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post Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM, updated 3y ago

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I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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post Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM

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Can detect.
If confirm, will abort.
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CAN CHECK GEH

BUT MAHAL LO
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post Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM

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Down syndrome can detect.
Confirm abort.

No need two sides suffer.
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM)
I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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autism and down syndrome different

autism difficult to test and cannot abort

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post Dec 9 2023, 03:43 PM

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pity ts mom never abort ts

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post Dec 9 2023, 03:44 PM

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Do NICC test to detect Down syndrome

Expensive but the test worth it

If detect . About n try again
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post Dec 9 2023, 03:47 PM

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correct me if im wrong, but if u go KK they will not ask u to check? for private, They will give u this option. whether u wan to test or not, is up to u. but must check early, before 2 months iirc
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM)
I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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Title mentions down syndrome but post written autism instead.

Down syndrome & autism are 2 different things.
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post Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM

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conlanfirm abort la dey

if wife no understand..ill abort her too

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post Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM

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Moral and lifetime suffer dont mix.
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post Dec 9 2023, 03:50 PM

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mat 7 different things
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post Dec 9 2023, 03:50 PM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM)
conlanfirm abort la dey

if wife no understand..ill abort her too
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Lol, abort wife. biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(Natsukashii @ Dec 9 2023, 03:50 PM)
Lol, abort wife.  biggrin.gif
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the kid might thank you too when they r grown up later
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yes abort
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QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM)
conlanfirm abort la dey

if wife no understand..ill abort her too
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post Dec 9 2023, 03:58 PM

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Autism can't detect during pregnancy

Downy can be detected. Can be aborted if you know where.
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:01 PM

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QUOTE(LegendLee @ Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM)
Can detect.
If confirm, will abort.
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Very hard to release
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM

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medically, its testable and doctors will abort the baby if found
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM

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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:40 PM)
I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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Can. First tri semester

And usually the doctor will advice you to abort the fetus


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QUOTE(likefunyouare @ Dec 9 2023, 04:01 PM)
Later got unborn baby spirit

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post Dec 9 2023, 04:05 PM

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Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism.

At least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature.

Correct me if I am wrong.
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:07 PM

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Can really abort it ? Was it legal in Malaysia? I curious, I through is illegal.
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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 04:05 PM)
Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism.

At least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature.

Correct me if I am wrong.
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Honestly if you dont abort even if you get the chance early, you are sort of insane to cause an innocent life born
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:09 PM

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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 04:05 PM)
Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism.

At least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature.

Correct me if I am wrong.
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You're wrong. Depends on where they are on the spectrum.
Some can't speak and communicate for life. Higher chances of mental illnesses like schizophrenia as well.
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QUOTE(Marcion @ Dec 9 2023, 04:07 PM)
Can really abort it ? Was it legal in Malaysia? I curious, I through is illegal.
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fak malaysia or which ever country that dont let me abort it.....tell them to bear the cost till they age 99 la...all kecut bola liao
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:09 PM

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Abort if detected. No need to think.
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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Dec 9 2023, 04:58 PM)
Autism can't detect during pregnancy

Downy can be detected. Can be aborted if you know where.
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just punch her in the stomach. or push he down the stairs
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but how much we talking about the cost to check this thinggy?if mahal like cb then i also understand y ppl no 1 to check geh
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:13 PM

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QUOTE(teehk_tee @ Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM)
medically, its testable and doctors will abort the baby if found
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How do you test for autism? Down syndrome can la

QUOTE(cuddlybubblyteddy @ Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM)
Can. First tri semester

And usually the doctor will advice you to abort the fetus
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Autism or down syndrome?
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:14 PM

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QUOTE(h4r8_kIlLeR @ Dec 9 2023, 04:10 PM)
just punch her in the stomach. or push he down the stairs
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That one B10 method
M40 still have better options
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post Dec 9 2023, 04:16 PM

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QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM)
conlanfirm abort la dey

if wife no understand..ill abort her too
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Your thinking like this, no wonder forever alone lor


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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 04:05 PM)
Down Syndrome is much more worse than Autism.

At least autism usually not a sickness. Your kid will become normal as the grow and mature.

Correct me if I am wrong.
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No, severe autism can be as bad or worse than downs from the mental perspective, just no physical deformity as well
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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:16 PM)
Your thinking like this, no wonder forever alone lor
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it is a logical way

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QUOTE(debonairs91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:13 PM)
How do you test for autism? Down syndrome can la
Autism or down syndrome?
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There is no test for autism. In fact it can't even be diagnosed properly until the child is 1-2 year old
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QUOTE(teehk_tee @ Dec 9 2023, 04:03 PM)
medically, its testable and doctors will abort the baby if found
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Which country lol? Sure not malaysia

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post Dec 9 2023, 04:19 PM

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Sure a lot of people will say "Deii ... kasi chan". icon_idea.gif

The reply is ... "My wife didn't give me a chance unless I am the guy she wants ... why should I give a chance to a kid that isn't what I want?" hmm.gif

Interesting how that works ... a lot of people want other people to "kasi chan" ... when they wouldn't do the same rclxms.gif

QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM)
conlanfirm abort la dey

if wife no understand..ill abort her too
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QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 04:17 PM)
hah no wonder u so suksessfull
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Mine just better than you a bit. It's better for other people to kill than i personally do it myself. Itu saje
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QUOTE(joe_star @ Dec 9 2023, 04:17 PM)
There is no test for autism. In fact it can't even be diagnosed properly until the child is 1-2 year old
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u just found the killer on that autism murdered kid liao....now u know who is the hidden suspect (not to spill the beans 1st to the media)

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Can also get schizophrenia if they like marijuana. icon_idea.gif

Schizophrenia is an equal opportunity condition brows.gif

QUOTE(thesoothsayer @ Dec 9 2023, 04:09 PM)
You're wrong. Depends on where they are on the spectrum.
Some can't speak and communicate for life. Higher chances of mental illnesses like schizophrenia as well.
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Down Syndrome != Autism
detect with NICC test.. if detected, doctor will advise abort..
yes legal to abort since baby got birth defect

Autism can only detect around 2 years old


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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:17 PM)
Which country lol? Sure not malaysia
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legally it's not called abortion, but it's practiced by selective few
those who knows, knows.
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When you come to that stage, you will know what to do. If everybody say cannot but it doesn't affect them but you only.
Illegal or not - you come to that stage doctor will advise you. Private will ask u when you and ur wife go do check up. Traditional they measure the neck width from the Xray. U pay is to do actual test - which is much more accurate.
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Abortion, like other crimes ... it's only illegal if you get caught.

I repeat what I said elsewhere ...

Nobody in Malaysia with political weight will dare to clearly say "Abortion is illegal in Malaysia" ...
but
- We are an Islamic country hmm.gif
- That polices how people dress rclxms.gif
- But doesn't allow virginity testing icon_idea.gif

Quite confusing really, but that is the story of Malaysia. Avoiding the hard questions and commitment, but muddling through day by day, while basking in social restrictions, that don't apply to the attractive, connected and rich ... while talking about "meritocracy" and "social contract" brows.gif

QUOTE(seather @ Dec 9 2023, 04:21 PM)
Down Syndrome != Autism
detect with NICC test.. if detected, doctor will advise abort..
yes legal to abort since baby got birth defect

Autism can only detect around 2 years old
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QUOTE(Rusty Nail @ Dec 9 2023, 05:14 PM)
That one B10 method
M40 still have better options
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m40 non muslim you mean
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QUOTE(stanck @ Dec 9 2023, 04:23 PM)
When you come to that stage, you will know what to do. If everybody say cannot but it doesn't affect them but you only.
Illegal or not - you come to that stage doctor will advise you. Private will ask u when you and ur wife go do check up. Traditional they measure the neck width from the Xray. U pay is to do actual test - which is much more accurate.
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Nope. I don't think Muslim will agree

It's relative to which religion and upbringing you are bought up

QUOTE(AnimeSinceForever @ Dec 9 2023, 04:24 PM)
Abortion, like other crimes ... it's only illegal if you get caught.

I repeat what I said elsewhere ...

Nobody in Malaysia with political weight will dare to clearly say "Abortion is illegal in Malaysia" ...
but
- We are an Islamic country hmm.gif
- That polices how people dress rclxms.gif
- But doesn't allow virginity testing icon_idea.gif

Quite confusing really, but that is the story of Malaysia. Avoiding the hard questions and commitment, but muddling through day by day, while basking in social restrictions, that don't apply to the attractive, connected and rich ... while talking about "meritocracy" and "social contract" brows.gif
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Nobody likes answer that they doesn't want to hear... Addressing the elephant in the room is one thing, taking the elephant out is another.

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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM)
I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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General guideline. No.

You can't commit a murder.
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QUOTE(talexeh @ Dec 9 2023, 03:48 PM)
Title mentions down syndrome but post written autism instead.

Down syndrome & autism are 2 different things.
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Maybe TS is both.
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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:29 PM)
General guideline. No.

You can't commit a murder.
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This is true. You can only abort if the child risk the health of the mom.

Like I mentioned, u guys happy gives answer when you have not even come to this stage.
If u use religion as argument, u will already have answer. If that's the case, don't ever ask the doctor to even test or give u answer. That's why private practice ask you u advance what is your view.

Once u come to this stage u will figure out.
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QUOTE(asx26365 @ Dec 9 2023, 03:40 PM)
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Apples and oranges.

Downs is a genetic condition that can be detected thru genetic testing of the amniotic fluid, though it’s a risky procedure to get the fluid.

Autism is a developmental and neurological condition that cannot be tested for in utero.
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QUOTE(AnimeSinceForever @ Dec 9 2023, 04:24 PM)
Abortion, like other crimes ... it's only illegal if you get caught.

I repeat what I said elsewhere ...

Nobody in Malaysia with political weight will dare to clearly say "Abortion is illegal in Malaysia" ...
but
- We are an Islamic country hmm.gif
- That polices how people dress rclxms.gif
- But doesn't allow virginity testing icon_idea.gif

Quite confusing really, but that is the story of Malaysia. Avoiding the hard questions and commitment, but muddling through day by day, while basking in social restrictions, that don't apply to the attractive, connected and rich ... while talking about "meritocracy" and "social contract" brows.gif
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Abortion not illegal here, doctors are empowered to do so if they judge that health and life of the mother is at risk from carrying on with the pregnancy. Mothers who have a second pregnancy too soon after a C section birth do abort.
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Down syndrome and autism lain la
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post Dec 9 2023, 05:23 PM

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Can detect.

Will abort.

My cousin did that in the late 90s, not in My though.

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post Dec 9 2023, 05:26 PM

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abort, its act of mercy for both the kid and parents. both don't need to suffer for life.
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QUOTE(thkent91 @ Dec 9 2023, 04:17 PM)
Which country lol? Sure not malaysia
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Dont pancut awal first, its legal in Malaysia provided fullfil certain condition.
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Some may find the following info useful:

About abortion in Malaysia
https://www.moh.gov.my/moh/images/gallery/G...%20in%20MOH.pdf

About detecting autism during pregnancy
https://www.medicoexperts.com/signs-of-auti...ring-pregnancy/

make of it what you will.


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100% abort
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pls spend a little extra to get tested during pregnancy
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QUOTE(poco loco @ Dec 9 2023, 03:49 PM)
conlanfirm abort la dey

if wife no understand..ill abort her too
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Autism cannot be detected until 2 years of age

But dont mean once detect autism can kill


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QUOTE(debonairs91 @ Dec 9 2023, 05:13 PM)
How do you test for autism? Down syndrome can la
Autism or down syndrome?
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Oops, Down syndrome
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I am just asking on behalf of my innocence on this.
now alr 2023, why does the gov did not encourage all parents with potential disable baby go for abortion? Why go extra length and wait for parents initiative to take the bullet then only do it?

I mean it will do good for everyone also right?


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depend on u whether u can handle or not lor
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Autism can’t detect during pregnancy la
Downy yes, one the purpose doc monitor your baby length because it’s one the indicator.
Start with the cheaper option which is detail scan.
The doc will refer u to HKL if they found ur baby have all the downy criteria.

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Autism =/= Down Syndrome
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Will abort as i do not want everyone to suffer and not dictated by relegion
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When is elon musk going to come out with genetic engineered baby ??
BTW elon also autistic. There goes a genius. Maybe more....

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QUOTE(statikinetic @ Dec 9 2023, 03:42 PM)
Down syndrome can detect.
Confirm abort.

No need two sides suffer.
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QUOTE(Singh_Kalan @ Dec 9 2023, 07:30 PM)
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The question is how accurate the test is?

Do you potentially kill a normal human to be?

Is fetus consider human/life by your moral book?


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Saikopek syndrome can't be detect
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Autism cannot be detected during pregnancy, autism can be managed if detected early in the kid’s life.

Down syndrome can be tested during pregnancy
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AFAIK, both down syndrome and autism will bring parents and kids disaster for life. I might say nightmares hunting you for life.

Your life as couples will be broken for life.
Your life as parents will be broken for life.
Your career and hobbies will be end road.
You will have sleepness nights for the rest of your life.
Both husband and wife couldn't travel abroad and leave your child alone at home even if your child reaches 18.
Both mum and dad will need to take care of your kid for the rest of your life even during your retirement life as your kid is unable to take care of himself/herself
Results in more and more arguments between child, parents, spouse, parents-in-law etc
Results in hate more than love between parents and your child.
The worst part is... your kid doesn't even know you are his dad/mum even if your kid matures. THINK ABOUT IT

Basically is like taking care of a very ill patient on bed for the rest of your life without having any time for rests.

You will eventually think that if can turn back time, I rather not having any child or even getting married in the first place.
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QUOTE(Marcion @ Dec 9 2023, 05:07 PM)
Can really abort it ? Was it legal in Malaysia? I curious, I through is illegal.
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I heard if proven before birthday that the baby have any issue like down sydrome or mother have health issue, it is allowed
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If confirmed. Confirm abort. Don't make his life hard and yours as well.
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I am just asking on behalf of my innocence on this.
now alr 2023, why does the gov did not encourage all parents with potential disable baby go for abortion? Why go extra length and wait for parents initiative to take the bullet then only do it?

I mean it will do good for everyone also right?
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you say test then people must test ah? you take the god for what?
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The question is how accurate the test is?

Do you potentially kill a normal human to be?

Is fetus consider human/life by your moral book?
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nothing is 100% accurate anyway

a detection of down syndrome DNA/marker is just a number, a result for couple & doc to discuss and decide best course of action

yeah, definition of a foetus varies, whether considered a human or still considered basic cell organism still in development.

this portion need the couple to work out and decide.

if to abort, doc can legally do the procedure (I guess it's called ERPOC) with test results, doc assessment, and consent from couple.
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Yes can detect to a degree if I remember correctly, I not a dr myself

Yes I will abort but I will let wife have final say because her body
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Down syndrome can detect but autism cannot
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if < certain month to consider as "life" then yes

thats why NICC test need to as early as possible

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QUOTE(Sone Shin @ Dec 9 2023, 07:41 PM)
The question is how accurate the test is?

Do you potentially kill a normal human to be?

Is fetus consider human/life by your moral book?
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if u take the test earlier ..then u can go "seek for second opinion"

if few report from different source also claim that

ultimately it's your choice to choose to believe or not


from doc perspective ..if fetus > 16 weeks they will only consider as "life"

and NICC can take as early as 12 weeks

so u got 1 month to think n decide

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I am not expert. But mengandung autism baby can detect or not? If yes, u abort also?

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QUOTE(fantasy1989 @ Dec 9 2023, 08:16 PM)
if u take the test earlier ..then u can go "seek for second opinion"

if few report from different source also claim that

ultimately it's your choice to choose to believe or not
from doc perspective ..if fetus > 16 weeks they will only consider as "life"

and NICC can take as early as 12 weeks

so u got 1 month to think n decide
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its not opinion anymore if tasted positive down syndrome
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QUOTE(teslaman @ Dec 9 2023, 08:18 PM)
its not opinion anymore if tasted positive down syndrome
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he/she is questioning on the accuracy of the test ma

then he/she can go different place to take n confirm lor


if not then he/she can just choose to ignore and move on to deliver the baby

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he/she is questioning on the accuracy of the test ma

then he/she can go different place to take n confirm lor
if not then he/she can just choose to ignore and move on to deliver the baby
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cb TS ask to discuss but never bother to replied any or discuss any
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During my time, there weren't any accurate test that could 100% determine that. From what my brother and cousin told me, right now nicc test can achieve 99%... I think the reason they put 99% is to avoid being sued
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QUOTE(submergedx @ Dec 11 2023, 08:51 AM)
cb TS ask to discuss but never bother to replied any or discuss any
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TS is retarded with down syndrome because he can't differentiate between down syndrome and autism.
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Later got unborn baby spirit

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Autism cannot detect, down syndrome can, cost about 1.2k when I did it few years back. 1.2k is nothing compared to the costs to be incurred down the road if really kena down syndrome baby,
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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Dec 11 2023, 09:04 AM)
Autism cannot detect, down syndrome can, cost about 1.2k when I did it few years back. 1.2k is nothing compared to the costs to be incurred down the road if really kena down syndrome baby,
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how they check ? how early can check within first trimester can confirm ?
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how they check ? how early can check within first trimester can confirm ?
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Done around 3-4months.
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QUOTE(MPIK @ Dec 9 2023, 07:44 PM)
AFAIK, both down syndrome and autism will bring parents and kids disaster for life. I might say nightmares hunting you for life.

Your life as couples will be broken for life.
Your life as parents will be broken for life.
Your career and hobbies will be end road.
You will have sleepness nights for the rest of your life.
Both husband and wife couldn't travel abroad and leave your child alone at home even if your child reaches 18.
Both mum and dad will need to take care of your kid for the rest of your life even during your retirement life as your kid is unable to take care of himself/herself
Results in more and more arguments between child, parents, spouse, parents-in-law etc
Results in hate more than love between parents and your child.
The worst part is... your kid doesn't even know you are his dad/mum even if your kid matures. THINK ABOUT IT

Basically is like taking care of a very ill patient on bed for the rest of your life without having any time for rests.

You will eventually think that if can turn back time, I rather not having any child or even getting married in the first place.
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it will ruin your life, i've seen on my mum's friend family, until age 60+ still has to take care of their downy children which age 30+, unable to travel like normal people, cannot enjoy retirement life, has to hire a filipino maid to take care of the children.
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QUOTE(Ayambetul @ Dec 11 2023, 09:01 AM)
No diff

Ktard oledi fap the child into toilet daily
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Already grow in the fetus

Very different
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QUOTE(yhtan @ Dec 11 2023, 09:32 AM)
it will ruin your life, i've seen on my mum's friend family, until age 60+ still has to take care of their downy children which age 30+, unable to travel like normal people, cannot enjoy retirement life, has to hire a filipino maid to take care of the children.
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U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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you are talking down yea... not no limbs / legs yea...
Lack of limbs/legs can claim alot of gov incentive... but down basically your life is tied... and must not died before the end of the baby
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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 11:17 AM)
U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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My mum did asked this question, the answer is both of them agree to abort, husband and wife did suffer major setback in the beginning, a lot of argument and effort to take care of the children.

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now will say yes cause belum pregnant or whatever but when really pregnant time, will really think long and hard.
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1st. most of those who have their baby down syndrome mostly aged woman around 35 and above
2nd. so it doesnt matter for them its a precious baby, they probably have been trying for years too
3rd. its a baby human anyway. no matter how deficient, a mother will love

now ask yourself if you've been taking care of a blind dog/cat. you bond for 9 months. sure taking care of it is difficult, they cannot see where to defecate or urinate, so are you going to kill that dog/cat because its blind?
if you are then i got nothing else to say
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U got ask them if given the choice which would they prefer? For all you know they are very happy and satisfied.

Special kids have their pros and cons also.
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if down syndrome, got what pros?
if the kid age 40-50 but mental is age 5 only...what pros? hmm.gif
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already aborted when I have past the age of 35. any woman over 35 should know the risk and abort too.
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QUOTE(Pain4UrsinZ @ Dec 9 2023, 03:43 PM)
autism and down syndrome different

autism difficult to test and cannot abort
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Cannot do legally but can illegally
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When is elon musk going to come out with genetic engineered baby ??
BTW elon also autistic.  There goes a genius.  Maybe more....
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QUOTE(M4A1 @ Dec 11 2023, 12:05 PM)
if down syndrome, got what pros?
if the kid age 40-50 but mental is age 5 only...what pros? hmm.gif
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Can go YouTube and FB where the parents share their daily activities with their special kids.

There is always two side of the coin, [B] like MCA vs DAP
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Buddhists believe that life should not be destroyed, but they regard causing death as morally wrong only if the death is caused deliberately or by negligence. Traditional Buddhism rejects abortion because it involves the deliberate destroying of a life. Buddhists regard life as starting at conception


Not sure any opinions on the above, but say karma retribution is real and to Buddists abortion is akin to killing your own offspring (a sin that is very hard to erase), means multiplying such bad karma. To Buddhism, abortion is not about kindness and will halt any future reincarnations of the soul, which put the aborted into intense hatred towards the 'aborter'.
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QUOTE(cms @ Dec 11 2023, 12:23 PM)
Can go YouTube and FB where the parents share their daily activities with their special kids.

There is always two side of the coin, [B] like MCA vs DAP
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those are when they parent are still young

like above shared
what if parent are age 90-100 (bed ridden)

1. who gonna take care the special kids?
2. the special kid got enough money and skill to support themselves ONLY? got job
i dun even talk about terbalik take care bed ridden parent. i doubt those down syndrome can even take care back the parent , drive around see doc and etc.

talk is easy...video is easy.
try real life baru tahu
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possibility can do test by 10 weeks.. must do to prepare if u decide to go ahead so, next 7 months u can prepare..no right o wrong. alot of ppl abort baby everyday in MY.
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Can detect.
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I am pro-abortion.. Too bad it's illegal in Malaysia

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Illegal ka? 90% of the reply here say will abort wo.
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Majority of the ppl jere never even read the first post by TS.

TS asking can detect autism before full term or not la.

Malaysian really sibeh sohai i am speechless. Democracy isvery bad when majority of the population is dumb as fuck.
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Illegal ka? 90% of the reply here say will abort wo.
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Of course it's illegal lah.. Same as drugs

From Wikipedia

Abortion in Malaysia is generally legal to save the life of the mother or in cases where their physical or mental health is at risk, for the first 120 days (approximately 4 months) of gestation, as regulated under Sections 312–316 of the Penal Code.[1] However, specific legislation varies by state. Access to abortion in Malaysia has been hampered by religious, cultural and social stigmas against abortion, poor awareness of abortion legislation among health professionals[2] and the high cost of abortion services in the private health sector.[3][4][5] As a result, risky unsafe abortions are prevalent in Malaysia.

As a Muslim country, Malaysia also has a dual legal system with Muslims being subject to Sharia law. In 2002, the National Fatwa Council issued a fatwa permitting abortion up to 120 days of gestation in cases when the mother's life is in danger or fetal impairment. Abortion on the grounds of rape, and incest are still illegal.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abortion_in_Malaysia
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No need two sides suffer.
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this i agreed unless you are well off even after the parent not around there's enough money to take care of the children. if not, when the parents close eye the children will suffer on their own. so might as well make the cruel decision rather than both sides suffer later.

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If got any genetic defect can detect during pregnancy, abort without a doubt. Luckily both of ayam dotter turn out fine and very healthy so far.

Legal or illegal there is a way to get it done in Malaysia.



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Well, you can always go Singapore or Taiwan to abort it and nobody gonna know about it

 

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