i know you must be malay if asking this question. chinese women never ever marry down, esp financially unless the fella got white skin (ive seen chinese women pay for their ang moh bf before).

but i personally know several malay couples where the woman is in upper managerial position and STILL have 3-5 kids with them. my team leader's husband is a driver at a hotel, still can have a wife making 10k+ and give him 3 kids. even if she regrets/feel bad, religion and having so many kids will anchor her down to her husband no matter what.

Wife / GF earn more is not a problem.

The main problem is character of the person (MORAL)!

My real life experience. My wife. Poor family background from small town. Father is businessman, now bankrupt. Brother is scammer (money game, direct sales, coin, forex, investment, car sales....) Leader in school. STPM top student. Degree, Master n DBA (No 1 result in class but didnt complate.) UM student. Did you know how hard for Chinese in Malaysia to study in UM please!? Its superb hard! Now, she in pro industry. Dept head. Income near half million.

First, she fall in love with her uncle which are older 12 years. Beside that, this uncle is married with kid! She can stay in uncle house, even having xxx with uncle in uncle aunt bedroom. This uncle is a Dato. Pro industry also. MD in listed company. She still keep in touch with uncle.

After she meet me, I ask her stop all this non sense. Serious, I know its never stop.

Second, flirt around with another guy in office (Her Superior). Go travel together with him, let me know company trip.

Third, Flirt around with another guy who are same industry. Go travel together with him, let me know group of friend.

Forth, Flirt with supplier (IT).

Fifth, Flirt with another guy in office.

Sixth, Flirt with DBA classmate, XXX, Video, Photo. Married man with kid. Strongly believe her video n photo is online.

This is what I know!!!!

Me simple person. Poor family. Without education like her. Investment industry. Income up n down. I spend A to Z on her even I pay for her university fee.

Serious, life is about choice, no wrong no right, Just try to think who want suffer with you please!?

Divorce n stay together

Do my best for children......

It's really affect my children.....

Maybe u want to ask me why my relationship turn into bad shape! I will say because I'm idiot as I always believe "TRUST" is very important in relationship, that's why I choose to trust n never question. On other hand, I always think both party plan to go on, U need to accept all n forget pass. Beside that, my income is not stable turn this into worst. I'm in financial bad shape pass few years.

Last, my life experience let me know its not!!!! My advice to u all. 101% AVOID CHARACTER PROBLEM PERSON!!!!! Please stop to believe a person can change!!!! 101% very hard!!!! Smoker forever smoker. Gambler forever Gambler. Whore forever Whore. Bitch forever Bitch. Character problem is "CANCER"!