QUOTE(Police4896 @ May 31 2024, 02:05 PM)
Hello, very frequently I see women in public that I fancy. However every time I too scared to approach, no idea why (everytime after I leave I keep regretting not approaching).
I think it's because I have not tried something like that before. I have only tried chatting up the girl that served my ice cream, but felt a bit awkward.
So how should you approach strangers? Let's say it's in dining area, like a food court or restaurant. I thought about starting with a compliment but I don't know what to say after that.
And for those even more knowledgeable, will something like this work in Singapore? (Because in 2 months I will be studying in NTU).
I don't think I am very handsome though, however not totally sure since nobody told me. But I am fairly tall 180cm.
TS, from I have read, it seems that you are still studying. You should focus on your studying instead of pursuing girls.I think it's because I have not tried something like that before. I have only tried chatting up the girl that served my ice cream, but felt a bit awkward.
So how should you approach strangers? Let's say it's in dining area, like a food court or restaurant. I thought about starting with a compliment but I don't know what to say after that.
And for those even more knowledgeable, will something like this work in Singapore? (Because in 2 months I will be studying in NTU).
I don't think I am very handsome though, however not totally sure since nobody told me. But I am fairly tall 180cm.
Having said that, it's not wrong to want to know more people and expand your circle of friends. If you want to get to know some random stranger on the street without looking creepy and desperate, one of the best way is to approach them and tell them that, you are doing street photography and you think their dress/shirt look nice and you want to take a picture of them so that you can post on insta/fb.
You know what is the best part about this technique? You can also ask for their whatsapp in order to send them their photo you've just taken. It's one of the best way to ask for people's contact without looking desperate. There has been many people doing that and posed their successes on youtube you can just search on youtube for street photography/shooting random people. It would be even more cool if you can get a portable printer and print out their photo and give it to them on the spot, that way, every time they sees the photo, they will remember you.
Of course, for this technique to work, you need to have a dedicated camera and a lens for portrait as well as a portable printer. You will need to learn some photography basic and how to use a camera. Another bonus for this technique is that, by picking up an hobby, it will improve you self coinfidence, which is an attribute many girls like. In case you wonder, YES, I tried it myself and it worked. It may not be 100%, but You will be very surprised how many girls are willing to be shot by you if you have a dedicated camera.
This post has been edited by Loseeker: Jun 1 2024, 06:02 PM
Jun 1 2024, 05:41 PM

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