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post Jun 7 2024, 11:10 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 7 2024, 10:54 PM)
Ultimately, he is seeing how meaningless his pursuit of happiness and lust is. So you'll notice he has become more "philosophical/spiritual" lately. It is his soul's cry for help and search for meaning.
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human beings thought they understand themselves so much, until they realized the nature is even bigger than themselves. You realize how foolish yourself will be, from the sky the clouds just look at how limited perception human beings can be

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post Jun 7 2024, 11:13 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 7 2024, 10:54 PM)
I already predicted his current behaviour, though it will probably take some time before he comes to terms with the cognitive dissonance.
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You can only predict, but you may never resonate or find out the truth even death bed arises. Shall i call you jesus christ? lmao

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post Jun 7 2024, 11:33 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 7 2024, 10:54 PM)
Its worse than that, the casual nature of the relationships just means he is devaluing himself subconsciously.
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what kind of devaluation you talking about
If you mean a good looking plain wife will never make mistake
but a hot woman with tatoos must be a slut

you're making a binary thinking
you're trapped in your own mind and endless analysis

have you even been a player by yourself?
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post Jun 7 2024, 11:36 PM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 7 2024, 11:32 PM)
The path you're on, is just as clear to me as someone eating rotten food. Deep down, you know it too. One day, you will come to see it too.
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does that mean being a beggar is lesser than being a billionaire?
a beggar is servicing himself, he has the willingness to let go of ego
meanwhile, a billionaire has to maintain his ego to look presentable in front of public

whether its let go or maintain
it has no inherent meaning
Its just subjective differentiation
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post Jun 8 2024, 07:44 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 8 2024, 02:13 AM)
I say A, you think I'm talking B. You still don't see how limited your perspective is.

Let me try to put it in a way you might understand
. Your value isn't that high, and you know it.
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thats something to reflect on, when someone tries to convince their point of view onto someone.

There's no high or low, beauty or ugly
Its a binary thinking that is created to make yourself more frustrated/result oriented, the more you try to defend. Because the mind is your "self"
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post Jun 8 2024, 07:50 AM

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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jun 8 2024, 02:13 AM)
Where nothing has meaning, then everything is permitted. Simultaneously, where nothing has meaning you have nothing to anchor yourself and you will be lost; since everything is permitted you'll find a way to justify, and remain forever lost.
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I don't see every girls will have sex with me
but i see how my subconscious working and stories thats embedded inside me whenever im aware of obstacles of rejections i encounter
I witness the limitations that my parents and society thats been brainwashing a person

that's the beauty part of it
Its similar like exploring an art or a hobby
and you're trying to take away the essence or the Tao (route) of being an explorer
Its like a parent telling a kid do not touch smoking and drinking because "it must be bad"

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post Jun 8 2024, 07:55 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Jun 8 2024, 02:30 AM)
Couldn’t have said it more eloquently even if I tried.  notworthy.gif  notworthy.gif  notworthy.gif
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when it comes to socializing, its not necessarily the most intelligent person will stand out
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post Jun 8 2024, 08:01 AM

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QUOTE(hksgmy @ Jun 8 2024, 07:57 AM)
Wow. Player and a poet, and a pseudo-quasi-philosopher…. That’s more win that anyone can handle. No wonder the ladies swoon and their knickers go flying bro….
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Life is a game, and you play your script or character to the max
and then someone like silverhawk tries to deny the process
how cruel a parent can become, when a parent insists to be dogma.
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post Jun 20 2024, 09:46 PM

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QUOTE(killdavid @ Jun 16 2024, 11:32 PM)
Marriages is not about happiness. I would argue marriage is not a source for happiness. The fact is life is full of suffering and hardship. You get married so that you don't have to go through that hardship alone.
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imagine two incomplete people come together and usually its the kids that are trained to be incomplete. That's like 98% of human populations mindset

most adults are not capable to raise their children properly because of their bullshit family and social conditioning that hasnt been unwired.

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