QUOTE(hksgmy @ Aug 18 2023, 10:19 AM)
The problem with many of us is that we define certain things through very narrow lenses. “DAP” = “chauvinist”, “PAS” = “Taliban”.
That’s usually overly simplistic and grossly inaccurate.
Similarly, “Help” as you’ve offered it to your friend was definite by many as “needing to lend him your own money”, whereas a more refined solution would be to offer help in other ways that aim to achieve a favourable outcome for your friend, while minimising the potential of harm to yourself.
Well done, my friend.
Keep positive ok? The world would be a better place if most people have a mature mindset like you, you have my respect.
QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Aug 18 2023, 10:50 AM)
Why so sohai pinjam rm3000. U can get it from any bank for personal loan. Nowadays bank also lower their bar to ah long level, they give out personal loan like nobody business but they charge insane interest also. At least bank won't use red paint or threaten you or family member. They just blacklist u from future loans.
TS your friend so weird.
Usually ppl go ah long cos desperate due to addictions and stuff. But u insist he never have those kind of tendency then why he go take the rm3000? For extra pocket money? That's just so stupid pinjam duit on a whim.
What you want me to beat my friend until he tell me the truth why he borrowed RM3000 from ah long is it? You there already know only desperate people go find ah long, then why still asking "Why not go borrow from bank?". Apa la