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raulxiver
post Sep 5 2024, 09:52 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Sep 4 2024, 03:07 PM)
my average match meetup is once a year. FML.

You're not alone, though i stop using dating apps like for quite long time now due to match with pig butcher scammer, land whale, and only like 1 or 2 decent women. Then the conversation just die off, i don't know why and i never disrespect or saying those negative things to them.
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An average looking girl can have at least 20-30 likes every freaking day. She wont able to focus unless the guy is outstanding in conversation or somehow special to her. N i beliv many are not looking for relationship thru the app. Perhaps use it for attention, test market or killing some time. not taking it seriously
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post Sep 5 2024, 10:11 AM

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QUOTE(raulxiver @ Sep 5 2024, 09:52 AM)
An average looking girl can have at least 20-30 likes every freaking day. She wont able to focus unless the guy is outstanding in conversation or somehow special to her. N i beliv many are not looking for relationship thru the app. Perhaps use it for attention, test market or killing some time. not taking it seriously
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And they also fishing for instagram follower lol
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post Sep 5 2024, 10:13 AM

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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Sep 5 2024, 09:12 AM)
Only losers pay to get dates.
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not everyone is a winner.
that's why match making service exist.
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post Sep 5 2024, 10:14 AM

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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Sep 5 2024, 09:41 AM)
Most probably, like i said the conversation just died off. Again i never talk crazy with them, also not texting them like everyday which clingy if you ask me. A gap like 2-3 days, asking how they doing and sometimes sharing what we encountered during work or life etc. Probably those just too boring to them, i did ask some question about them. Family, jobs, life, hobby, travelling, movies etc.
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i don't see anything wrong with boring. that is how life is. stable. u don't want drama everyday.
nonexno
post Sep 5 2024, 10:17 AM

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i wish i had this when younger. of the time i tried and uninstalled, i had 3 matches in a day.
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post Sep 5 2024, 10:27 AM

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mafioso sifu in CMB. he corn cake many amois via CMB. can PM or ask him questions about CMB.
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post Sep 5 2024, 10:43 AM

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If it works for you then it works. Paying doesn't auto makes it works.

If it doesn't work, it's because of your tactic.
- edit your pic nice nice but still you
- simply chat and initiate meetup within 1-3 days. Otherwise conversation will die out.
- meetup, sendiri pandai pandai la.
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post Sep 5 2024, 10:47 AM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Sep 5 2024, 10:14 AM)
i don't see anything wrong with boring. that is how life is. stable. u don't want drama everyday.
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Some looking for "action" kind of dudes, TBH even though i'm selling houses/condos but i still don't know how to sweet talking or comes up with any cheesy pickup lines to impress the ladies.
juniorlcq
post Jan 20 2025, 12:41 AM

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I have met some girls that offer to change platform at chat at WhatsApp. Normally don't end well. Especially when I ask for their social media accounts and they all said they don't use it. Pretty weird to me people in this age don't even have 1 social media account.
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post Jan 20 2025, 12:55 AM

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QUOTE(juniorlcq @ Jan 20 2025, 12:41 AM)
I have met some girls that offer to change platform at chat at WhatsApp. Normally don't end well. Especially when I ask for their social media accounts and they all said they don't use it. Pretty weird to me people in this age don't even have 1 social media account.
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Maybe they scared you fap to their pics
TSSkylinestar
post Jan 20 2025, 07:31 AM

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QUOTE(Mr Mercedes @ Jan 20 2025, 12:55 AM)
Maybe they scared you fap to their pics
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she should consider herself lucky when she is sexually attractive.
some women are just totally not sexually attractive attractive.
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post Jan 20 2025, 08:32 AM

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Besides CMB, Bumble also not bad.... inside not much scammers coz need to fill out many questions..... the worst dating app is tantan n tinder....
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post Jan 20 2025, 08:51 AM

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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Sep 4 2024, 02:52 PM)
i know people who met their life partner through cmb, fb and wecheat
all doing ok
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QUOTE(bashlyner @ Sep 4 2024, 03:01 PM)
Speaking from experience, CMB has the least amount of scammer, and have proper filter to focus on your target group (e.g. casual, short or long term relationship).

Most male who use dating app are those who find it hard to initiate & maintain conversation with female irl, or does not many single and available female in their social circle. So kasi chan lah.
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had a few friends that actually got married meeting through cmb. but only through cmb. the rest never hear got any suckcess

QUOTE(juniorlcq @ Jan 20 2025, 12:41 AM)
I have met some girls that offer to change platform at chat at WhatsApp. Normally don't end well. Especially when I ask for their social media accounts and they all said they don't use it. Pretty weird to me people in this age don't even have 1 social media account.
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i can tell you at probably around 2/10 girls dont use soc med. but they will lurk at other places one. pretty one will become the influencer that you know. average one maybe still got posting. some hidden pretty one will offline cause i know some.

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post Jan 20 2025, 08:55 AM

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QUOTE(juniorlcq @ Jan 20 2025, 12:41 AM)
I have met some girls that offer to change platform at chat at WhatsApp. Normally don't end well. Especially when I ask for their social media accounts and they all said they don't use it. Pretty weird to me people in this age don't even have 1 social media account.
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Cuz it is all scam
callmecool
post Jan 20 2025, 08:55 AM

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cmb has lesser scammers compared to bumble and tinder. but still got a lot. scammers are getting smarter day by day, they can be an ordinary malaysian girl with a proper office job but part time job is a scammer. insta and facebook looks a bit legit but with experience, you'll be able to know that it's a fake account. they can even talk normally with you for few weeks and up to 1 month, then only they will slowly ask you to join their side hustle etc.

i've been getting few dates of different girls every month when single. record was about 3 different girls every week. but need to spend a lot of money, cause for every date, i've got to pay for the bill for sure. no free "food" in this world. and it's very tiring, every session is like a freaking interview session. but of course i have my standard answers and routine charm movements/words to win the girl's heart.

great times when i was young and reckless. hahaha now i prefer meeting girls irl.

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post Jan 20 2025, 09:08 AM

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my average match meetup is once a year. FML.
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lol you have no game.. used to be in this app 6 years ago.. dated quite a few. biggrin.gif
whyamiblack
post Jan 20 2025, 10:26 AM

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QUOTE(Bendan520 @ Jan 20 2025, 09:08 AM)
lol you have no game.. used to be in this app 6 years ago.. dated quite a few.  biggrin.gif
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6 years ago and today, very different. Dating apps are ticking bombs before it becomes useless and just straight up ground for bots, scammers and catfish. Just look at skout and tinder. Nobody uses these seriously anymore. The same will happen to bumble, cmb, okc, tantan, etcetc. I think tantan and okc is already scamzone.
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post Jan 20 2025, 11:14 AM

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QUOTE(callmecool @ Jan 20 2025, 08:55 AM)
cmb has lesser scammers compared to bumble and tinder. but still got a lot. scammers are getting smarter day by day, they can be an ordinary malaysian girl with a proper office job but part time job is a scammer. insta and facebook looks a bit legit but with experience, you'll be able to know that it's a fake account. they can even talk normally with you for few weeks and up to 1 month, then only they will slowly ask you to join their side hustle etc.

i've been getting few dates of different girls every month when single. record was about 3 different girls every week. but need to spend a lot of money, cause for every date, i've got to pay for the bill for sure. no free "food" in this world. and it's very tiring, every session is like a freaking interview session. but of course i have my standard answers and routine charm movements/words to win the girl's heart.

great times when i was young and reckless. hahaha now i prefer meeting girls irl.
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probably because you look rich?
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post Jan 20 2025, 12:57 PM

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My experience is so far so good. Mostly met decent ones. 2 or 3 scammers also experienced before.

But in the end, I settle down with someone not from online social media laugh.gif

PM me if you seriously need tips to filter out the bad ones.
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post Jan 20 2025, 01:00 PM

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What is this obsession with relationships? laugh.gif

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