I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?
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If your wife mengandung down syndrome baby, U abort the baby?
If your wife mengandung down syndrome baby, U abort the baby?
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Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM, updated 3y ago
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I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?
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Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM
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Can detect.
If confirm, will abort. |
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Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM
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CAN CHECK GEH
BUT MAHAL LO |
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Down syndrome can detect. Confirm abort. No need two sides suffer. cassian948, yhtan, and 13 others liked this post
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM) I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also? autism and down syndrome differentWelcome saints and experienced parents to discuss autism difficult to test and cannot abort This post has been edited by Pain4UrsinZ: Dec 9 2023, 03:46 PM akif93 liked this post
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Dec 9 2023, 03:43 PM
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pity ts mom never abort ts abhipraaya, kdr93, and 4 others liked this post
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Dec 9 2023, 03:44 PM
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Do NICC test to detect Down syndrome
Expensive but the test worth it If detect . About n try again |
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Dec 9 2023, 03:47 PM
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correct me if im wrong, but if u go KK they will not ask u to check? for private, They will give u this option. whether u wan to test or not, is up to u. but must check early, before 2 months iirc
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R3z3k1.
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM) I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also? Title mentions down syndrome but post written autism instead.Welcome saints and experienced parents to discuss Down syndrome & autism are 2 different things. Supreme1394, yhtan, and 6 others liked this post
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conlanfirm abort la dey if wife no understand..ill abort her too This post has been edited by poco loco: Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM pandawan, cassian948, and 10 others liked this post
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Moral and lifetime suffer dont mix.
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mat 7 different things
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Dec 9 2023, 03:50 PM
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QUOTE(Natsukashii @ Dec 9 2023, 03:50 PM) the kid might thank you too when they r grown up later Natsukashii liked this post
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yes abort
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Dec 9 2023, 03:57 PM
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Autism can't detect during pregnancy Downy can be detected. Can be aborted if you know where. AyamBannedTwice liked this post
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Dec 9 2023, 04:01 PM
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medically, its testable and doctors will abort the baby if found
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Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism.
At least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature. Correct me if I am wrong. |
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Dec 9 2023, 04:07 PM
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Can really abort it ? Was it legal in Malaysia? I curious, I through is illegal.
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Yes.
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Honestly if you dont abort even if you get the chance early, you are sort of insane to cause an innocent life born
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Dec 9 2023, 04:09 PM
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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 04:05 PM) Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism. You're wrong. Depends on where they are on the spectrum.At least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature. Correct me if I am wrong. Some can't speak and communicate for life. Higher chances of mental illnesses like schizophrenia as well. joe_star liked this post
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Abort if detected. No need to think.
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but how much we talking about the cost to check this thinggy?if mahal like cb then i also understand y ppl no 1 to check geh
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Dec 9 2023, 04:13 PM
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QUOTE(teehk_tee @ Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM) How do you test for autism? Down syndrome can laQUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM) Autism or down syndrome? |
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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 04:05 PM) Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism. No, severe autism can be as bad or worse than downs from the mental perspective, just no physical deformity as wellAt least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature. Correct me if I am wrong. |
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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:16 PM) it is a logical wayThis post has been edited by poco loco: Dec 9 2023, 04:19 PM joe_star liked this post
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QUOTE(debonairs91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:13 PM) There is no test for autism. In fact it can't even be diagnosed properly until the child is 1-2 year old Rusty Nail liked this post
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Sure a lot of people will say "Deii ... kasi chan".
The reply is ... "My wife didn't give me a chance unless I am the guy she wants ... why should I give a chance to a kid that isn't what I want?" Interesting how that works ... a lot of people want other people to "kasi chan" ... when they wouldn't do the same QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM) |
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QUOTE(joe_star @ Dec 9 2023, 04:17 PM) There is no test for autism. In fact it can't even be diagnosed properly until the child is 1-2 year old u just found the killer on that autism murdered kid liao....now u know who is the hidden suspect (not to spill the beans 1st to the media)This post has been edited by poco loco: Dec 9 2023, 04:22 PM |
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Can also get schizophrenia if they like marijuana.
Schizophrenia is an equal opportunity condition QUOTE(thesoothsayer @ Dec 9 2023, 04:09 PM) |
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Down Syndrome != Autism
detect with NICC test.. if detected, doctor will advise abort.. yes legal to abort since baby got birth defect Autism can only detect around 2 years old |
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When you come to that stage, you will know what to do. If everybody say cannot but it doesn't affect them but you only.
Illegal or not - you come to that stage doctor will advise you. Private will ask u when you and ur wife go do check up. Traditional they measure the neck width from the Xray. U pay is to do actual test - which is much more accurate. |
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Abortion, like other crimes ... it's only illegal if you get caught.
I repeat what I said elsewhere ... Nobody in Malaysia with political weight will dare to clearly say "Abortion is illegal in Malaysia" ... but - We are an Islamic country - That polices how people dress - But doesn't allow virginity testing Quite confusing really, but that is the story of Malaysia. Avoiding the hard questions and commitment, but muddling through day by day, while basking in social restrictions, that don't apply to the attractive, connected and rich ... while talking about "meritocracy" and "social contract" QUOTE(seather @ Dec 9 2023, 04:21 PM) |
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QUOTE(stanck @ Dec 9 2023, 04:23 PM) When you come to that stage, you will know what to do. If everybody say cannot but it doesn't affect them but you only. Nope. I don't think Muslim will agreeIllegal or not - you come to that stage doctor will advise you. Private will ask u when you and ur wife go do check up. Traditional they measure the neck width from the Xray. U pay is to do actual test - which is much more accurate. It's relative to which religion and upbringing you are bought up QUOTE(AnimeSinceForever @ Dec 9 2023, 04:24 PM) Abortion, like other crimes ... it's only illegal if you get caught. Nobody likes answer that they doesn't want to hear... Addressing the elephant in the room is one thing, taking the elephant out is another.I repeat what I said elsewhere ... Nobody in Malaysia with political weight will dare to clearly say "Abortion is illegal in Malaysia" ... but - We are an Islamic country - That polices how people dress - But doesn't allow virginity testing Quite confusing really, but that is the story of Malaysia. Avoiding the hard questions and commitment, but muddling through day by day, while basking in social restrictions, that don't apply to the attractive, connected and rich ... while talking about "meritocracy" and "social contract" This post has been edited by thkent91: Dec 9 2023, 04:28 PM |
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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:29 PM) This is true. You can only abort if the child risk the health of the mom. Like I mentioned, u guys happy gives answer when you have not even come to this stage. If u use religion as argument, u will already have answer. If that's the case, don't ever ask the doctor to even test or give u answer. That's why private practice ask you u advance what is your view. Once u come to this stage u will figure out. |
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM) I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also? Apples and oranges.Welcome saints and experienced parents to discuss Downs is a genetic condition that can be detected thru genetic testing of the amniotic fluid, though it’s a risky procedure to get the fluid. Autism is a developmental and neurological condition that cannot be tested for in utero. |
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QUOTE(AnimeSinceForever @ Dec 9 2023, 04:24 PM) Abortion, like other crimes ... it's only illegal if you get caught. Abortion not illegal here, doctors are empowered to do so if they judge that health and life of the mother is at risk from carrying on with the pregnancy. Mothers who have a second pregnancy too soon after a C section birth do abort.I repeat what I said elsewhere ... Nobody in Malaysia with political weight will dare to clearly say "Abortion is illegal in Malaysia" ... but - We are an Islamic country - That polices how people dress - But doesn't allow virginity testing Quite confusing really, but that is the story of Malaysia. Avoiding the hard questions and commitment, but muddling through day by day, while basking in social restrictions, that don't apply to the attractive, connected and rich ... while talking about "meritocracy" and "social contract" |
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Dec 9 2023, 04:59 PM
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Down syndrome and autism lain la
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Dec 9 2023, 05:15 PM
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yes
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Can detect.
Will abort. My cousin did that in the late 90s, not in My though. This post has been edited by SammyMan: Dec 9 2023, 05:23 PM |
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abort, its act of mercy for both the kid and parents. both don't need to suffer for life.
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Some may find the following info useful:
About abortion in Malaysia https://www.moh.gov.my/moh/images/gallery/G...%20in%20MOH.pdf About detecting autism during pregnancy https://www.medicoexperts.com/signs-of-auti...ring-pregnancy/ make of it what you will. |
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Dec 9 2023, 06:03 PM
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100% abort
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pls spend a little extra to get tested during pregnancy
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Autism cannot be detected until 2 years of age
But dont mean once detect autism can kill |
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I am just asking on behalf of my innocence on this.
now alr 2023, why does the gov did not encourage all parents with potential disable baby go for abortion? Why go extra length and wait for parents initiative to take the bullet then only do it? I mean it will do good for everyone also right? |
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depend on u whether u can handle or not lor
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Autism can’t detect during pregnancy la
Downy yes, one the purpose doc monitor your baby length because it’s one the indicator. Start with the cheaper option which is detail scan. The doc will refer u to HKL if they found ur baby have all the downy criteria. |
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Dec 9 2023, 07:11 PM
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Autism =/= Down Syndrome
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Will abort as i do not want everyone to suffer and not dictated by relegion
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When is elon musk going to come out with genetic engineered baby ??
BTW elon also autistic. There goes a genius. Maybe more.... This post has been edited by Singh_Kalan: Dec 9 2023, 07:32 PM |
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The question is how accurate the test is?
Do you potentially kill a normal human to be? Is fetus consider human/life by your moral book? |
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Saikopek syndrome can't be detect
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Autism cannot be detected during pregnancy, autism can be managed if detected early in the kid’s life.
Down syndrome can be tested during pregnancy |
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AFAIK, both down syndrome and autism will bring parents and kids disaster for life. I might say nightmares hunting you for life. Your life as couples will be broken for life. Your life as parents will be broken for life. Your career and hobbies will be end road. You will have sleepness nights for the rest of your life. Both husband and wife couldn't travel abroad and leave your child alone at home even if your child reaches 18. Both mum and dad will need to take care of your kid for the rest of your life even during your retirement life as your kid is unable to take care of himself/herself Results in more and more arguments between child, parents, spouse, parents-in-law etc Results in hate more than love between parents and your child. The worst part is... your kid doesn't even know you are his dad/mum even if your kid matures. THINK ABOUT IT Basically is like taking care of a very ill patient on bed for the rest of your life without having any time for rests. You will eventually think that if can turn back time, I rather not having any child or even getting married in the first place. abhipraaya and yhtan liked this post
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If confirmed. Confirm abort. Don't make his life hard and yours as well.
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QUOTE(ridox_orimabu @ Dec 9 2023, 06:31 PM) I am just asking on behalf of my innocence on this. you say test then people must test ah? you take the god for what?now alr 2023, why does the gov did not encourage all parents with potential disable baby go for abortion? Why go extra length and wait for parents initiative to take the bullet then only do it? I mean it will do good for everyone also right? |
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QUOTE(Sone Shin @ Dec 9 2023, 07:41 PM) The question is how accurate the test is? nothing is 100% accurate anywayDo you potentially kill a normal human to be? Is fetus consider human/life by your moral book? a detection of down syndrome DNA/marker is just a number, a result for couple & doc to discuss and decide best course of action yeah, definition of a foetus varies, whether considered a human or still considered basic cell organism still in development. this portion need the couple to work out and decide. if to abort, doc can legally do the procedure (I guess it's called ERPOC) with test results, doc assessment, and consent from couple. Sone Shin liked this post
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Dec 9 2023, 08:09 PM
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Yes can detect to a degree if I remember correctly, I not a dr myself
Yes I will abort but I will let wife have final say because her body |
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Dec 9 2023, 08:10 PM
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Down syndrome can detect but autism cannot
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM) I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also? *touch wood*Welcome saints and experienced parents to discuss if < certain month to consider as "life" then yes thats why NICC test need to as early as possible This post has been edited by fantasy1989: Dec 9 2023, 08:14 PM |
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QUOTE(Sone Shin @ Dec 9 2023, 07:41 PM) The question is how accurate the test is? if u take the test earlier ..then u can go "seek for second opinion"Do you potentially kill a normal human to be? Is fetus consider human/life by your moral book? if few report from different source also claim that ultimately it's your choice to choose to believe or not from doc perspective ..if fetus > 16 weeks they will only consider as "life" and NICC can take as early as 12 weeks so u got 1 month to think n decide This post has been edited by fantasy1989: Dec 9 2023, 08:17 PM Sone Shin liked this post
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Dec 9 2023, 08:17 PM
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Dec 9 2023, 08:18 PM
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QUOTE(fantasy1989 @ Dec 9 2023, 08:16 PM) if u take the test earlier ..then u can go "seek for second opinion" its not opinion anymore if tasted positive down syndromeif few report from different source also claim that ultimately it's your choice to choose to believe or not from doc perspective ..if fetus > 16 weeks they will only consider as "life" and NICC can take as early as 12 weeks so u got 1 month to think n decide |
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QUOTE(teslaman @ Dec 9 2023, 08:18 PM) he/she is questioning on the accuracy of the test ma then he/she can go different place to take n confirm lor if not then he/she can just choose to ignore and move on to deliver the baby This post has been edited by fantasy1989: Dec 9 2023, 08:20 PM |
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Dec 11 2023, 08:51 AM
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Dec 11 2023, 08:56 AM
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During my time, there weren't any accurate test that could 100% determine that. From what my brother and cousin told me, right now nicc test can achieve 99%... I think the reason they put 99% is to avoid being sued
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Dec 11 2023, 08:58 AM
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Got karma one.
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Dec 11 2023, 09:00 AM
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QUOTE(submergedx @ Dec 11 2023, 08:51 AM) TS is retarded with down syndrome because he can't differentiate between down syndrome and autism. Akaashi liked this post
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Dec 11 2023, 09:04 AM
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Autism cannot detect, down syndrome can, cost about 1.2k when I did it few years back. 1.2k is nothing compared to the costs to be incurred down the road if really kena down syndrome baby, JinXXX liked this post
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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Dec 11 2023, 09:04 AM) Autism cannot detect, down syndrome can, cost about 1.2k when I did it few years back. 1.2k is nothing compared to the costs to be incurred down the road if really kena down syndrome baby, how they check ? how early can check within first trimester can confirm ? |
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Dec 11 2023, 09:22 AM
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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 07:44 PM) AFAIK, both down syndrome and autism will bring parents and kids disaster for life. I might say nightmares hunting you for life. it will ruin your life, i've seen on my mum's friend family, until age 60+ still has to take care of their downy children which age 30+, unable to travel like normal people, cannot enjoy retirement life, has to hire a filipino maid to take care of the children.Your life as couples will be broken for life. Your life as parents will be broken for life. Your career and hobbies will be end road. You will have sleepness nights for the rest of your life. Both husband and wife couldn't travel abroad and leave your child alone at home even if your child reaches 18. Both mum and dad will need to take care of your kid for the rest of your life even during your retirement life as your kid is unable to take care of himself/herself Results in more and more arguments between child, parents, spouse, parents-in-law etc Results in hate more than love between parents and your child. The worst part is... your kid doesn't even know you are his dad/mum even if your kid matures. THINK ABOUT IT Basically is like taking care of a very ill patient on bed for the rest of your life without having any time for rests. You will eventually think that if can turn back time, I rather not having any child or even getting married in the first place. |
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QUOTE(yhtan @ Dec 11 2023, 09:32 AM) it will ruin your life, i've seen on my mum's friend family, until age 60+ still has to take care of their downy children which age 30+, unable to travel like normal people, cannot enjoy retirement life, has to hire a filipino maid to take care of the children. U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied. Special kids have their pros and cons also. |
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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM) U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied. you are talking down yea... not no limbs / legs yea... Special kids have their pros and cons also. Lack of limbs/legs can claim alot of gov incentive... but down basically your life is tied... and must not died before the end of the baby |
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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM) U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied. My mum did asked this question, the answer is both of them agree to abort, husband and wife did suffer major setback in the beginning, a lot of argument and effort to take care of the children.Special kids have their pros and cons also. |
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now will say yes cause belum pregnant or whatever but when really pregnant time, will really think long and hard.
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1st. most of those who have their baby down syndrome mostly aged woman around 35 and above
2nd. so it doesnt matter for them its a precious baby, they probably have been trying for years too 3rd. its a baby human anyway. no matter how deficient, a mother will love now ask yourself if you've been taking care of a blind dog/cat. you bond for 9 months. sure taking care of it is difficult, they cannot see where to defecate or urinate, so are you going to kill that dog/cat because its blind? if you are then i got nothing else to say |
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Dec 11 2023, 12:07 PM
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already aborted when I have past the age of 35. any woman over 35 should know the risk and abort too.
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Dec 11 2023, 12:13 PM
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Dec 11 2023, 12:13 PM
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Dec 11 2023, 12:23 PM
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For /k buddhists:-
QUOTE Buddhists believe that life should not be destroyed, but they regard causing death as morally wrong only if the death is caused deliberately or by negligence. Traditional Buddhism rejects abortion because it involves the deliberate destroying of a life. Buddhists regard life as starting at conception Not sure any opinions on the above, but say karma retribution is real and to Buddists abortion is akin to killing your own offspring (a sin that is very hard to erase), means multiplying such bad karma. To Buddhism, abortion is not about kindness and will halt any future reincarnations of the soul, which put the aborted into intense hatred towards the 'aborter'. |
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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 12:23 PM) Can go YouTube and FB where the parents share their daily activities with their special kids. those are when they parent are still youngThere is always two side of the coin, [B] like MCA vs DAP like above shared what if parent are age 90-100 (bed ridden) 1. who gonna take care the special kids? 2. the special kid got enough money and skill to support themselves ONLY? got job i dun even talk about terbalik take care bed ridden parent. i doubt those down syndrome can even take care back the parent , drive around see doc and etc. talk is easy...video is easy. try real life baru tahu |
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possibility can do test by 10 weeks.. must do to prepare if u decide to go ahead so, next 7 months u can prepare..no right o wrong. alot of ppl abort baby everyday in MY.
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Dec 11 2023, 12:39 PM
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I am pro-abortion.. Too bad it's illegal in Malaysia
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Autism still acceptable lah, like how 50% of ktards are turbo autists but earn 20k celery
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Dec 11 2023, 01:12 PM
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Dec 11 2023, 01:14 PM
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Majority of the ppl jere never even read the first post by TS.
TS asking can detect autism before full term or not la. Malaysian really sibeh sohai i am speechless. Democracy isvery bad when majority of the population is dumb as fuck. |
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QUOTE(poweredbydiscuz @ Dec 11 2023, 01:12 PM) Of course it's illegal lah.. Same as drugsFrom Wikipedia Abortion in Malaysia is generally legal to save the life of the mother or in cases where their physical or mental health is at risk, for the first 120 days (approximately 4 months) of gestation, as regulated under Sections 312–316 of the Penal Code.[1] However, specific legislation varies by state. Access to abortion in Malaysia has been hampered by religious, cultural and social stigmas against abortion, poor awareness of abortion legislation among health professionals[2] and the high cost of abortion services in the private health sector.[3][4][5] As a result, risky unsafe abortions are prevalent in Malaysia. As a Muslim country, Malaysia also has a dual legal system with Muslims being subject to Sharia law. In 2002, the National Fatwa Council issued a fatwa permitting abortion up to 120 days of gestation in cases when the mother's life is in danger or fetal impairment. Abortion on the grounds of rape, and incest are still illegal. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_Malaysia |
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QUOTE(statikinetic @ Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM) this i agreed unless you are well off even after the parent not around there's enough money to take care of the children. if not, when the parents close eye the children will suffer on their own. so might as well make the cruel decision rather than both sides suffer later.This post has been edited by quintesson: Dec 11 2023, 02:02 PM |
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Yes, early on before merrid already made it clear between me and waifu.
If got any genetic defect can detect during pregnancy, abort without a doubt. Luckily both of ayam dotter turn out fine and very healthy so far. Legal or illegal there is a way to get it done in Malaysia. |
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abort je
ayam tatau ayam birgin folo majoriti |
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y TS no jaga badan ka sperm quality so low one
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Well, you can always go Singapore or Taiwan to abort it and nobody gonna know about it
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