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submergedx
post Aug 30 2024, 11:44 AM

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QUOTE(pobox @ Aug 30 2024, 11:13 AM)
Actually, don't join lah.
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Dont join, but kena boycott.

My previous company I dont join drinking session also, kena boss sound dont give face although she is paying. Macauhai.
ZerOne01
post Aug 30 2024, 11:45 AM

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Kek same species like religion ppl
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post Aug 30 2024, 11:45 AM

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QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Aug 30 2024, 11:42 AM)
just say no la.

Apa susah?

But u guarantee will feel "left out" when u see ppl get promoted left n right. In office of course those who hang out together after work is closer and have a lot more inside jokes.

It will end up the same thing. Confidently tell ppl "No, i dont want to join" and also confidently accept the social drawback. From what i see, most of the ppl who complain like him is the one feeling offended when others are gaining advantage for doing something HE DIDNT WANT TO DO. He feel it's unfair, because the scale didnt tip according to his favor. The world revolves around him is not an understatement.
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yea, i really dont get ppl that complains a lot, damn sohai

just like cyberbullying, wtf? hahahah just get off the internet la, how is cyberbully even real

dont like the job, then quit the job la, that's life isn't it?

i hate onsite work, so i quit and find a remote work, only sohai complain and do nothing about it
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post Aug 30 2024, 11:45 AM

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His career won't progress far.

Just about he and himself.
lorrydriverrocks
post Aug 30 2024, 11:46 AM

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Cannot work in japan liao this person
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post Aug 30 2024, 11:50 AM

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QUOTE(lorrydriverrocks @ Aug 30 2024, 11:46 AM)
Cannot work in japan liao this person
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Japan work culture is toxic in itself anyway
MeToo
post Aug 30 2024, 11:51 AM

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QUOTE(NathanJeans @ Aug 30 2024, 11:26 AM)
It's stupid, but in this case it's really simple. If workplace culture not ngam you quit and find job that suitable for you.

Nobody force you to work also
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Ya la... work as GRO but refuse to drink... apo wor
OldSchoolJoke
post Aug 30 2024, 11:52 AM

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no drink how client high high sign your contract

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post Aug 30 2024, 11:52 AM

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Luckily I am on the other side, my supplier always tries to bring me to ktv, karaoke those. I join them for 2-3 glass and I am off. I always say I have other matter on hand to handle. Never back down and don't be always available for anyone.
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post Aug 30 2024, 11:55 AM

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Do these people realize they can order soft drink if they don't drink?

Actually never in my work life I was ever forced to drink in any situation.

Don't even know where all these people work at.

This post has been edited by Satan Fallen One: Aug 30 2024, 11:56 AM
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post Aug 30 2024, 11:59 AM

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That's why I'm proud with millennials generation.

You can say them whiny and strawberries, but they are considered first gen that learn to SAY NO, and put boundaries in many things.

They also tried to change many things that boomers generation thinks that considered normal.

Instead of meeting clients at pub etc, they request to meet at coffee place and tried their best to meet during working hours instead of wasting time meet after office hours

This post has been edited by xpole: Aug 30 2024, 12:00 PM
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post Aug 30 2024, 11:59 AM

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Educated my higher management I needed to wake up at 5AM to train for race need to go home at 9PM sharp. In the end, no one asked me to go 😉

My ex-colleague said he is a strict buddhist, no alcohol LOL
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post Aug 30 2024, 12:00 PM

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QUOTE(JohnL77 @ Aug 30 2024, 11:24 AM)
I've seen before people buy supplements that they believe helps their liver because they drink a lot. Sohai culture.
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But gg their kidneys
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post Aug 30 2024, 12:02 PM

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2024 still got drink alcohol, cheong k, tap kuat?? Is this the 90s or what?
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post Aug 30 2024, 12:02 PM

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the best way to handle this is :

-attend for the 1st and 2nd time
-order mocktail or fruit juice for health concern
-start rejecting for 3rd time onwards
-suggest a better way to build rapport with different stakeholders
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post Aug 30 2024, 12:02 PM

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QUOTE(JohnL77 @ Aug 30 2024, 12:24 PM)
I've seen before people buy supplements that they believe helps their liver because they drink a lot. Sohai culture.
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The only medicine is to stop drinking. But excuse la , most probably is them themselves love drinking.
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post Aug 30 2024, 12:03 PM

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just dont join la, whats so hard.

are you 18years old virgin or what?
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post Aug 30 2024, 12:21 PM

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QUOTE(genesic @ Aug 30 2024, 12:02 PM)
The only medicine is to stop drinking. But excuse la , most probably is them themselves love drinking.
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QUOTE(Starbucki @ Aug 30 2024, 12:00 PM)
But gg their kidneys
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QUOTE(Roadwarrior1337 @ Aug 30 2024, 11:41 AM)
Sales people swear by milk thistle

But it’s stupid la u drink now and suffer later with all kind of diesease. Sales is the most affected job

If don’t drink no PO.

Deswai u see all sales people face sure got some sign of extensive aging behind all that make up
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I saw this the other day.

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post Aug 30 2024, 12:30 PM

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post Aug 30 2024, 12:33 PM

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QUOTE(xpole @ Aug 30 2024, 12:59 PM)
That's why I'm proud with millennials generation.

You can say them whiny and strawberries, but they are considered first gen that learn to SAY NO, and put boundaries in many things.

They also tried to change many things that boomers generation thinks that considered normal.

Instead of meeting clients at pub etc, they request to meet at coffee place and tried their best to meet during working hours instead of wasting time meet after office hours
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I'm a millenial, I only drink with my close friends, subcon, sometimes, but picky who i want to hang out with. Usually those big material suppliers like to ajak lepak nightime drinking, dinner, but we always ended up in coffee shop with a glass of teh O ais at 2-3 p.m.

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