Speaking from experience, CMB has the least amount of scammer, and have proper filter to focus on your target group (e.g. casual, short or long term relationship).

Most male who use dating app are those who find it hard to initiate & maintain conversation with female irl, or does not many single and available female in their social circle. So kasi chan lah.

I would disagree based on my experience. If I am active there are times I could have 4-5 meets a week (sometimes 2 on the same day)

ive met plenty of very nice and normal girls from apps

Lots of spoilt wimmin & pig chops altering pictures easily what to do man. You have to fulfill their "ticks" and nothing off Mr. Perfect then chance also low to follow up.
Downside same, during date happy happy smile but inside the box of otak, already noted something off about you. Oh he is talking too much, talking too little and no connection/feel. This is just a dinner date and bye block ghosted. He is not that handsome no xxxxxx tonight.
Both genders can play the game of multiple dating at one go and not telling you about it.
Laid berapa or no action just dates.
Face pecah personality something off = sorry mang you have to find another wimmin that can "take it" or else you are gonna be single "dog" forever no meals for you. Woof.

what happened even with the decent one also cant last? hmm.. is it bcos cannot reach to each one expectation?

An average looking girl can have at least 20-30 likes every freaking day. She wont able to focus unless the guy is outstanding in conversation or somehow special to her. N i beliv many are not looking for relationship thru the app. Perhaps use it for attention, test market or killing some time. not taking it seriously

i don't see anything wrong with boring. that is how life is. stable. u don't want drama everyday.