Did u actually went out with her? How many times?

Sometimes persistence does work in getting a girl.

The key is to have the correct mindset. Continue to pursue but at the same time dont get emotionally invested much into her.

In this way, you can pursue several girls at same time, date some of them when there is an opening.

Giving ultimatums to a girl who hasnt invested in you (havent even met in this case), is a desperate unattractive behavior.

Its the same with "confessions of love".

TS can move on anytime, no need drama. But maybe he need to relook at his approach if he is not getting much success in attracting the opposite sex.

Whenever a guy is hitting on a girl, the default starting position is He will be more attracted to her than she is of him. Natural. The more attractive or marketable she is relative to him, the bigger the gap.

The art or game is to change that default starting position and make the girl similarly attracted to the guy.

Attraction is build on demonstrating high value. Some men make the mistake (commonly see in this forum) that when a girl responds positively, the guy becomes needy, pushy, desperate. Low value actions that kill any attraction.

Yea its balancing.

Also doing more the right things and less the wrong things.

But there is also a thrill that maybe u would hv forgotten.

The thrill of the hunt.

Hopefully the lesson is not to be forever alone.