my average match meetup is once a year. FML.

You're not alone, though i stop using dating apps like for quite long time now due to match with pig butcher scammer, land whale, and only like 1 or 2 decent women. Then the conversation just die off, i don't know why and i never disrespect or saying those negative things to them.

Think about it this way

Who are the people using online dating apps?

If the girl is a good catch, she'll get so many requests and the chance to meet a few creeps is pretty much 100%. So it won't be long before she jumps off the platform.

Better for her to get people from real life that can be filtered by friends and environment.

So chance you're going to meet someone nice is damn low.

Better for you to also try to meet people in real life, since all the losers already on the online dating apps. In person approach will automatically put you in a much higher tier than your competition.

Do u sleep with your meet ups?

all ugly , beautiful and average girls only swipe right on top 15%

then surprise pikachu those people become narcissistic

last time my friend say he kena swip so many times that he could afford to filter out the girls, he arrange meetup based on the girl hotness, if super hot he can slot them in within  1 week, if average then 2 weeks, if ugly but seem like wild and willing to CIM can see in 3 weeks