don't marry no problem.

Mstar sampah media next to Harakah

When pompuan naik atas lelaki, this is surely going to happen la.

And our society is geared up for the rise of women over men. It is happening right now.

CERAI ITU HALAL

The strong shall prevail … men or women …

Need giood leader, not gender biased

No problem for ktarts 20k

Haram!

It depends on the husband too.....

we shouldnt allow muslim women to work.
senang naik kepala dan lupa tanggungjawab seorang isteri.

Must be can't fulfill her on bed also

Topkek 8K edi consider like so big. Hahahaha. In fact just M40 level.

Suami Kurang Upaya (SKU)

Suami b40
Gaji rm2k

Follow taliban style....

Of course she already found other man in her league. Maybe her boss or colleague

this lady should be ashame of herself.
If u cannot tolerate guy with lower salary, don't bother to make him fall in love to u. u basically destroy the life of everyone.

Woman look down on men make lower than them is the reasons why divorce rate is high and birth rate so low

When man make more than woman, man never look down on woman because man has provider mentality. Women just don't have that. When woman become breadwinner she see her man has no value.

Why bother keep then? Just cerai. Suami can go find other girl same lvl as him

Nope. I think is good. This prevent suami from poligami.

We need more this type of lady.

how it prevent?

kahwin lagi satu yang bergaji 10k,

like that also news material? what's going on man

This type of news can get traffic from netizens.
They're all waiting to kecam that wife.

The woman is in power

MStar online ini news portal palastine ah?

kapan cerai?

When the breadwinner doesn't have that provider mentality.

next someone will come out jangan bagi isteri kerja gaji lebih tinggi dari you punya news.

You need to remember when they started working, probably gaji same level

This is very common. Before marriage need to discuss on how money should be shared in the family. Just like before you take a job also discuss salary and benefits first. Same concept.

Make sure she knows you're always ready to give what she wants when she says it.

Butbutbut ayam suker pompuan naik atas ayam masa dalam bilik


Owaiiiii

If men dunwan women to rise above their head, then do better than them. Simple as that. Sad to say that the wife earn more money than the husband. Not all wife will forever walk with u.

My colleague has a wife who earns much much much more than him. The wife is also bigger than him in terms of body size.
We all know who wear the pants at home because we have seen his wife yelling at him for not doing something. He seems to take it quite well though.

Apa salah ?

Risau ape, banyak lagi janda kat luar Tu senyum pada suami Tu.

Owaiii...

This post has been edited by new in IT: Dec 22 2023, 08:10 AM

I knew one girl before. She dont want to shared anything. For her that totally her money. And i need to pay for everything. Crazy girl

I slowly tarik diri after i dicussed with my family. They told me this kind of woman.. im better avoid. Find other girl.

errr why do i want to do that? its my job, for me to decide for me to think and plan what to do with it. my duty as a husband is my wife have enough to spend, my daughter is fed and education is covered.

there's a lot of disagreement because ppl want to pool their money together getting acknowledgement from each other before touching the money. So by not doing so you won't have such drama.

Hypergamy doesn’t care.

can stoop so low becoming another worldofbuzz

Ekceli waifu saya gaji x4 me i tak perasan pun

Not really.

Some women prefer a domestic husband that is easy to control and please her in bed, provided the husband willing to switch roles and helpful in house chores.

Problem comes when husband is lazy then the wife will start to complain.

Wife comes back from work see husband doing nothing orc play games or limteh with friends. Or course sound

True story

This post has been edited by Chrono-Trigger: Dec 22 2023, 08:25 AM

This problems very easy.

Solution also very easy.

But need to type so long why this happened.

Anneh dont have the time for it.

If anneh got time later anneb will edit this post.

The lady should know what you can and cannot afford though.


Burden of performance is always on men.


It depends on you as well. If you outearn your wife significantly, you wouldn't want her money. If the income level is relatively close, then both probably need to chip in.


Maybe u green hat liao and not perasan pun.

dah laki tak guna...apa mau bikin?

I dont want her money. At last i told her to resign dont work. Be housewife. 100% i tanggung as husband. After that we gaduh and bye2

Ngl though...cases like these made me think is why Islam exist in the first place . .

Smh wimmens regardless of race sure perangai liddat one, I got a distant relative aunt dunno what she does for living but damn luxury condo and bmw all can afford alone. Dunno how she ended up with a guy with celery less than her, heard from my uncle she frequently hurls insults and always condescending... finally divorced.

I think Islamic laws make wimmen more submissive for this sole reason, perhaps they knew or foresaw these events transpiring today. But since even orens are also getting more modernized, I guess it's inevitable. At least Muhammad tried.

jan PuAS
oh wai wrong tered

You sound retarded

Why woman need to be submissive?

Only retarded people want woman to be submissive

topkek content from twitter acc w palestine flag

Divorce & move on... simple

that's commendable. but there's 2 issues to work out though.
1. does she want to stay home all day?
2. does the level of lifestyle that you can provide for her satisfy her demands?

remember, if one side has to give in to satisfy the other side, it's not going to be a happy marriage.


only idiots don't want submissive women.

submissive does not mean she has no say in decision making process. women tend to be emotional and sometimes, especially for big decisions, you need to be rational and logical.

This post has been edited by spursfan: Dec 22 2023, 09:00 AM

they likely married at same salary. But lady dapat promotion and higher salary

Yeah i agree.
In fact shouldn't let them study. Or go university.
Heck. Should even take away their smartphone.
Hari2 main henpon sampai naik kepala x mau buat kerja rumah x mau jaga 9 anak.
If laki no money gaji only 3k also nevermind. Must stay at home cannot go out work no matter what.

Kalau biawak hidup takde kerja makan dadah mmg patut la bini marah bgtu

Berapa banyak dah bini mati kena bunuh sbb suami biawak hidup ni

Because gotta cater to the majority audience.
They like to gossip and jaga tepi kain friends and family.
But most of the time paling happy jaga tepi kain orang yg tidak dikenali.

but religion will always put women below than men, don't you think? Both also human, just different gender. Man can go outside cheong, but women can't. Imagine if you born as woman, you will always be look down by man as 2nd tier human being. So when woman outperform man, such as in this case...man cannot accept it because of ego.

This post has been edited by Jv8888: Dec 22 2023, 09:04 AM

Siap ada kes pakai duit yg bini bagi carik bini muda simpan awek college lagi.

Lysander
Ay me! For aught that I could ever read,
Could ever hear by tale or history,
The course of true love never did run smooth,
But either it was different in blood —
Hermia
O cross! Too high to be enthralled to low.
Lysander
Or else misgrafted in respect of years —
Hermia
O spite! Too old to be engaged to young.
Lysander
Or merit stood upon the choice of friends —
Hermia
O hell! To choose love by another's eyes.
Lysander
Or if there were a sympathy in choice,
War, death, or sickness did lay siege to it,
Making it momentary as a sound,
Swift as a shadow, short as any dream,
Brief as the lightning in the collied night
That in a spleen unfolds both heaven and earth,
And ere a man hath power to say "Behold!"
The jaws of darkness do devour it up.
So quick bright
things come to confusion.

~ A Midsummernight's Dream act 1 scene 1

the world keep pusing for female empowerment

and neglecting boys

gender ratio in uni can already tell

never heard of they trying to increase males students in uni

8k is low salary...
And i thought marriage stuff is personal thing

This post has been edited by taitianhin: Dec 22 2023, 09:08 AM

women must stay home no matter what.
they should not be allowed to go out without husband

kitchen that way >>

i second this

when our marriage at early phase, my wife earn more then me

sometimes can feel that she always look down on me

sometimes i missed out doing house chores, she lambasted me like hell

and now things turn around

my business doing good i got 100x more income then her

can see her being more submissive now

even i missed out doing the house chores

kek

this is the natural leh, men need to work and earn more definitely

Gon become like USA? Later number of men not married increase

wtf. Gaji baru rm8k pon dah lansi

how to even try if man themselves don't even wanna go....at all
further study doesn't even pass their mind

after that complain why are all the key position in those big companies are hold by more and more woman

This post has been edited by MR_alien: Dec 22 2023, 09:14 AM

One of the reason those men will enjoy PAS

Women can't go school/work or out without male family member

Easier for them to control

Try reverse gender role la, if a working husband see her wife doing her hobby and socialize with her friends will he get angry and calling her wife lazy?

u are not a good decision/policy maker



TVET, upskilling to address ‘lost men’ phenomenon: Nurul Izzah
Ex-MP highlights low enrolment of male students in universities compared with females
https://www.thevibes.com/articles/news/9729...-men-generation

05 Aug 2023

SEREMBAN – Former Permatang Pauh MP Nurul Izzah Anwar said the country now faces a generation of “lost men”.

Citing an example, she said the majority of universities were dominated by women with almost 80%.

This, she said would lead to more men being forced to take up jobs in the gig economy or to pursue careers in the technical and vocational education and training (TVET) industry.

“And when they finish their studies, who do you think enjoys higher wages? Surely, it will be the women.

“This will eventually lead to a crisis, which would have an impact on the marriage and others,” she said during the Wanita Question Time forum here, last night.

She said parents should play a vital role in ensuring their male children stay in school and also take advantage of the numerous support programmes provided by the government.

“The government not only provides support for TVET programmes but also has numerous upskilling programmes which can help working adults better themselves,” she said.

Nurul, who is also a PKR vice president, said it was important for men to seize these opportunities to enhance themselves and change for the better.

“This would not only be good for them but also have a positive impact on their families and the nation as a whole.

Meanwhile, Wanita PKR chief, Fadhlina Sidek, said even today, women still faced sexist remarks and double standards in politics.

“This is sad. Even in this day and time, I am constantly faced with sexist remarks, even from the public at large.

“How come things are different for male politicians? Why are they not asked ‘who is taking care of your kids while you are busy at work’?

“Why is it that women have to bear the brunt of all this?” she asked.

Fadhlina, who is also the education minister and Nibong Tebal MP said it is important for women politicians to have a supportive ecosystem to counter the constant undermining that women leaders face about their abilities.

“We must have allies, especially an ecosystem of women politicians who can be our comrades. Without this, it becomes very challenging for us to navigate through life as a woman in politics," she added. – The Vibes, August 5, 2023

This post has been edited by damonlbs: Dec 22 2023, 09:34 AM

i'm not because the only way out is to force them to
but then again, we also can't force them to do something they don't like/want isn't it
that's like the worst thing to do and it never yield any good result at the end....people can also say it's a time waster

when the ratio is like 80/20, that's not just 10-20 man that doesn't want to further studies...that's like a whole bunch of them altogether
offering free courses doesn't help either because i don't think it's financially related, they just simply don't want to
maybe MOE can do a case studies about it and try to find a different way around it by finding out the real cause

Highly doubt salary is the only issue

I call that toxic relationship

This is what happened when guys prefer to be rempits, but panda / grab rider bukan gaji 8k+ meh

Isn't 8k still b40? I thought anything less than 10k in malaysia is b40? So what so proud of earning 8k

Lol earn 8k already consider like can own anything really lousy mentality

Should let sg newspaper to report, it would be sooooooo detailed.

8k is mid m40 level

Cerai je lah ....

Then cerai je la? Napo ugut2 je sampai masok artikel bodo?

regardless religious, "more submissive" teaching probably is only thing that survive extinction to tell the tales, hence old wisdom.

Kalau suami jenis kuat mendadah, panas baran, kurang siuman, hobi suka mendera isteri baik humban jer.

Nothing to lose!

I think there something wrong with me... I m40 man... I don't even look at b40 women

Husband nust be 2 inci confidence issue.

Salary 3k easily can get better awek

I would find another wife

This one perpetually bola kecut.

Thats why sekufu is also important factor in marriage for muslim

lelaki sejati tanggung isteri dan anak anak dari A-Z. muktamad. masih ada ka Malaysia ni, tapi tak ramai.

Doesn’t matter, soon AI replace human, male and female no longer relevant.

Yes. I also kasi cerai wife penipu kaki hutang. Penipu kaki hutang miskin sampai nak makan pun tak dak duit. Last i knew she try apply more loan and she tuduh fitnah i asking her take loan. Im Straight kick this rubbish out from my life

Yes. Ada bro. But kinda hard to find

If in Middle East I don’t think wife even dare to nag or else…

Same religion but different gender dynamics.

Yes. Im rich.. im need to find rich woman same level with me. Just to be safe..

For reasons, some culture forbid woman to study or work else woman would be better and superior than most men.

8k also tinggi??? tinggal kat mana?? kelantan???

If wife constantly threaten to go court to dissolve marriage SOLELY because of her salary is higher than the husband, if I'm in that position, I don't think I would hesitate to let her proceed & let her take the responsibility.

No point forcing a person to stay on, definitely better for the husband anyway IMHO

Aku lah tu. 😂. Lepas pkp wife resign jaga anak2. Rezeki berkat, gaji aku naik sekali ganda dah lepas tu

gomen dpt 8k, tinggi posiisi dia