I think all mans love if wife can give a blowjob. Always makes a joke about blowjob, but wife still ignores.
But I'm not going to pressure her and i felt a bit of selfish if thinking that way, so the only way is to masturbate.
So it become a habit, and my wife dont know about it. I think it's safer and better than seeking another girl and cheating on her.

How about married guys out there.

This post has been edited by Freakin: Feb 15 2024, 03:09 PM

Hi,

How much sexually active you and your wife now per week. or per month

before u ask for that.. are you willing to go down on her?

per week how many times you have sex with her ?

DO you go down for her? if your answer is no then thats the reason why.

Its kinda simple actually .

Have kids dy ?

if got its perfectly normal.

take a 1-4 years break.

if still doesnt work out, its ok.

It takes some times to work around the morality of eating out. Just dont get caught.

If u still no kids, count your lucky starts because you can work things out with her or end it. If sexual compatibility has become an issue, end things. It will be a cold hard road ahead if this is not settle.

BJ nice meh?

No BJ but got piap piap or not?

not more than 3 times a month

no kids yet, I love her. That why i told myself not to be selfish and just masturbate

Nice. She once bj me every time I told felt sleepy while driving too long. now no more, she slept instead and left me to drive alone.
I don't know, maybe from the woman's side they don't like it. Thats why i told myself dont be selfish.

are you kidding me?
Of course women know it and they will use sex to get you do more work to satisfy her

even if she knew, why she won't try to satisfy me. treat me like old times

Wimmens reject/dowan sex for many reasons but usually is due to the other half.
It could be as simple as u forgot to do something u promised to her.

Even if u apologised but she may not fully forgive. Small stuffs accumulates becomes big issue.

Best is u discuss with her and see how to find solution.

well said

ABC sex for married men with kids

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One of the best things in life ❤️

Oh still dapat 3 times. Not too bad lah.

But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

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I do agree on this part.

Attraction on her POV might be different from what you thinking. Maybe help her with house chore. Give more attention to her. Might be you did had slightly change attitude without you notice that she didn't like.

Have a talk with her. Discuss.

Some women don't like to do blowjobs.

normal sex?

[quote=Cubalagi,Feb 16 2024, 08:40 AM]
One of the best things in life ❤️
Oh still dapat 3 times. Not too bad lah.

But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

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[quote=mastedo,Feb 16 2024, 08:49 AM]
But be careful that It might go down to 2 then 1 then 0.

Woman attitude towards sex different than man. Woman need attraction to want sex. In this case, her attraction to u has probably waned. So u need to build that attraction back.

[/quote]

I do agree on this part.

Attraction on her POV might be different from what you thinking. Maybe help her with house chore. Give more attention to her. Might be you did had slightly change attitude without you notice that she didn't like.

Have a talk with her. Discuss.

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Mine is the other way round as we grew older, it’s increasing

Nice.

Whats u and partners age? How long married? N whether have kids?