comes from well prepared base, research. You go dating apps and meet, no balls to open mouth and take 5 mins per word, best go cheong, no need tok kok, 20 mins over, go home.

education and profession not important to me. as long as it is honest & not illegal work, it is ok. most important is the heart and desire.
I myself only spm & blue collar job only.

Tinder looks like 99% fake profiles and non type c. I look for type c.

This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Jan 20 2025, 03:56 PM

I use hinge or raya whether overseas or in KL cause I prefer type non malaysian

havent met any scammers. im picky with who I match and meet anyways

Do u sleep with your meet ups?

Don't forget Bumble also has more T20. But it seems to be cater for English educated people so can see less amoi there, at least not many lalamoi

Tell us your experience

From my experience got saleswoman ask go out makan

But I never proceed, because I lazy, plus dun like mix work with piap

I alrdy buy product , then she come talk talk to me, after that she still ask me go makan.

Got chance or just going to ask me buy more?

We never know. But we miss the chances we don't take

This post has been edited by Knnbuccb: Jan 20 2025, 04:31 PM

if we hit it off then yes.

Ive posted before about the matches I get on these apps as proof

Test water see where it ends, no harm. I wud still think its fate if chances are given.

have met over 300 females over the past 6 years using online dating, maybe more lost counts

got yau char kwai meets doughnut or not?

Just sharing my experience as a girl who uses both CMB & Bumble. I do agree that CMB has more quality guys compared to other apps but 70% of male users there are scammers now 😅 After weeding out the scammers, you proceed to weed out the narcissistic guys, farkboys, attention seekers n socially inept guys. What are u finally left with? Not much 😅 FYI, my requirements aren't that high. I just don't wanna match with any of those guys that I've mentioned.

As for Bumble, it's filled with foreign guys who are looking for ONS.

you're like Barney from HIMYM. sifu here.

Anyone used Luxy?

Hi. Asl?

real /k casanova

both cases seems like dudes rugi

What is your requirement and how is the experience with guys you met from cmb so far?

I met like 17 females in a single month when the covid restriction lifted last time, i did track my records there are still times where i dont do my best, thats how life should be

but if i were a dating coach and have a good profile i believe i can meet different girls for every day

A girl conscious mind might say she dont want farkboys, but often times the subconscious mind or her body will make that decision for her. Thats why sales and marketing works because it hijacks people focus and make it easy to get to the conclusion

Met 2 guys so far. 1 became my bf who turned out to be a sociopath. The other one was a narcissist who couldn't stop talking abt himself so naturally I just stopped talking to him.

all ugly , beautiful and average girls only swipe right on top 15%

then surprise pikachu those people become narcissistic

last time my friend say he kena swip so many times that he could afford to filter out the girls, he arrange meetup based on the girl hotness, if super hot he can slot them in within 1 week, if average then 2 weeks, if ugly but seem like wild and willing to CIM can see in 3 weeks

I mean your friend is not wrong. After a 6-7 matches I have to pause my dating apps when I am in KL cause of the number of likes. At least it allows me to have proper conversations with those ive matched instead of looking for the next one.

If you want slow paced dating experience, CMB is the best dating platform for you.

my friend dun wanna have conversation
he just wanna bang.
so he always just ask them hang out at his place. sometimes he dun need to ask, the girls will ask whether they can go to his place.

High paid "job" in e-commerce company. Financial controller in an MNC.

Alas, both are just "da gong zai". With those big titles, those will be the first to be retrenched. Nothing too big of hooha about it.